Hello brothers,

I need help understanding attraction. David de Angelo said "attraction isn't a choice". Rollo tomassi says "you cannot negotiate desire".

I'm trying to understand in the context of game. When we approach a girl, do we actually CREATE attraction?

And likewise, if attraction isn't a choice, how does losing attraction work?

If I approach a girl at a mall, she sees me, do only my physical characteristics define if she has attraction for me, or will have?

Sorry guys I know this is super newb but I'm slow learner.

Thanks for your help.

Sorry these are likely dumb questions.