NoFap or edge?

strainer123 · 2020-09-28T15:44:10+00:00

If you're sexually active you should practice a bit by edging yes, I think strict nofap is mostly for people who are not getting laid much, who are addicted to masturbation.

inbredostrptw · 2020-09-28T15:37:41+00:00

Go for round 2. Or just fap every once in a while my guy. Just have some self control

rprookie · 2020-09-28T17:24:57+00:00

I like to disassociate from the feelings of pleasure and focus on what I am doing for them. I make it my porn movie. I am the one getting pleasure but it's because I am giving them pleasure. It probably goes against standard TRP protocol but it works for me and I have immense control.

When I start thinking about how good it is, or if my confidence is shit I can bust quick too. The other day this new prospect refused sex on the first date but was open to everything else. She sucked me so good that I couldn't handle it and came super quick and I had almost no control. The reason? My mind state was needy. I wanted to fuck her and she could feel it. My focus was off.

Simply put, it's a state of mind. Control your mind, control your physiology and your loads.

tobyeatsfatkids · 2020-09-28T15:52:37+00:00

what helps me not bust in 2 seconds is what i call the puckerbutt technique

you know how you kind of flex/relax ur asshole when you poop? do that but dont actually poop, just control ur pelvic floor muscles to where it feels like youre trying to. i usually last like half an hour or more doing that

i-am-the-prize · 2020-09-28T16:44:06+00:00

one of the sidebar books covers this

after no fap is in full force (ie: you have rewired and quit p0rn, you've lessened your death grip, etc) consider fapping with these parameters:
- doing it once ever two weeks
- using lube
- picturing ONLY women you haven't slept with yet
give it a shot.

also, consider the book "the multiorgasmic man" for breathing techniques that'll allow you to control shit like a jedi. it's no fucking joke. i've been doing kegel exercises for 2 years now, and read Deida's book on it in 2019 and it helped, but the book above was tha shit.

fuxwitcha · 2020-09-28T18:19:11+00:00

If eating poop and peeing on random pet birds around the world is crazy. Well then i guess I am.

unamedasha · 2020-09-28T19:22:26+00:00

Eliminate porn
Masturbate infrequently and only when sex is not an option
Focus on being present with the girl
Control your breathing
Have a good time and don't take sex too seriously
Have more sex

holyshocker · 2020-09-28T16:14:48+00:00

I can go however long I want normally with my pc muscles. When she's ovulating and I'm in doggy and that scent is wafting up to my face I bust in no time though. Work on those kegels to get more control and rub a dab of vick's under your nose and you good. Horse trainers say vick's can keep a stallion focused even with mares around.

fuxwitcha · 2020-09-28T18:03:38+00:00

..... We will just have to agree to disagree

Don_Draper27 · 2020-09-28T20:36:58+00:00

Look up "Multi-Orgasmic Man". It's a process but it helps train your PC muscles and you can teach yourself to orgasm with ejaculation.

Also, not ideal for everyone but I have my best fucks when I'm high. I have godly control and I'm extremely immersed in the moment.

2020-09-29T05:31:30+00:00

Kegels, reverse kegels, and shilajit and good luck busting nuts.
In the past (while on semen retention) i've had multiple women insist we take the condom off after we're done fucking because I didn't come at all and dick was hard as a rock - gotta keep that seed bro, we don't validate these hoes

fuxwitcha · 2020-09-28T18:00:15+00:00

Tommy?

Title	NoFap or edge?
Author	UnkownChain
Upvotes	11
Comments	23
Date	September 28, 2020 3:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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