So I was out at a bar this saturday with a friend and we were having a good time. I get a text from a girl I have met a few times without anything really happening, asking me to bring my friend and meet her and her friends at this other bar.

We got there and I pretty much instantly got a connection, we danced and she even gave me a few lap dances which eventually led to some kissing.

Then, out of nowhere while we were sitting at our table, a bouncer came up to me and asked me to grab my jacket and come with him to the front door. Upon stepping out he asks me to speak to his colleague and heads back inside.

His colleague immediately tells me im too drunk to go back inside, which is ridiculous considering I had been drinking 2 beers. It's impossible to reason with the guy so I sit down just outside and text the girl telling her what happened. She comes outside and I further my explenation about what happened.

She tells me she has had an on/off relationship, that lasted about a year and ended like 2 weeks ago, with the bouncer in the door and says that is probably the reason I got kicked out. She tells me she will be back and goes back inside.

She comes back outside after about 10 minutes. I was ready to leave but she didn't bring her jacket. Her friend and my friend eventually comes outside and we end up standing right outside the bar (at least within eyesight of her ex-whatever). She is really clingy cause it's freezing outside and she say she will get her jacket when they close the bar.

So after about 30 minutes she goes back inside to get her jacket, we all head to a McDonald's literally next to the bar, before we head to her bus. After this nothing really happened, and she and her friend takes off. While I stand there like a question mark thinking this was a sure thing..

So, I understand I was probably being used to get the bouncer-guy jealous, but I also think she genuinely wanted me there. Any advice on how to handle a situation like that?