There is a nurse I am starting to date who has thrown up some red flags which I am trying to understand. She's a kinky flirt, and definitely my type. But, from her stories of her and her coworkers their boyfriends end up unwilling to have sex with them. Any idea what is going on here? Why would an entire industry of women slowly turn men off like that?

Good:

In shape/strong

My type

Flirty

Seems sexually open

Intelligent

Exhibitionist

Puts up with, but has no sympathy for, everything.

Bad:

Body show a lot of stress in spots, eg peter belly.

Three mostly grown kids.

When she drinks her conversations turn to mutant penises and dead babies.

Hinting that men lose interest in her as a while, but seems to be a nurse issue.

Weird work schedule.

An attention seeker.

I know nurses tend to be more hit and miss as parents. No idea what to think of them as lovers. Is it just the lack of normality? Is it the stress is contagious? Any stories?