I'm a 29 y/o single dad with primary custody, college education, $50k office job. I'm living with my parents and deleted social media a while back, so I'm in extreme scarcity. I plan on buying a home within the next year however.

Girls tell me that I'm hot but end up leaving when I fall into their frame. My last plate told me "I'm so hot that I shouldn't have to be weird about things". Something clearly isn't working and I'm trying to gauge whether it's SMV or my frame or both.