Hi guys, first time poster looking mostly to vent.

I'm 24, accounting/finance degree working towards my CPA.

About three months ago I got a number to this 6/10 that I've known as an acquaintance my entire life. I know she's no wife material girl but she's chill and had a great body so I figured what the hell

I take her out the first time and we hit it off. From that point on, we're talking every day through text or snapchat and have plans made for each upcoming weekend by Monday/Tuesday.

We went out for like three weeks before things started getting heavy between us. Some dates we'd end the night by coming to my place "to smoke hookah" and end up just hooking up until it was time to take her home.

At this point we had been going out for a month and she wanted me to start meeting her family. She invited me to a party that consisted of half of her cousins and the other half close friends. They all really liked me and i made a great impression and low and behold, we fuck that night.

This is where the problems started.

I was really drunk and took her back to my house at like 4am. Here's the thing: I live at home with my parents. Now it was one thing brining her over after dates for a hookup, but brining her over this night was bad because in the middle of us fucking for the first time, my mom hears her moaning, and interrupted us. She didn't actually come downstairs into my basement but called from the top of the stairs asking me if everything was OK.

I got my mom to leave us alone so we finished up and I drove her home. it was obviously extremely awkward but I managed to convince my mom that I was just throwing up and that we weren't fucking or anything. I don't exactly know if my mom bought it but it was enough for her to leave us alone so me and this girl got dressed and we finished up and I took her home.

The next night we went out and kind of talked about the previous night. I had been so focused on the fact that part my mom had caught us that I didn't even remember that in the middle of us fucking at one point my condom slipped off. so not only did I have to try to explain to this girl that aren't my mom didn't catch us fucking I also had to explain to her that I thought it be a good idea if I bought Plan B for her to use.

she was open about the Plan B and agreed to take it. however I could still tell she was extremely embarrassed from the fact that my mom and caught us. nonetheless we still made plans for the next day it was her girlfriends birthday party so we went out to this bar downtown. I took her I picked her up and we went downtown and I met a bunch of her friends from work and again I made a great impression so after the bar I took her back to my car and immediately started hooking up very intensely.

I had already basically told her we can't go back to my house anymore it's all things cooled off with my mom so I took her to a spot that I knew about it we just fucked in my car. As lame as it is for a 24-year-old to have it to have to resort to fucking in his car, we still both had a good time and both got off. I was especially happy cus I busted in her mouth (although she wasn't to excited about that lol)

At this point in the relationship I know I need it to end. I couldn't bring this girl back to my house anymore because things between me and my mom were at all-time low. I basically know she caught me fucking and I don't think she really completely bought my excuse. On top of that she's getting on me for every other little thing and I knew it was just because I was in a relationship with this girl and she wanted it to end.

Furthermore this girl started acting kind of sketchy on social media. I noticed that she was starting to like her ex-boyfriend's things was on Twitter and Instagram. Obviously I'm no idiot and I know that she's probably losing interest in me over the shit that had happened the previous week. I knew maybe she still had feelings for her ex or maybe they're even talking or hanging out again but as far as I'm concerned I'm fucking this girl so as long as I'm fucking her I could care less. I'm really only into it for the sex and I just figured that her talking to some other guy would just make it easier for me to break up with her.

Now neither of my sisters know that I was having a sexual relationship with this girl. I explained I was just going out with her for fun and never intended anything serious with her. This wasn't enough for one of my sisters though. She also was an acquaintance of this girl and is known her for a long time and had her on social media. She started noticing this girl that I've been going out with was liking her exes things on social media so she blocked her. A few days after the second time we fucked (in my car), this girl that I was seeing mentions it to me and kind of wanted an explanation. I told her exactly what it was: that my sister saw her liking her exes shit and it made her mad so she blocked her.

The girl brushed it off and I just let her, which in hindsight is what has been making me feel like shit. Even though I was just in it for pussy, I still should have addressed her shadiness but I didn't, which in turn has left me feeling like the biggest pussy ever.

Anyways, I noticed at this point she was becoming distant afterwards. We barely spoke over the week and didn't make plans for the weekend for the first time since we started seeing each other. She had her cousins birthday shit over the weekend so she was busy, which was true, but the fact she didn't invite me when she'd been making all this effort for me to see her family pretty much should have been another obvious sign we were done but me being naive, I didn't catch it at the time.

We made plans to go out the weekend after and it was as if nothing had been happening. She was cool and it felt like any other night that we'd gone out. Because of this, I got greedy and just tried to enjoy the night. Instead of breaking up with her then and there, or at least bringing up her ex, but I didn't. I was under the illusion I could keep sleeping with this girl.

After that date, she went distant on me. She kind of just stopped texting me in the middle of a conversation we were having the next day. Then, a few days later of us not talking, I tried to send her a snap and initiate something, but she ignored that too, all while still liking my shit on Twitter, Instagram, and looking at my stories on snapchat.

And then that was it. I never reached out to her to get closure and I think that's what's hurting the most. I don't know what it was for sure that made her lose interest in me. I never wanted anything serious with her, but the fact that she beat me to the punch in ending our relationship and shook me.

Then I had to go make things worse, I completely stopped liking her shit on social media and stopped looking at her stories on snapchat, which has back fired because now she's giving me the same treatment and it's actually driving me nuts.

I know I'm being a bitch. I know this girl isn't worth the headache but I just hate how this well went down.

She had this ex for about a year before me that she had only been broken up with for a very short amount of time when I hit her up, like I wanna say a month. I know they had a more serious relationship than what I had with her because i never really had ever even called this girl my girlfriend or anything.

After the second or third time we went out she asked me if I was talking to any other girls and I said no, asked her the same question, she said no and that was that as far as I was concerned. We never officially had any labels and she never asked me what we were and that was cool we me.

And now, I'm a mess. I'm not crying over her or anything, but it really bothers me the way things went down. I think about it WAY more than I should and I really hate the fact I didn't make her acknowledge the shady shit she was doing and I'm so pissed I didn't break up with her.

Also, I'm mad at how fast she moved on. I know her ex had to be in the picture while we were still seeing each other and she monkey branched to him. And the fact I let that happen, even though I never wanted anything long term with this girl makes me feel like less of a man.

The way I see it, she's moved on and is happy, while I'm back to my boring life. I was content before meeting her but after this all went down ive been feeling down on my life in many ways. Work is stressful and I have no social life studying for the CPA exams. On top of it, the friends I do have aren't the type to go out on the town. We basically get high around my neighborhood and don't do shit. I feel like I'm wasting my mid 20s. Then, the few friends of my group who do actually go out generally don't ever hit me up. I don't see them unless they're coming over to my house, which hurts too.

On top of it all, her ex isn't anything special. I feel I'm better in every way than this guy. Dude works retail and drives uber (no offense) but is a relatively good looking guy. I'm not the best looking guy but I know I'd be lying if I said this guy was ugly. And if red pill has taught me anything, the wallet rarely matters if you know you know how to charm a girl up.

Anyways, from this long and drawn out story, is there any advice you guys have for me?

Here is what I'm happy about: I was a virgin. My mom interrupting my first experience wasn't ideal. But the second time with that girl was great. My living situation has made it hard for me to be confident in going out with girls. But this experience has made me feel that if I can fuck a girl with me retarded home situation, imagine when I move out!

So now I know I need to move out and start my own life out of the house, which I plan to do this summer. I'm happy I have a bunch of money and a good career to lean on. Also, I'm in the best shape ever, and this "breakup" has only made me more motivated than ever to keep working harder.

Tldr: -Dated girl for about two months -just wanted sex initially but caught feelings -she went distant and got back with her ex -i thought I'd moved on until I saw her back with her ex -regretting not breaking up with her/calling her out on her shit