Alright so i've been subbed for around 5 months now so I guess you can call me a newbie to TRP, i've read through most of No More Mr Nice Guy and have stopped trying to get people's approval, i've adopted an individualist attitude and started to see that people don't actually mind that i'm no longer a nice guy.
I'm 17 so i'm no financially independent and was raised by a single mom which probably made me into the neckbeard white knight I was for so long before swallowing the red pill. She works full time and expects that I do domestic chores that are usually a woman's job but i'm not sure how I should react to this. I also live with my BB uncle that has his moments of alpha personality when he's not being passive aggressive and or being his gf's bitch.
I however am overweight after spending years not exercising and playing video games all day. I've lived in paris for the last two years but haven't quite mastered the language which makes it difficult to apply game that i've read that is all in english. I'll be starting a gym membership tomorrow and plan to drop 20 kg of fat in the next few months, i'll be doing lifting too but dropping weight is my prioritiy at the moment.
I go to a high school that has maybe 4 attractive women in my entire class which makes it difficult to game there. I've considered gaming outside of my school but since I'm fairly socially inept I often have trouble talking to people. I have a few good friends but other than that I feel like a bother to the other people I hang out with because I try to tag along with them because I don't have much of a social life.
Eating is an addiction for me and i'm constantly surrounded by unhealthy food so that doesn't make it any easier to quit. I picked up vaping nicotine as an incentive to lose weight and eat less and I smoke weed occasionally, since I don't know any dealers I'm quite reliant on friends to share even though I have the cash to buy, that's why I feel like such a mooch to any stoners I know.
I'm often depressed and unhappy due to not having a social life which is bothersome for me. How can I break out of this downward spiral and get my life in check?
I can't really game anyone for lack of mastery with the french language and am often stuck spending time by myself. I'm planning on going to university and working in switzerland once i'm 18 because the job market for young people is shit in france. Sorry for the wall of text, I have a lot of issues.
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