How do you get over a girl not being interested in you (other than abundance mentality). For whatever reason I could not plate her - all the signs of her not being interested where there (3 dates) she flaked on the 4th and comments on my snapchats everyday since the flake (I've ignored her message wise on snaps and social media).

Feel like I lost the war - not a fan of losing.

I have developed oneitis even though I have two newer plates that are more mature (23 and 24 as opposed to 21). I'm 25.

Part of me wants to keep trying for it - but at this point I would just be an orbiter feeding her attention/validation needs