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14

We should really leave movie stars and top athletes out of this kind of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:37 AM
51

Go slow! slow is always better than fast with girls, tease her a lot, don't go straight to the main sexual parts. touch her/lick her around them first, then touch them "accidentally" , only when is she super craving for it - go for it but then also start slow and build it up gradually. Make sure she is feeling safe and comfortable - that plays a huge factor in women reaching an orgasm.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:02 AM
3

Well you got courage points no matter what the outcome so good job!
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:43 AM
6

Well yeah but obviously single dudes can be just as desirable... the trick is to have that abundance mindset of a guy who have gorgeous gf and not the mindset of a needy lonely dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:42 PM
34

I don’t want to blatantly reject a girl that knows where I live and can cause problems, some girls are nuts dude
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 03:57 AM
51

It’s true but from my (bad) experience I very much prefer to meet the girl at public first and see if I like her and if we got a good vibe going before I get her into my house.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 03:45 AM
3

very well put
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:49 AM
11

It’s just banter as I see it, see in yourself why it offend you so much
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:16 AM
13

From what I can gather it seems like you are talking too much and making too much effort on the date. You should let her do most of the talking, ask questions. Remain a mystery to the point she won’t be able to say much about your personality.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:08 AM
3

Its true with some grey area, let’s say there is an interest scale 1-10 , 7 and above the women will let you know in all kind of ways she is into you, however in the 5-6 range they are not not interested but will not going to give out too many signals as their interest level is not high enough but still there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:28 AM
7

I once heard a beautiful sentence: “ If you will look for freedom you will never find freedom, if you will look for discipline you might find freedom”
/r/MGTOW224/06/20 08:18 AM
16

Change your mindset, you said you are trying to get into the “I’m the prize” mindset right? So ask yourself, does the prize really need to try hard to “pull em home”? Just make your approach and let them know you interested. That’s all you need to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 11:50 AM
63

You seem to be doing fine and on the right path, much better then 99% of guys who won’t even dare to talk to girls. One thing I would tell you is to chill. When you go out with your friends just be in the mind set of having fun and enjoying yourself. Approach girls sure but don’t get stressed or get too too much in the “hunt mode” mentality.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:39 AM
1

Yep coffee is awesome and less pressure
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:51 AM
14

Yeah cool and all but this is not real , it’s TV shit
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 05:17 AM
3

Why play life on hard mode when you can choose the easy one
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:56 AM
2

Easy solution is to move to Thailand or any other Asian country where your height is pretty much in the normal range for local males and the girls are smaller
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:09 AM
14

This Lighten up OP don’t take life too seriously
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:07 PM
2

This. If a girl is into someone she would literally fly across the the globe for him.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:18 PM
1

Don’t have any issue at all
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:34 AM
1

Addiction of any kind is not good. You should seek out professional help or some support group.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:28 AM
4

You are missing the point here. You don’t need to be funny or interesting for people to like you. You need to be interested in THEM. Try and smile more and express genuine interest in others. Read the Bible of this by Dale Carnegie, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:24 PM
2

thanks I am going to check it out tonight,
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:37 PM
1

thanks, i'm super glad to hear
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:36 PM
2

Sure, TV shows and movies are usually built around Drama and conflicts, we get emotionally involve in that - that causes stress in the body.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:36 PM
1

Great comment. can you tell me the name of that timer app that lock's up your phone for 30 min?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 09:15 AM
3

Thanks for that, english is not my first language (as you could probably tell ) so I appreciate the grammar help. fixed that.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 09:14 AM
2

don't start with 30 min, start with 5 or even 3 min and build yourself up to it. try counting your breath's to build up your focus. if this still doesn't work for you, try some guided meditation for relaxation, there are lot's of free stuff on youtube.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 09:11 AM
21

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ataraxia had no idea. this is super interesting.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 05:34 PM
19

sauna is a great suggestion, I am going to try it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 05:14 PM
14

Stop smoking it’s a horrible and very unhealthy habit. I use to smoke, reading the book “the easy way to stop smoking” by Aleen Carr was my saving grace, this book is like a miracle if you want to quit.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:05 PM
3

Personally as someone who is trained in both mauy Thai and Krav Maga , I would always try the hardest that I can to avoid any physical conflicts, specially silly ones like the one you get yourself involve with. There are simply no good endings. You either get hurt yourself or you hurt someone else and get into legal issues. Next time, try to be the better men by controlling your emotions and defusing the situation rather then escalating it and trying to win some pointless ego battle with a compl…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:41 PM
2

It’s a numbers game my dude, not something to analyze too deeply. Just be happy that you took action. Keep it simple, forget about PUA garbage, approach approach approach and everything will be fine,
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:33 PM
1

The problem here is not the girl rejecting you , it’s you over thinking/analyzing this shit. If you want to play this game you better get use to this and develop zero fucks given attitude.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:21 AM
3

I did laser surgery. Glasses removed , can see like Superman. Best decision ever.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:17 AM
5

You need to change your reasoning when talking to girls. Right now it seems that it’s something like: she’s hot - I need to impress by telling interesting stories, being funny/interesting, etc Change that to: I’m the prize here and there is no need to impress no one . Let’s ask her questions about herself to see if she is worthy of of time and companionship.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:11 PM
6

There are good reasons why the recommendation is so stick with logistics. Many times noobs will have a horrible “text game” and will basically going to turn off the girl from wanting to date them at all. Second reason which should apply to us all: ideally you are living a busy life and spending very little time on your phone and therefore keeping your messages to logistics only.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:50 AM
1

Deadlift , bench press and squat. add any other accessory exercises that you want but make sure you include the first 3 and you will be just fine.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:14 PM
3

Please follow this advice
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:11 PM
1

Sidebar guide
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:46 PM
18

Yep you should Back off and see what happens, the relationship can not be one sided and this will not end well.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:03 AM
2

So let me get this straight , you are upset that you don’t feel sad or heart broken after stop seeing a girl ? Is this a humble brag? If not and this is actual concern , then you can chill , this is a good thing as all human relationship will come to an end and having this kind of stoic attitude is what we all should try and adapt.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 07:25 PM
2

how would you send a msg to a friend of yours that you want to set up a basketball game with? treat her the same
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:39 PM
2

ok so I would skip this thing: Sometimes later same day I text something like "Was nice to meet you. [name]" also I would wait 2-3 days till you message her, built some suspense and let her wonder if you actually going to contact her. then I would just send a very generic msg to set up a meeting like: "Hey it's the gorgeous dude from the library, when are you free this week to get together"
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:32 PM
3

doesn't seem to be anything wrong with what you do. how long after you getting the number you texting them? also give me an example of a failed test attempt
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:56 PM
3

how about you describe some recent approach you had
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:47 PM
2

hard to say what you are doing wrong irl without watching you, obviously there is something wrong if you approach so many girls and none of them are into meeting you later
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:44 PM
6

seems like she is keeping you as some kind of an Orbiter. forget this chick. go for the ones that show high interest in you
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:30 PM
2

It ALWAYS ends with me getting number and girl either ghosting me or not responding via text. this got nothing to do with your "text game". there Is no text game. we use text only for logistic purposes. if she ghost you it means you failed to leave a good impression on her when you meet her irl and that should be your focus.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:26 PM
7

10 days silent meditation retreat
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:25 AM
2

Weight loss is not linear. Don’t worry about the scale so much, just keep eating in deficit and you are bound to drop body fat.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:27 AM
4

this. whenever there is any doubt there is no doubt.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:00 AM
2

its not easy because we have been program to do give a fuck, and for a good reason. in the old days when we were living in very small tribes - it was highly important what other people would think of you, being outcast from the tribe was a disaster. now when we are living an individual life it doesn't matter any more so you need to reprogram that belief in yourself.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:27 AM
8

just realize you don't matter to them. you can go out to the street dress up in a clown suit with your balls hanging out while talking to yourself loudly in Chinese. when people will see you you will be on their mind for 15 seconds tops before they will forget you, and start thinking again about the only thing that truly matters to them - their own fucking life.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:09 AM
3

Fuck being 'happy', that's just another myth pushed on us to make us content with mediocrity. You are better off being a sad and angry WINNER than a happy and content LOSER. strongly disagree with you on this point. why in the fuck would I want to be sad and angry? sounds like a horrible stressful life. I would easily choose to be happy and content poor fuck who doesn't get any pussy then to be a depressed and angry millionaire who is drowning in pussy. Nature does not give a shit if you are hap…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 06:47 AM
3

few of my friends take it, no one reported any sides. personally I am not touching that shit. do not want to mess with my body natural hormone production. buzz cut + beard + tan + muscles + low body fat % = success (if you have right head shape for it)
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:40 AM
1

sidebar worthy shit right here
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:16 AM
1

if money is not an issue - replace the TV and cut this "friend" out of your life.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:45 AM
3

forget about "Text game". you text for logistic purposes to set up a time and place to meet her. if your txt's are going no where it's because you failed to leave an impression on them when you met them in real life.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:15 AM
5

this. and move on. didn't read on the news on any pussy shortage.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:05 AM
7

OP try to stop being butthurt and see that he is taking time out of his day to try and help you, you may not like his writing style but you should appreciate that. this game you have is set to failure right from the start. no women will be interested in someone who doesn't have the balls to approach her. so it doesn't really matter what txt you going to send her, it's already a losing battle.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:02 AM
3

dude no one will read this huge wall of text. try to shorten it up and remove unnecessary info
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:34 PM
6

next dude. if she was interested she would have reply to your first txt, no need for a second one.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:32 PM
60

" I’m not proper right now” = she was on her period.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:03 AM
2

my experience is similar, getting too sexual on the app is not a good idea.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 03:06 AM
21

best way I found to screen for crazy is to ignore their text msg for a good while. crazy will very often going to get very angry if you do that and start sending you multiple texts (it doesn't even have to be angry texts, even a single "?" after you not replying them for a while is a red flag for me"
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:31 AM
3

PUA is about teaching needy bitchy men how to pretend like they are not so they can manipulate their way into a women vagina.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:29 AM
1

fuck Instagram dude. go lift weights.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:32 AM
7

You have limited time, money, and emotional energy. Do not waste any more of it on a woman who isn't attracted to you. Amen.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:04 PM
48

well yeah... just stop fucking her, that will delay the orgasm
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:23 PM
3

your main problem is that you don't have options. once you will truly live in abundance and be spinning dozen of plates your attitude will change as well.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:26 PM
18

first of all, good job on cold approaching. you are doing what 98% of men are too chicken shit to do. so kudos on that. now for some advice regarding the chat you had with her you way over showered her with compliments. it's ok to let her know you think she is cute or that she look nice but don't over do it. when she ask you about your gf: don't reveal info about yourself. you made it too easy for her and also the way you said you are single seems a bit weak, just counter something like this: "g…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:15 AM
6

If it gets to that point she can go. Its not like I'm making her. exactly my point. no problem here
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:53 AM
6

I can't really see the problem here or understand your concern. how can she "use this against you" ?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:13 AM
5

just keep lifting and add weight to the bar. 84 days is nothing.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:48 AM
2

'Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.' Brad pit doesn't chase girls. and this rule is simply aiming to get you out of the "chaser mentality".
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:09 AM
2

how are these shittests? she was just having fun and flirting with you sexually. chill and have fun my dude, not everything is a test
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:32 AM
16

Who wants a date in the morning no one. tell her you are busy in the morning's and that you going to meet in the evening
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:35 AM
3

but to answer your question seriously. you need to be spinning many other plates. right now it seems she is your only prospect and that cause you to be needy. hope that helps
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:50 AM
1

talk to her and try to resolve this shit , maybe you did something to offend her.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:39 AM
1

what did you do to this chick that she is so determine to fuck up your life?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:49 AM
5

that made me laugh out loud.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:38 AM
2

check out her aging mom photos. this is how she is going to look like very soon.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:36 AM
17

if she was interested in you romantically you think she would have turn it into a group thing?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:51 AM
3

pussy.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:47 AM
2

If it is and there is a reasonable chance she won't reject me again, then hell yeah I want to get with her. ok now that you are being honest with yourself we can proceed. you need to make it clear to her right from the start that this is a date and not a friendly get together. ** also - your approach to this is all wrong. seduction is a nasty business. you either get the pussy or you get bluntly rejected. if you go to this with trying not to come too strong attitude so you can remain friends, th…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:04 AM
5

fuck 'em
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:39 AM
9

how can you be emasculated by a creature who have a fucking vagina.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:36 AM
4

she is fucking with your head and it seems to be working. just ask her if she is in or not. no reason for this silly mind games bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:35 AM
2

It would be great to get with Sarah but at the same I completely ok with also just being friends problem solved then?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 03:04 AM
1

fake it till you make it. start changing some needy behavior treats you got. for example: you said you keep qualifying yourself to girls during your dates. from now on, you will shut up about yourself and only ask her questions about her life. also develop "take it or leave it" attitude. sounds like you are trying too hard which will be very obvious for girls to spot. even if you don't really feel it inside - again fake it till you make it - example: when there is silence on the conversation don…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:23 AM
4

you need to bulk the fuck up
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:10 AM
2

have you read the sidebar? your questions telling that you haven't. "Had fun last night, let's do it again sometime" this is not a good txt. never use it. Should I send the girl from last night a snapchat or picture via text of me doing this thing? no. texting is for logistic purposes only. I thinking that if I do I would be able to accomplish 2 things, 1) Make her laugh a bit and use this as a jumping off point to set up the next date and 2) Show her subtly that I'm talking to and meeting other…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:28 PM
2

If I cold approach a girl in real life and her level of attraction to me is "mild" then I don't even need her in my life. "Fuck yes! or No" is how I roll; If a girl is not ALL in then I'm out. Sure, fuck yes or No is a great rule to live by, after she actually knows who you are. but any girl that is FUCK YES! ALL IN! after knowing you for 5 minutes is probably a little bit insane or desperate af. nothing wrong with girl attraction level to you to be mild in the beginning. just like your attracti…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:38 PM
3

If a text is enough to turn the girl off then she was not really that interested to begin with. not everything is so black and white. sometime in the beginning girl attraction level to you can be mild, lets say 5 out of 10 and bad text's/over communicating can definitely push her into the 3-4 zone and make her flake out of dates etc.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:34 PM
3

again another example to why you keep texts for logistic only. just set up in advance exact time and place to meet from now on, none of this "maybe tomorrow" or calling her up in midnight kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:26 PM
5

depends. are you smashing her or not?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:58 AM
1

Wait till Friday, then shot her a txt and ask when she is free next week
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:57 AM
5

you are like someone who started going to the gym for 2 weeks ago and complaining he doesn't have big muscles yet. you just started out, keep following the path. patience is key.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:30 AM
17

it seems to me you are stressing way too much about keeping frame and remaining alpha in her eyes all the time. chill and have fun dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 09:56 AM
1

yes
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:16 PM
3

you did fine, she was simply not DTF. carry on.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:41 PM
1

cool whatever works for you. for me specially at the first date it's feels a bit too over investing
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:58 AM
2

the problem in the core here is that you are taking life and yourself way too seriously. you simply don't matter that much. keep lifting, screw around, get rejected, improve yourself, etc, etc ... but do it with a light hearted approach and lose the sense of urgency. for more on this, read this gem https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:57 AM
1

well you need to know her address to pick her up right? ask it now and then cut all contact till the date, you don't need to follow up anything. is she will need validation it's still happening she will send one to you. why are you picking her up btw? much better just to meet at the venue
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:43 AM
2

it's like a guy going first time to the gym, barely managing to push any weight and then coming here asking "is the gym for me". like other posters said, just keep doing it and keep making progress.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:27 AM
2

well then just ignore those fuckers.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:59 AM
1

love this
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:50 AM
4

I’d rather use too much kino than too less. preach it bro
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:46 AM
3

or am I overthinking yes.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:24 AM
9

you are overthinking this shit. always assume all girls are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:29 AM
11

everytime she's done this, ignored me for extended periods of time, I haven't broken frame. keep doing dis
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:27 AM
7

her actions are telling you that her attraction level to you had dropped and she is not that worry about losing you. the person with the most control is the relationship is the one who is not afraid of walking away from it. so you can either break things with her or simply back off, give her more space and become less available.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:49 AM
10

but the current feminist political climate of those places seems a bit repulsive to someone with red pill ideologies dude this just media BS. just don't read the news and other social media shit and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:23 AM
9

punishing her is silly. you should be busy doing your own shit and have many other options besides her that you are not even bothered or noticing if she called you or not.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:06 AM
15

cut them off from your life
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:13 AM
16

you seriously worrying about ghosting her? I was about to suggest you get a restraining order on her crazy ass
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:36 AM
1

good. for future reference, you don't need to "punish" girls. think of you as castle they come and go from, the castle door is always open and they can come and go as they please, no string attached.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:20 AM
2

you are too concern of the outcome. it's the approach itself that matter and the fact you are acting like a man who goes for what he wants. think about it as a video game that every time you actually approach you get "courage points" or "alpha points" and every time you chicken out you losing them.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:13 AM
1

think about it like this: if you were spinning at least dozen of plates and were swimming in pussy - would you really care/be upset if one of them ghosted you?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:10 AM
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you feel behind because your are comparing yourself to other people. don't do that. just start doing the right things to enhance yourself and the only point of reference for comparing you should have - is to your own self right now
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:05 AM
2

that's a bad and false mindset, get rid of it check to see if there any day game coach in your area who can help
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:00 AM
2

don't get over jokey, funny, entertaining - aka over investing you barely know her and you are spinning tons of other plates so you can't spend too much time shitting the shit with any random chick on a dating app.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:12 AM
1

have you tried day game pick up?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:50 AM
6

you did ok. don't over communicate
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:46 AM
1

if this one little thing manage to blew the "frame you been building" then you have a lot more work to do my friend. keep doing your shit and read this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:43 AM
2

you are on a good path. keep at it
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:58 AM
2

she is into you. minimize text from now on. set a date and escalate.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:41 AM
8

Dale Carnegie’s didn't suggest going to people and asking them "how your day going". that's boring, generic and feels like you trying to sell them something. Carnegie talks about expressing genuine interest in things the people you are approaching actually care about and have passion to. stuff like their hobbies, their job, what they study, etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:32 AM
4

you need to stop giving a fuck about saying "the right thing" read this 20 times https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:47 AM
1

well you are making progress, that's the good news. regarding your sofa story. have you been constantly touching her?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:45 AM
2

does this have the same preselection benefits as if she were higher SMV obviously the answer is no. still better then nothing though
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:03 AM
1

you did good
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:15 AM
2

Little late but 1 easy tip: have great healthy teeth and smile during your conversation
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:36 AM
1

"I texted you last night. Today's my day off, two other people wanted to meet me this afternoon and evening. Please respect my time and don't do that. You should give people 24 hours notice." nah don't do that. you should give her the minimal energy she deserve right now: nothing at all.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:52 AM
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As I see it , women do not like jerks per se. they simply like some of the quality's that jerks often bring with them: self confidence not afraid to be sexual and to sexually escalate not giving a fuck attitude teasing and making fun of her in a playful banter kind of way not being a needy bitch those quality's are so rare this days so they are willing to put up with shitty jerky attitude. trying to be a "jerk" aka "a shitty person" to attract girls is PUA shit and I don't recommend you go that …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:44 AM
10

Currently I have been texting a minimal amount, limiting it to logistics and leaving days long periods where I do not contact at all. Is this good or can it cause the girl to lose interest? that's perfect and will only cause the girl interest to grow she will always wonder where she stand's with you the space you are giving her will spark up feeling of missing you and thinking about you you setting yourself apart from all the previous needy guys that were blowing her up for phone with constant t…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:37 AM
1

dude in the end the day - a guy who is dating multiple women and have a busy life simply doesn't have time to "game via text" it doesn't mean your text should sounds like its coming from a soulless robot and you feel like throwing a small flirt or a smily face in an occasion that's fine.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:13 AM
1

can you link me to your source? btw, I am not referring to dating apps where you obviously have to built some initial rapport
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:42 AM
3

yeah meet her if you into her, why the fuck not? just stop being obsess over her and start dating other girls. remember she is not yours, it's only your turn
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:37 AM
1

you should not game via text and whoever ever tells you that is wrong. and just chill , you can throw in a smiley face here and there if you want to , don't try to game so hard
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:33 AM
19

Simple - your testosterone is peaking around that time and you probably carrying yourself with much more confidence
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:32 AM
22

your problem my dude is that you are wayyyy too focus on this one girl. you know what's a guarantee way to make all the right moves with her without overthinking it so hard? date lot's and lot's of other girls.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:27 AM
1

breath deeply into your balls, look into her eyes and say: "let's go grab something to drink this week, when are you free?"
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:09 AM
1

you are in the prime of your life and doing all right things personal development wise. you should be getting plenty of action my suggestion: get heavily into day game and open up 10-20 new girls every day. if you can offered get a day game coach to do it with you at the beginning till you get the hang of it.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:32 AM
7

I Tell her I don't feel like seeing other people. this was your first mistake. never suggest going exclusive with a girl. it should only come from her. no surprise that things went down hill from there. so yeah that was your first needy behavior, and I can see more neediness following that - when she backed out - you tried to reach closer to her, instead of backing off as well and giving her space. the only thing you should be doing right now is going no contact and see if she will reach out. at…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:20 AM
1

so forget about her and just ask her best friend out?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:08 AM
2

a girl just met you for a date, not even looking at your face and just keep playing her stupid game on her phone. what blame are you talking about bro? this got nothing to do with MGTOW or even redpill, just having self respect.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:29 AM
2

that book is the fucking bible.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:10 AM
1

probably something: me: so you going to keep playing this game? her: yes I need to finish the level me: bye (and walking out of there)
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:49 AM
4

go lift some weights bro
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:36 AM
1

She walked straight up to me and said “wait ah I playing ROS” (PUBG knock off) and continued to play her game. what the hell is that. probably her own insecurities? nonetheless - if a girl would do that to me I would have ditched her ass on the spot
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:33 AM
1

when I first started to read your question I was sure I am about to read some major screw up, but actually your txt to her was on point
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:28 AM
30

dude you slacking , I slept with 7 girls last night
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:25 AM
16

for me it was the understanding of how everything is so meaningless and how we really should stop taking this life thing so seriously. just think about it, in 100 years we and everybody else in this plant will be dead, forever. heck you can die tomorrow. so with that in mind does it really matter if that chick rejected you? or if a bounce of people doesn't like you? it just doesn't fucking matter what other people think of you, because nothing really matter all that much.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:47 PM
3

Corey Wayne advices are mostly on point and connect well to trp.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:40 PM
2

this
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:04 AM
48

its highly important. just don't become a nofap fanatic that thinks the all world is collapsing every time you wank one off.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:34 PM
1

this. if a girl is into you it doesn't matter what you offer her to do together, she will be game or at least offer an alternative.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:24 AM
54

I have been trained in both "krav maga" and maui Thai for few years. first thing they teach you in Krav Maga is that the first thing you should do is always try and avoid getting physical if possible. meaning that you should only fight someone if that is your only option to get out of a dangerous situation. you can never know if the punch you throw at someone might leave them brain dead and you in prison for 10+ years or if their friend will pull out a pistol or knife and damage you badly.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:16 AM
22

Should I just block her again and keep it moving big fat - yes.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:27 AM
8

switch to day game, night game is not for you apparently.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:32 AM
14

I like to talk about checkers, that really get that vagina juice going
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:31 AM
13

OP don't listen to this guy. pointless nobody.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 02:21 AM
2

buzz your hair, grow a beard, lift heavy weights
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:47 AM
3

ignore what they say, only judge their actions making girls want to hug you/cuddle with you or whatever? what is this? are you looking to get laid or a hugging buddy? you are a good looking dude but it seems you have a severe case of a "nice guy" syndrome. have you read the sidebar material yet?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:41 AM
1

just understand that the awareness you have that you are a "puppy dog" by itself putting you in the top % of men already. almost all guys will see this as a normal behavior and won't even care. my advice: don't be so hard on yourself. just keep up the journey and those little things like "Checking if they messaged me back yet" will one day disappear by itself.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:38 AM
2

Any textual banter no dude. keep texting for setting up dates only.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:33 AM
1

ugh I hate when they do that, just next them.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:43 AM
2

Tinder is not dead for me , I'm getting plenty of action from it. OP if you want serious help, I will need to see screenshots of you trying to close a date and to see exactly what you doing wrong
/r/askTRP18/03/18 07:02 AM
4

having genuine sympathy for other humans beings does not make you to be a wimpy ass kisser. in my book its a sign of spiritual growth which is a big part of the redpill journey.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:41 AM
3

it's actually cool that you are sensitive to other people, sympathy is a good quality to have. instead of becoming depress , just focus on having a really good time with those girls when you meet them and make their life little bit better.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:30 AM
3

just understand that many girls are not seeking fashion models. they first wants a MAN. a man who can fuck them right, a man that can protect them and lead, a man that have a very level of self confidence in himself and know how to treat a women. just focus on those girls - and do everything you can to become alpha AF. a good example will be one of those mean motherfucker Russian bodyguards , they are ugly, huge and mean and no one fucks with them. and I am sure they are making panties wet for a…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:22 AM
3

Any tip to start a conversation with a stranger och the street or such ask them for a direction to go somewhere, then when they start talking you can ask them some follow up question like "are you from around here?" "do I notice some accent , are you from Australia? " etc, etc.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:55 PM
4

dude if she was into you she would have found a way to get there, trust me, when a girl wants the D - nothing will stop her.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:50 PM
1

she’s a girl from work and we’ve been flirting for months and kino is powerful but I didn’t ask her out (and won’t) because she’s a coworker and there are too many red flags about her. given that info, why do you even care?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:47 PM
3

Should I just NC her and look for other girls? yes.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:46 PM
2

Stop blaming things outside of you to how you feel. you are responsible for your happiness and no one else.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:45 PM
3

Been snap chatting a girl for the past week this is your first mistake. keep texting strictly for setting up dates, you are not her texting buddy
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:33 AM
1

stop fapping , that by itself can help you a lot.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:29 AM
3

the Bible for this : "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:27 AM
1

wow how can you not get rid of her? her actions are totally unacceptable dude.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:23 AM
1

how much body fat you have on you?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:20 AM
1

it seems like your fundamentals are all wrong. start with reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:39 PM
5

you stop texting them.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:12 PM
3

wrong
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:12 PM
3

it is very much alive.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:20 PM
1

Went on a 4-day trip with this girl. this was your first mistake.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:43 PM
3

try and smile more.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:41 PM
1

cancel.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:40 PM
11

what does it matter. let other dudes act as her clowns but you are the one who ends up sleeping with her at the end of night.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:16 AM
6

I swear to god if you bring this chick a rose I am flying over and slapping you on the face.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:52 PM
2

I believe you are overthinking this. you doing the right things, its a numbers game and some girls are just not into progressing so fast. you need to find the ones that do - so yeah.. “Get more options”
/r/askTRP12/03/18 11:35 AM
1

seems like she probably moved on, but sure ask her out, not much you can lose at this point.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 11:31 AM
2

I talk with a visible lisp because of temporary mouth stitches I have. this sounds annoying honestly. you should reschedule
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:51 AM
7

Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:43 AM
7

Never do "probably" or "maybe" plans. you should only do definite plans, your time is valuable and your calendar is filling up quickly.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:39 AM
4

dude he is trying to help you. your time is valuable and if a girl disrespect it by brining her friends to a date you set up with her then you should leave.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 06:27 AM
6

move on.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:32 AM
4

no group dates. never. ever.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:29 AM
3

I dont see this as a "shit test" I see this is as she was a complete bitch with a really rude and shitty behavior. I would do thé same as you and wouldn't really care about passing her "test". honestly fu*k her dude. next.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:48 PM
2

yeah you shouldn't invite her again. the ball is in her court now. let her come to you.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:44 PM
1

have you read the sidebar? if not - start there. also I recommend checking out Corey Wayne on youtube and the book mode one by Alan Roger Currie.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:16 PM
3

you are not getting laid because of your mindset, not because you got nothing to offer.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:06 PM
11

a weekend together with two other couples. should I say more?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:38 PM
3

you have a penis right? that's enough.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:34 PM
9

I dont like her no more, so i really dont care case close.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:01 PM
2

I been there. like many guys here at the beginning of their journey. it's a classic "nice guy" syndrome and rest assure it is curable. And I don't believe any girl is into me or if she is it's a mistake or a trap. why do you believe that? what is so wrong with you that no girl will want you?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:57 PM
1

ok. so why are afraid to be sexual around girls? are you worry they will think you are creepy?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:43 PM
2

forget about escorts. you need to raise your testosterone to a level you won't have to try and access your sexuality. It will simply overflow any time you will see a hot chick. do this: lift heavy weights. avoid fapping too much, or best - drop it all together. do intervals of light running/sprinting eat lots of red meat and other healthy fats, avoid sugars,soy and too much alcohol. take some martial art classes like mauy Thai, etc. get a good 8-9 hours of sleep every night.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:33 PM
13

Do I signal I want commitment by doing this? yes.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:24 PM
1

thanks, yeah thats a good point, only thing is not to come out weak and make it seems "ok" in her mind to pull this kind of stuff in the future.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:15 AM
3

Only thing you should be doing is completely ignoring their existence.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:33 AM
3

she's into you. if you want to bang her simply suggest to get together.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:30 AM
5

you are overthinking this. maybe she is on her period? maybe her face got covered with nasty acne ? or million other reasons she cant meet you right now. just chill, date other girls and leave the door open.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:26 AM
8

she explicitly asks me "what is your name" yes dude she wants the D
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:23 AM
2

Day of: she flakes, tell her let's reschedule. that was a mistake. if she flakes on you, you don't ask her to reschedule. you either not responding or giving her an "ok" and nothing more. anyway next.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:20 AM
4

She then said "Okay well ill just go hit up another guy that will actually give me attention then." Even now, after all my TRP conditioning, I was tempted to cave in. Instead, I trusted TRP once again and simply replied "ok" this is great. all our life we have been programed that in order to get girls we need to be smart/funny/witty, but what TRP teach us is next level zen shit, invest less and get more.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:57 AM
82

When you aren't successful with women it's all you can think about, when you are successful - you see how overrated it all is and you can properly devote yourself to self-improvement. you described it perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:58 PM
18

Tinder is highly addictive. my advice is to remove the notifications from it and only check it once or twice a day.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:29 PM
7

I'm glad to hear you are doing well. it is an addiction indeed, and it's something I have been doing all my life without realizing that the actual reward I am getting from it is absurd.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:28 PM
6

Yes.mindfulness meditation can be a great aid to change your focus.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:27 PM
12

I persoanly see a very close link between MGTOW and redpill.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:25 PM
48

I was getting laid. that's not the point. of course it's hard to ignore the call of nature, otherwise like you said we were all be extinct long ago. what I am saying is that with I found with my own little experiment - that having girls in my life didn't improve anything or made me more happy. having girls and not having girls felt about the same to me overall, with not having girls have a slight advantage as less stressful as it was one less thing I need to take care of.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:21 PM
3

yeah I am talking logistics.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:31 PM
4

it's funny but every time I talk to someone and practice not talking about myself at all and only asking them questions about their life, in the end of the night they all tell me " you are one of the most interesting people I ever met".
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:40 PM
13

doesn't mean anything. you acted correctly. carry on.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:36 PM
1

sure bud , you should feel good about the future , just the fact you are into learning and acknowledging you need to improve is setting you in the top % of men's already. start here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:32 PM
1

you acted kind of needy in your first message and it was definitely too much "try hard" message. only thing you can do right now if you want any chance with her is absolutely nothing. any further messages will just convey more desperation and will kill the 0.01 chance she will get back to you at some point. also Hey name let's forget that first msg, plus you're really quite stunning so would be kicking myself not to say hey again. So what disease have you talked about to a socially unacceptable …
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:24 PM
3

I don't see the problem here. if you didn't promise her any exclusivity so it's not really your concern if she is developing any exceptions or have more feelings then you do. you are responsible for your time and simply keep giving her as much attention as you want to and keep dating other girls. if she ever brings up the topic of being exclusive - simply tell her that you are not into that stuff.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:00 PM
2

Sorry to say OP but if you are feeling you are "Losing you alpha status" - chances are you were not that alpha to begin with.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:49 AM
3

how the hell you reach the conclusion he was trying to steal the pussy? this is an obvious white knight scenario.
/r/MGTOW04/03/18 08:20 AM
2

Vegan diet makes your penis go flaccid confirmed.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 12:15 AM
4

You summed it out beautifully. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:29 PM
6

That's an excellent point. The unsatisfied nature of women cause so much suffering to men as they always getting the feeling they are not enough - we feel we must improve ourselves constantly to fit into their unrealistic standards. This alone is such a huge stress factor for us and living without the need to impress/become better all the time is lifting a huge burden off our shoulders.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:27 PM
1

That's a great point, stoping the chase is not just about not talking to women or approaching them. it affect your entire life decisions. this is the first time in my life I'm making decisions that are not based in anyway to getting more girls and it feels so damn right.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:24 PM
5

It's great indeed and a lucky thing to discover this truth before getting attached/having kids, etc. Your coworker sounds like he living a very miserable life. The crazy thing this way of living is the norm in our society and being portray in movies and TV shows as a "funny" standard way of life.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:21 PM
14

It's such an amazing thing to witness when you are out of this loophole and around other men who are still being total wimps around good looking girls while you keep your center, remain totally calm and uninterested. it's a blissful thing really.
/r/MGTOW21/01/18 06:16 PM
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