What’s up guys. For context I’m 23. And I like to think of myself as a humble guy.

One thing I’ve noticed about myself is that I don’t like to show off and I don’t want people to be envious of me.

Like as the sidebar recommends I have bought clothes that are well fitting and make me look professional and suave. Like button downs, pants, nice shoes and I got a nice flashy watch.

However, the thing is I don’t like to dress up for some reason, I feel like if I dress up in above average nice clothes then people will look at me and be like “oh my god” or “who is he” or whatever. I don’t like the extra attention and if I’m being really honest, I enjoy dressing down. I prefer my long sleeved tee shirts to dress shirts and I prefer my sneakers sometimes over my shoes and I never want to wear the watch.

I don’t know if it’s just me being insecure about dressing nice or if I feel like I’m coming off fake when I wear these clothes that do look good but I’m not comfortable in. I noticed whenever I do dress well I get more IOIs and my coworkers who are mainly female start being a little extra flirty or whatever. It’s a nice ego boost but for the most part I don’t want or need the extra attention.

Anyone else experience this? Maybe i need to get comfortable with increasing my smv.