Hi guys, long time RP lurker here. Knowing what I know now, I'm a bit confused when it comes to my current relationship.

Long story short, I'm (was?) a 24 yr old virgin. Currently suffer from depression and all that good stuff. Friends tried to hook me up with some random chicks. One of them, about a month ago, actually messages me first basically asking me what I think of her. Let's keep in mind she's somewhat overweight. Not obese but she's def got more than a few extra pounds on her.

My initial reaction was pretty much ew, but being the lonely guy that I've become, I say fuck it and go with it, even though I'm not sexually attracted to her at all.

A month later now, she's spent almost every night at my house. She's seen me at my worst (crying, talking about suicide, asking me if I'm a virigin). We mess around, there hasn't really been any sex, except for once, briefly.

Ok now this is where I don't know what to do. Honestly the companionship is nice for a change, but everything about RP theory tells me this chick should have been gone long ago. Yet she insists on coming back and says she likes me for some reason.

Keep in mind that she has tinder, and okcupid. She's even admitted she's on there for the attention and to feel "pretty". She says she deleted tinder and doesn't log onto okcupid anymore, though I can see her log in times on okcupid, but she says it's her best friend that has her account.

Any advice on this? What is she really after? What's she really doing? This morning she changed her passcode on her phone because I was teasing her that I would go through it although I never had any intentions cause that's just invasion of privacy in my book. I do have trust issues regardless.

Oh and she's kind of new to the city and supposedly got depressed when she moved down here due to family issues and not having any friends here, and that's when she gained the weight.

Bottom line, is this chick for real or am I being played? Keep in mind I am kind of an asshole to her and have basically told her that she's fat and could lose weight, that I'm not attracted, and I tell her she has to pay for shit half the time cause that's not how it works.