I came home from work this morning, came into the bedroom, my fiancee is laying on the bed, in nothing but her thong. She normally sleeps in bed clothes.

Her phone is a few inches from her hand, look around the room, there's multiple beer cans laying neck to my reading chair.

Y'all probably already know where this is going. So I get into bed, the first thing she does is wake up, snatch her phone and put it on her side of the bed.

I waited for her to fall back asleep and take a look, first thing that pops up when the phone is unlocked is Facebook messager with her ex. 2 hour video call made after I went to work last night. I counted the condoms we had in the box, of course there's a few missing from the box. Pretty cut and dry, I'm out.

The thing I need advice on is our lives are very intertwined. She's trying to get her kid back from DHR (false allegations, she did nothing wrong).

If I kick her out, she'll be homeless with no way to get her child. We have alot of mutual friends, practically all of them, we've known each other ten years.

So, if I simply end the relationship cut and dry, there's alot of potential backlash coming my way do to the child.

Hell, known her for ten years, best friend for five, been together almost two years. Vetting doesn't doesn't solve everything, oh well.

But any advice would be greatly appreciated.