So I’ve been with TRP for about a year now, and have developed some good habits such as lifting, focusing more on school, and trying to avoid distractions as best as possible. However, when it comes to gaming women and trying to get dates.

I’m currently in college and have yet to get with any girls (I’m a second year). In high school however, that was slightly different. I remember that in the beginning years of high school, I had a DGAF mentality and was pretty cocky, and I managed to land an HB7 and HB9, both with a HIGHER SMV than me in terms of looks.

It’s strange that now that I have my looks under control (my HS physique was pretty terrible) and am learning about how to be a proper man, I can’t seem to game or attract any women. All the girls I talk to don’t seem interested at all.

During conversations, I’m having trouble maintaining and outcome independent/IDGAF mentality, and I believe that it shows and comes off as desperate/needy because, like I said, most of the girls seem hesitant and don’t necessarily reciprocate my interest.

Does anybody have any tips or tricks on developing the ability to exude abundance and DGAF apart from the sidebar (which I’ve read multiple times)?

TL:DR - ever since I joined TRP, my ability to get with women has gotten worse, and I need help developing an abundance/DGAF/outcome independent/non-validation seeking mentality