Put simply my romantic life is a mess, I’m still studying RedPill and would like advice to learn from this. Sorry for length as I want to get every detail conveyed.

I met this girl on Tinder talked pretty regularly manages to get her out on a date. We agree to meet at the train station outside a mall where we would go eat then see this light festival.

I arrived early and explored around the mall a bit and asked her which station her train was at which was the next one over so I walk over to the train station and wait for her’s to arrive.

When she comes up the escalator she’s playing on her phone and she’s WAY more fat then her pictures, I wanted to run away but she was walking over to me already so I couldn’t.

She walked straight up to me and said “wait ah I playing ROS” (PUBG knock off) and continued to play her game. (Shit test?) (additionally she never faced me this entire time) I said ok and let’s go over to the mall and find something to eat, I didn’t try talk cause I figured it would be a lost cause cause she was so engrossed in the game I walk through leading her to the mall and eventually when she gets off the phone I say alright what do you feel like eating which she then says she wasn’t hungry yet and I wasn’t either.

She then goes on google maps and tries to walk us to the light festival but ends up walking around in a massive circle (I kept saying to take the train but she kept saying to not worry it’s a very short way away) the whole time I try to make small talk about family, friends, hobbies, work. She doesn’t give me much to work with she doesn’t have much things outside work and TV shows and doesn’t seem to ask anything about me so it was basically a interview on her end.

Eventually she says she’s too tired and wants to sit down so I sit down and try talk, after a few minutes I thought “what the fuck am I doing I’m not enjoying myself at all” so I said it’s late and I’d call it a night (she worked a long shift before meeting) and we went our seperate ways. I met up with my friend and his GF who was in the same area and took some pictures for them and then I went to a place for dinner and a pint (most enjoyable part of the night) and went home.

Later another friend overseas (my overseas friend group wanted to know how it went) called me a dickhead for ditching her like that and it could’ve seriously hurt her but I chalked it off as whiteknighting cause I should be there for my enjoyment not giving her validation that even tho she was boring af I should give her hope she’s not

So for the more veteran redpillers what is the breakdown of this date?