Sup.

I'm 35, single. Don't really want to stay that way forever. In the past, I've done the following:

-Lost 30 pounds over the course of a summer to get thin; an attempt to increase SMW before I even knew what it is. Went out and dated with the intent of forming a LTR. (Lifting)

-Studied PUA and applied techniques.

-Used online dating services, again with the intent of forming something leading to an LTR.

-Utilized meetup.com to join various party and single groups.

-Joined two different churches.

-Frequented nightclubs.

-Joined a fraternity with the hope of not just meeting women, but having good times.

I applied a lot of effort into all of these "ventures," and they have all ended in relative failure. I'm trying to figure out a new way to approach things so that things work out better this time. Any ideas?