Nuclear Family?

covertpenguin3390 · 2016-07-09T00:24:09+00:00

Look in married TRP for that kind of advice and you'll get more married guys to chime in. But my advice, do whatever the fuck you want. Will your life be easier and stress free without a wife and kids leeching off you? Well of course, but I also know plenty of people who are happily married with kids too. I still don't know what I want because I'm only 26 and my girlfriend wants all that stuff sooner than later, and she's the perfect candidate but I'm struggling with knowing that it's just not the right timing for my life right now. Just whatever you decide you want, make sure you use logic, and not emotion to make the decision. Just because you feeeeel like she's the one, might not mean she really is if you've been ignoring all her glaring red flags.

50pluspiller · 2016-07-09T01:17:28+00:00

Don't just think of now, think 20 even 30 years from now.

This is what I am faced with at 30 years and it sucks. I stand to lose over a million dollars. So at the moment I am stuck, while I figure it all out. Kids are grown, successful, but now life/marriage is a drag.

welcome_to · 2016-07-09T01:31:19+00:00

My recommendation is to do it without marriage. Depending on the state you're in (if you're in the US at all), there are places without common law marriage.

Speaking from my perspective of currently being divorce raped, and taken for over half of my income and assets, marriage simply isn't worth it.

There is zero benefit to the man, and every incentive for the woman to rip things apart.

I would say just work on building a stable long-term relationship, and apply TRP principles to maintain it.

Pyro27 · 2016-07-09T04:55:11+00:00

You have to understand that the whole point of 1970's feminism was that women hated the nuclear family. They hated the stuffy atmosphere and spent the past 40-50 years tearing down the social pillars that made the nuclear family possible. Unless you find a unicorn you won't be able to maintain such a family model for long. We live in an age of impulsive consumerism and hedonism. Even if you find a woman who is gung ho at first, constant social conditioning from pop culture and a lack of long term will power in the modern populace will cause you to become another statistic.

MagmaiKH · 2016-07-09T02:34:36+00:00

mattizie · 2016-07-09T13:31:49+00:00

Maybe, either way, you're early twenties.

If you want a happy family, go other there and fuck as many bitches as possible so you're able to distinguish what constitutes any semblance of an actual wife.

You probably already know by now that SMV is dictated by game, looks, fame and wealth. Until you have lots of those don't even try to get a wife. And know that if you do marry it is a risk, calculate accordingly by planning that she will eventually leave you or cheat. Diversify investments and hide your wealth such that when the day comes you'll lose barely anything.

Fuck bitches, build up your career, social status, lift. Don't worry about marriage until you're in your 40s. If you can't find a great 20 something woman fit for marriage in your country, look abroad.

I married early (24) to a hot Chinese wife (29). I found TRP 9 months after marriage when she just got pregnant and the daily sex dried up to naught. Don't do it.

Title	Nuclear Family?
Author	WhalePolo
Upvotes	11
Comments	14
Date	July 8, 2016 11:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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