Negging

imgonnabethegreatest · 2015-06-01T08:17:56+00:00

Well, first off, don't neg women with low self-esteem as it will completely drive them away.

Next you should understand how negging works. When you tease a girl, it shows good social knowledge because you know how far to go without overdoing it(you'll learn the limit with practice) and it also shows you have a good sense of humor/don't take life too seriously.(playful mastery) It also separates you from supplicating men that do everything to try to win them over. There's more to it but you can educate yourself via rational male or other outlets.

Super-Saiyajin · 2015-06-02T01:22:49+00:00

Quick list of negs I found online.

You blink a lot!

2.

You: Have I told you how beautiful you look tonight?

Her: No.

You: Oh, well that’s okay. I don’t mind lying if it will get me somewhere. (Kino her and give her a real sly smile, maybe a wink)

credits: Mystery

3.

Your pretty face don’t match that nasty attitude!

4.

My god you’re adorable! You’re so small, you’re like a real-life doll!

5.

I wish you were brunette. I’m taking a break from blondes for a while.

6.

Do you always talk this much?

7.

Aww that’s cute… your nose wiggles when you laugh.

8.

Eww you spit on me! (Brush off your face).

9. I like your eyes, especially the left one.

10. Weren’t you wearing this dress the last time you were here?

11. Excuse me may I finish my sentence first?

ME: [looking disapprovingly at her head] Doing your hair like that is only going to attract the wrong kind of guy. GIRL: [if she’s cool and witty] Are you saying you’re the wrong kind of guy? ME: Since I noticed that hairstyle, I must be.

credits: heartiste.wordpress.com

12.

[after girl bumps into you] Hey, if you wanted to meet me, you could just say Hi.

13.

[also after a girl bumps into you]: Nice shot!

14.

Hey, buddy!

15.

You have beautiful eyes. Can I touch them?

Use this one on really hot girls that also dress hot. If she’s dressed average, you might as well slap yourself and get it over with.

Hey, I just wanted to tell you that I love that top/dress. It’s really cool how it matches/complements the rest of your outfit. In fact… I remember I saw the exact same top/dress in that popular second hand store downtown. It still looks great, though.

17.

You:You know, come to think of it… I just don’t think we are right for each-other.

Her: Why not?

I just think you’re too much of a nice girl for me. You’re too good to me, that’s it!

18.

Hmmm.. Is that an Adam’s apple? (Try to take a closer look at it) Oh, I guess not.

19.

I gotta be honest here. When I first saw you you looked like the biggest bitch in the club… but now that I got to know you, you’re actually a really cool person.

20.

Her: I’m not going to sleep with you.

You: That’s great! I didn’t have the heart to tell you that but all I want is to have a normal, decent conversation for once. Don’t worry, the sea is full of fish for the both of us, we’ll both have no trouble at all finding someone. - See more at: http://www.lifestylegod.com/100-stellar-negs-that-will-spark-primitive-attraction-in-a-woman#sthash.4yMVfWbx.dpuf

648262 · 2015-06-01T09:48:50+00:00

You know when you're with your friends and you give each other shit and it's just fun and games? It's fun and games because you're equals and none of it changes that. That is the same as negging.

The idea is to create an atmosphere where you treat her like a normal person. She is probably used to people treating her like a princess when they approach her, if she is extremely hot.

This in term might make her try to qualify herself as she wants to get back to her feeling like a princess by making you understand she is a princess. You get her attention.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-06-01T13:27:17+00:00

The classical example is from that movie, iirc. American Pie was it?

The dude is dancing at a party (has anyone ever actually BEEN to a party where there's dancing?) and he bumps into the girl and spills his beer. Then he turns around, calls her a skank and tells her to be more careful.

It helps to deflate a girl's Female Ego Quantum Singularity.

fnordsnord · 2015-06-05T05:16:23+00:00

Feminists in particular and mainstreamers in general misinsterpret negging.

It's not "girls are turned on by being insulted." Nor is it "girls will like you if you insult them."

A "neg" is FAR more subtle than an insult. In fact, if you can legitimately call it an "insult," it's too heavy-handed.

A carefully nuanced neg can do two things: first, it sets you apart from the pack of thirsty, supplicating betas who have been telling her how perfect she is all her life.

Second, again, carefully nuanced, it can, in fact, trigger the qualification process. If you have done it RIGHT, she will start trying to qualify herself to YOU.

Title	Negging
Author	TryMeDarling
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Date	June 1, 2015 8:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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