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In short, there is a bit of prioritization but the priority doesn't need to have women as the focus. If a woman or getting some thots is important, you'll make time for them. If you don't have time to meet them, you probably don't have much time to rail them either. When you're kicking it with the boys, where you doing it? If you're over at one of their cribs and no one invites girls, I guarantee you won't meet any women that night. Now we switch the place up and go to a bar or a club. Still kic…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:03 AM
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2.5 hours King, how much you need?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:56 AM
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If you're trying to bang a girl based on what you drive, ask them what car they want to fuck in, you better be doing rentals because there is no pussy worth buying a car over. ​ Get what you want
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:54 AM
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Sets the tone. Great technique
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:52 AM
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If she was being serious then no. If she was being flirty and twirling her hair (IOIs) while jokingly say that AND you want to risk it, then you can escalate but it may not end pretty.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:51 AM
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When I read this, I mentally asked why? What mentally keeps you going? I just watched this video last night and thought of you (first part, ~3min). The video talks about the driving factor in one's life and how someone can go through anything in order to achieve it. You were not dealt the greatest hand, and there have been more obstacles that you need to work through. Dwayne Johnson at one point only had $7 in his pocket... heard he wasn't doing too bad. Don't negative talk; you're not a pussy, …
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:56 AM
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If you aren't competing, just start eating maintenance + 10%. Your body is going to need the calories.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:17 AM
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"I sleep with enough." If it continues, tell the truth or exaggerate to the point of it being a joke (basic side bar stuff). If you lose a plate, you lose a plate.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:15 AM
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All depends on the overall goal. If you just care about BF% or looking ripped, then you need to start a caloric deficit. If you want to get in fighter shape, I'd say lean bulk unless you're trying to make weight. Not sure how long you've been doing Muay Thai (or lifting) since the hip injury, but realize that it is possible to be gaining muscle and losing BF at the same time. If I were you, I'd recommend going lean bulk as your body will probably get rid of the excess body fat, and needs the pro…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:10 AM
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Anyways, learn West Coast Swing. Bunch of spinning, push pull, swaps, letting go and twirling. It's all about rhythm (dancing TO the music, simple as stepping to the beat), and keeping the momentum. What I learned in college. It is easy, fun, and impresses the shit out of women.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:58 PM
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If the point is to be able to walk up to a girl and impress her, I wouldn't recommend your 4 choices. For easy but impressive ways to learn how to lead a woman, here is what I would recommend for minimal time: Bachata - straight forward step on the beat dance (similar to salsa, but you're not trying to pick the cowbell out the entire time). Pros is that it is very simile and has a large Latin culture to back it up. Can be used with many degrees of touch. West Coast Swing - step with the beat dan…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:55 PM
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NP. Let me know if you have any questions
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:20 PM
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Of course. I am not the biggest fan of his, but I think that everyone needs to start with a Dave Ramsey with specific focus on his baby steps (first 4 although there is nothing wrong with the other 3). If you can't do or at least understand this (which for most is a discipline issue imo), then you can't be financially successful. Then I would refer you to Robert Kiyosaki, specifically Rich Dad Poor Dad in which he looks at how financial success is built on assets rather than a paycheck. I also s…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:24 PM
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Ideally, your network is with the top people in your industry. Note that this is not necessarily a riches game, but a power/influence game (48 Laws of Power, cannot recommend enough). The idea is that if you are around the person/people that are highly influential in your line of work, you are more likely to be influential yourself. This is because you become a connection to the bigger connection - you get power by association. How do we meet people in our industry? We put ourselves out there on…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:51 PM
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You win by letting her go
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:59 PM
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Why doesn't she want to swallow?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:40 PM
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Basically your reputation precedes you. Assuming you are the talk of the campus, women will come to you because they know who you are and have heard stories; celebrity like status
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:37 PM
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Continue to side bar as you have been. Pick up at least one job, and a hobby that could be turned into a side job. The first will keep your money coming in, the second will keep you sane, not focused on women, and help build network (see #4). Live well below your means, develop an emergency fund, invest the rest. This could include living at home as long as possible to avoid paying rent, using a bike instead of a car, buying generic instead of national brand. Emergency recommend 6-months worth o…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:33 PM
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The only thing to worry about in college imo is the drama of what you did - especially if allegations come up (seen too many posts not to at least mention it). Smaller schools and degree specific classes I would be more hesitant on since smaller classes and campus, news travels fast. Larger school in gen ed classes, no worries.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:42 PM
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Agreed. Maybe a little strong with the words (wouldn't use hottie), but just send it. See if she's in town; see if she wants to get coffee/drinks.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:38 PM
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You need to do you and get involved in things that you like. Your social circle is ultimately what you make of it. Think of it this way: most people's social circle usually is inclusive of their household and their work associates. Influence is then limited because you have a limited circle. The idea of expanding your social circle should be for one of two reasons: business or leisure. Business will help you make connections for opportunities you probably would not have had otherwise such as job…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:35 PM
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Possibly yes. More females, group mentality of protecting each other
/r/askTRP27/05/20 02:30 PM
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I don't think her guard will be up as much as you think. Being in a group she will be more relaxed because the group makes her feel safe. I think the difference between solo and group is that the likelihood of shit tests goes way up, and requires a greater level of comfortableness to approach.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:24 PM
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Sounds like you have approach anxiety, and it wouldn't matter if she was in a group or alone. Just go approach. If you can't use this bootcamp from Good Looking Loser. Realize though that this program takes a few months, but it will help with approach game.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:30 PM
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So what's the exact number then? There is none. Your number is dependent on your current situation, risk tolerance, and expectations. Like a guy who is in monk mode living in Small Town, USA could probably get away with less than $5k in his bank account if he doesn't want to do anything super expensive. On the other hand, a guy who is regularly spinning plates, living in Big City, USA would probably need a minimum of $15k just to make sure he's able to cover living expenses and a more extravagan…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:21 PM
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BLUF: You should have positive net worth; the amount in the bank account is not as important. I think that you are focusing on the wrong thing. I would agree with u/massap24: Enough to make him happy and do the things he values in life. But I want a real answer. Fine, but your bank account shouldn't be the main focus, rather your net worth, or what you have (assets) minus what you owe (mortgage, credit card bills, etc). Your bank account is just liquid cash and is honestly costing you money depe…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:13 PM
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must be a different culture than mine then AWALT
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:20 PM
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must be a different culture than mine then AWALT
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:20 PM
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You'd be surprised. They will sometimes "go with it" even if they aren't feeling enjoying the date.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:11 PM
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Literally all that needs to be said: run
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:05 PM
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2 girls teach sex Do you have a recommended spot to watch all of them?
/r/seduction09/05/20 11:14 AM
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2 girls teach sex Do you have a recommended spot to watch all of them?
/r/seduction09/05/20 11:14 AM
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We're all addicted to dopamine, just different fixes
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:11 AM
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If you like what you have, don't go searching for something else. Dare I say a little ignorant bliss is not a bad thing.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:45 AM
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Wait, are we using the straight-line or bell-curve for where people fall?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:19 PM
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do you want an ONS or similar tomorrow or are you looking for something serious? The reason you feel stuck is because she gave you two options, and like most humans, you only look at the two options. You need to remember that there is a third answer: the one you come up with. If she sent you a text, you got all day to think about it, take your time (where as in person is more challenging and thinking on your feet). No matter how you respond, it should either be funny and imply that you lean one …
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:17 PM
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talk about what size ring u want Hell no! We're trying to meet for a date not propose
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:03 PM
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You can do what I call "mind fuck" game and occasionally do the little extra shit on a whim and then pull back. Push-pull. TRP would endorse
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:58 PM
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I'm not in abundance at the moment and would like to build a rotation. She's the only girl I'm seeing currently. What's stopping you? If you want to build it up then go do it. As for the power struggle, I think that it is more of your mentality. If she wants to leave, let her leave. She is trying to negotiate for more power - either more respect or I leave. Bringing this full circle, if the ideas is to get more plates, then who cares if she goes? You are not required to elevate her status becaus…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:56 PM
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Her dad paid for the date... a guy still paid for everything lol
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 05:07 AM
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Hey, appreciate this post the most! I knew most of the stuff, but thinking of it as a drug for some reason hit home. Because of this, I unsubscribed from about 100+ subreddits that were porn focused. I know it won't be easy, but at least its the first step from staying away from the shit.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:59 AM
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Try not caring and you’ll see your success rate increase naturally. This always seems counter-intuitive, but it is by far one of these most under rated ideas. I am sure that you could tell when someone wanted something out of you - they come off needy, desperate, or even creepy. When we have the attitude of 'needing' to meet someone that night, the game becomes binary and not fun. When you switch it to "I want to have fun tonight" your persona and attitude totally change, and people tend to grav…
/r/seduction24/11/19 05:05 AM
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A doctor that's probably doing clinicals or paying off student debt. It doesn't excuse the behavior or actions, but just because of her job doesn't mean she's getting paid well.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:39 PM
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First, good on you. That situation is tough, and reverting back to old ways is a natural instinct (been going through some it myself). At the end of the day, we as men have to remember why we do things. It is not for anyone else except ourselves. We lift and run to make ourselves better. We give up bad habits to make ourselves better. By doing these little things, it builds up our confidence as men, making us look and feel more alpha. We as TRP often look at the sexual as the prize and our bench…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:39 PM
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requires a ton of validation and attention I guess that's kind of my point. At what point does this go from red to blue? As in from a mental or situational basis, not necessarily a number. Because, same as you, my LTR asks for me to reaffirm words coming out of her mouth (which I have seen as needy, but from your example, she's starving). So I guess I'm trying to strike a balance for when and how often to give those words as 1) I am not a words person, and usually find them to be shallow and 2) …
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:06 PM
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And most n-counts would be automatically halved... But hey, men might actually be happy.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:47 PM
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will only look for validation from her man So then how do you give enough validation without over doing it? My LTR is a Words of Affirmation (5 Love Languages) type of person, and I know that a TRP preaches to give it sparingly.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:42 PM
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To add on to his step 2: abs come out with reduced body fat. Reducing body fat is done by having your body "eat" the fat storages (intermittent fasting is merely a technique to achieve this). In order for this to happen, you need to be in a calorie deficit, so you need to figure out about how much you're burning. Use a BMR calculator to figure out your Basic Metabolic Rate and calories to maintain that weight. After that, download an app like MyFitnessPal by UnderArmor to help you gauge how much…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:44 PM
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But let's not forget that this is one. Although I agree with the technique, you need to also make sure you're getting different plates numbers/snaps/facebooks. This will allow you to build abundance mentality and prevent oneitious, but more importantly, it will give you a chance to practice. The practice will naturally lead to more confidence in your actions. Put into enough situations enough times, you'll be able to work a prospect no matter the situation because you've done it enough times. An…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:33 AM
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Tried to find some data for you: According to this study, the percentage of overweight (BMI >20) men in the US has stayed around 70%, while overweight women has "creeped" from 57% to just under 60%. Then you have this study, which focuses on obesity (BMI>30) men are at 37.9% while obese women are at 41.1%. Last I present the CDC, which seems to find that men and women are obese at the same rate, but a larger percent of men are overweight (40% vs 30%). The ratio of fit men to fit women is like 20…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:34 AM
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as in them, they eat the dick.... Thanks for the clarification
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:02 AM
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Don't shit where u eat The rest is good, but it really builds on this.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 02:15 PM
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Agreed. Let the college girls who can figure out how to get rid of/avoid the Freshman 15 be the ones you talk to.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:37 PM
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"no publicity is bad" AKA "any girl you talk to is good." Women get jealous of each other. When some HB8 sees HB5 laughing and giggling and having a good time because of you, she's going to want to know what she's missing.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:34 PM
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You have 3 plates... bro keep spinning! No one is requiring that you drop her.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:32 PM
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As someone who went through a similar experience (thought she was the one), time is key. You invested a lot into that person, and interaction with them became a normal part of your life. When the body is under stress, they want to go back to how things were. So don't beat yourself up about this, it's part of the human experience imo. There is nothing wrong with you; you're creating a new normal. If anything, this is the time to pursue the things you really want out of life and develop the habits…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:19 PM
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By walking outside of your house. Whether the goal is to get off the oneitis or to spin more plates, you need to interact with more people. Obviously there should be a preference for these people to be women, but it's not necessary. Even building into or creating your own social circle will help to set your status within a group. For example, volunteering, joining a social group, or going to a regularly scheduled event (Trivia Night, Karaoke Night, etc) can help break you into finding a group, a…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:12 PM
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The Alpha sets the tone. If you don't care about her doing something (such as being late), then don't make it a big deal. If you find it disrespectful, make sure she understands that the behavior is unacceptable. You don't come off as butthurt, you're defining the rules, and if anything, she's testing them.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:03 PM
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Just escalate into it. If you're already making out and fingering a girl, asking her to play with your dick isn't going to be rapey unless you say it in a creepy voice. Be alpha, don't beat around the bush (so to speak). Tell her to whip your dick out and to play with it. Ask her to kiss it. Tell her to swirl it in her mouth. Unless you've been coming off beta the entire date, she will want you to tell her what you want.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:04 PM
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College is worth what you put into it. If you're going for a "social experience," don't. You can develop a better social experience by doing things that won't cost you real money. College is for education, online or brick n mortar. Try joining different clubs or activities if you want to be social.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:51 PM
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Set goals. Set intermittent goals to reach big goals. Build confidence of hitting little goals to achieve big goals. Motivation naturally acquired to continue being awesome. Don't distract yourself from the past. You need to figure out how to accept it and then move on from it. Without first accepting, your past will come back raging.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:48 PM
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Dating apps are finicky and will either drive you to one of two extremes: either you find out every girl wants to fuck you (hahahaha), or you feel like a loser because you can't pull a match. If you want to really pull, start doing day game. The likelihood of you pulling girls is a lot higher, and you can actually learn where you screwed up instead of scrutinizing your pictures. With the confidence, your night game will be over the top.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:38 PM
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I just want to fuck her and then ghost her ass. You wrote that wrong, let me fix it - I just want to fuck her and then ghost her ass.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:35 PM
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Spin her, figure out why she wants to (or knows that she's with) a 30 year old.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:32 PM
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Well so here's the problem - you made plans for a month out. I have never seen anyone advocate for more than a week out, and normally don't mention meeting up until about 2 days prior. At least you got the right mentality. I'd be interested in knowing what kind of small talk, but that's only so we can get creative with escalation. If you don't care... then don't care
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:00 PM
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You're your own man. Why do you care what she's doing? NEXT...
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:56 PM
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Your idea is fine as long as you don't want to see her again. She's trying to show commitment, you just have to make her circle to what you want. I recommend either escalating sexually ("hey what's up" 'my dick') or getting her to play a game (ex: "you can only send me one picture of something you did today"; makes her spend time/energy on you without having to do anything). Or you can just continue to ignore. Nothing wrong with waiting until she's back in town. Worst comes to worst, you let her…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:54 PM
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What's the goal? Because if the goal is to become "attractive," we can fix that with a haircut or clothes. And as you're realizing, the body takes maintenance whether you're trying to be bulkier or skinnier. ​ If the goal is to gain muscle, then increase your calories/protein intake with lifting. If the goal is to lose fat, decrease your calorie intake and include cardio (prefer HIIT). Trying to gain muscle and get shredded is possible but it will essentially boil down to a calorie deficit with …
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:42 PM
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want to look older And I think that this may be part of of OP's problem. Screw everyone that thinks you look too young. I get told that all the time and have 10 years on you. You have to be comfortable with your look, and you need to back it up with confidence. There are ugly, and I mean UG-UH-LY dudes out there that still get girls. Play to your strengths and embrace what you got.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:35 PM
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(2) Keep your fucking mouth shut. Everyone has doubts. Just don't speak them aloud and know one will know for sure you have them. You will appear invincible. Always say less than is necessary - 48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:30 AM
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I think you read a sidebar, maybe even meditate over it. Then practice using it in place of said cliche(s). It will be normal for you, but won't come off as cliche to the other.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:29 AM
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Opened this and thought it was only going to talk about one thing... man gets into it! Thanks for finding!
/r/askTRP25/05/19 01:48 PM
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I'd say give it another day, then when you do text her suggest the time and place. You'll come off as confident and knowing what the hell you're doing.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:27 PM
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I like the plan. I recommend breaking down what your day looks like so you can figure out where you want to spend your time (i.e. I want 8 hours of sleep, therefore if I go to bed at 10, I should be up by 6). Unless you live in or need the second language, I wouldn't put too much emphasis on it. Something I would consider is joining a social group. If you're already going to do HIIT, maybe join a gym that offers HIIT classes. If there is a group around town that codes for fun, join them. Althoug…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:32 AM
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THE most important
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:27 AM
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But then they now have over 230k subs? like wth
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:24 AM
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Agree to disagree. Sally instigated with a false accusation. Assuming that she hasn't been tried for slander, she fits in with Bob. I don't think you can go after the organization or anyone blacklisting as they did not do anything to spread.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:27 PM
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Did you read the responses?! Ghost this girl. Go abundance make her want to meet up with you.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 05:40 PM
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Either 1) she doesn't have the means to see you or 2) she is interested but not committed. In either case, go abundance mentality... make her come to you.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:45 PM
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YMMV - I personally found mine to go WAY UP, mainly in endurance. I would be about a five minute guy, but the other week, I went for thirty. Main focus has been on lifting, but I also jump rope for my workout, and will throw in a circuit/super-set to push the body. Now I also used a couple other techniques: not thinking about my pleasure and trying to allow enough foreplay. Assuming you're not masturbating (because this reinforces the my pleasure way of thinking), you can definitely increase you…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:23 PM
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Push-pull technique. Such as negging her verbally but pulling her physically closer to you (or vice-versa).
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:08 AM
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Two points to consider from 48 Laws of Power: Law 5: So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life Law 15: Crush your enemies totally If you truly have 7-figures, why do you care what anyone in this small town thinks? Either re-influence to make them like you, don't care, or move. Not to mention, no one needs to know how much you inherited (Law 12: Use selective honesty...). If it does come up, make sure you (or your lawyer) is ready to defend it. To me this is a no brainer: use the ev…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:36 PM
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I am working 40-50 hours/week, but wanted to start a side business to (hopefully) set myself up for not needing that job. What would you recommend I do? And buying out my contract isn't really an option...
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:24 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy, one to put men in the driver's seat. To most people, the fact that you want to be as macho as possible by strutting this sexual game is a power move that intimidates. Some may even say that you're not playing by the rules of society. This frightens them. Others will say that the way we act and think creates the sexual allegations that come into a courtroom. They just want an excuse. And at the end of the day, people want a bad guy. Our don't give a fuck attitude, come i…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:16 AM
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1st world man here and it wasn't common sense to me... and yes I'm an educated person, decent looking, fairly active in high school. I think that it comes down more to a cultural understanding than a privilege. Like for myself, grew up in a fairly traditional household with dad working, mom staying at home. My biggest 'problem' was that I also had two sisters, and southern raised mother. She stuck the Blue Pill ideas in my head... which is fine, but it didn't really help me in dating. My dad tri…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:10 AM
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I appreciate the picture you painted, and from a bro to a bro, your situation sucks. But I can't be sorry for you, because it's not going to help your situation. You're not special in having a dysfunctional family. What you need to do is to understand your situation, understand yourself (because you can analyze your own behavior, even if it is prone to be bias), and figure out where you want to get to. What will help is developing a plan. Do you need to go to college now? Can it wait? Would you …
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:40 AM
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This is just a rant. It's not to discredit you, but you only talk about the good things about you, and the bad things... about your dad. You want to know how to deal with parents, but bar the divorce, nothing is mentioned of her. Also, if your dad has been doing whatever he wants for 7+ years, I wouldn't call him a Beta. Sounds like your mom has been allowing this to go on, and I would argue analyzing what your dad did with a RP lens. Advice: if you don't want him in your life, cut him out. Don'…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 08:56 PM
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You need to find a new place to frequent, and allow this ex-plate to forget. If you insist on frequenting the same spot, develop a game plan to put her down. "(Name), just because we're not dating anymore doesn't mean you have to be rude to every girl I talk to," or whatever you come up with. Keeping frame is great, but you need to be able to flip the pressure back on her.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 08:40 PM
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Try this Just so you know, 10s don't exist except for in theory.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 05:21 PM
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Serious question: is it worth it for the abundance mentality and gain confidence? Because I've messed around (all but sex) with fat girls, but couldn't pull the trigger on actually banging them.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 05:19 PM
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I like this idea. It's almost like playing "Where's Waldo?" for sex. Everyone wants to find a "Waldo," but there's no fun going around and shouting it. There is no chase. There is no need for interaction. You turn into exactly what you were saying the emptiness of casual sex and find it unfulfilling Thanks for your insight!
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:08 AM
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I don't think that she's not interested, I think that OP pushed his luck and HB got flustered. Going forward, I think putting the ball in her court (Want to hangout at 9?) may have been the better way to attack this.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:39 AM
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Although I can agree with you on some parts, you kill your own argument: It means outside morality... If the strategy of TRP has no grounds on morality (as amoral suggests), then morality should not be brought up, more or less direct morale slander of OP. We could get into a great argument about this, but when we have someone ask a question, opening up to figure out the best route to go, he is not asking if what he is doing is considered moral or immoral by one's societal standards. Hence if you…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:56 PM
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I'd like to remind commenters that TRP is amoral. If you don't know what that means, look it up. If you want to stay in an LTR, then you're going to have to a bit of give and take. LTRs do not happen without it. The mom thing is whatever, I'd ignore that comment, but you're going to come off as someone trying to hide shit if you continue to act this way (and really childish... women hate that). If you want to keep her, tell her what she wants to hear (refer to 48 Laws of Power), and then continu…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:52 AM
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So the only way to get "caught up" is to go out, no two ways around that one. Personally, I recommend trying out different groups of activities that sound enjoyable to you. A lifting group, running group, or whatever kind of hobbies (get into multiple) you think you'd enjoy. If you like them, keep going to them, and I think having to focus on the hobby rather than self will allow you to relax and not feel as self-conscious. My technique in college was to take up partner dancing (blues/fusion/sal…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 12:43 AM
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not a neg but because I dont want to buy shit. An unintentional neg is still a neg. she would instantly follow up on a guy that gets her wet then it's a risk that her delay means she's going for scraps This is more what I'm worried about. She has initiated everything thus far except meeting up. ​
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:38 AM
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not a neg but because I dont want to buy shit. An unintentional neg is still a neg. she would instantly follow up on a guy that gets her wet then it's a risk that her delay means she's going for scraps This is more what I'm worried about. She has initiated everything thus far except meeting up. ​
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:35 AM
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not a neg but because I dont want to buy shit. An unintentional neg is still a neg. she would instantly follow up on a guy that gets her wet then it's a risk that her delay means she's going for scraps This is more what I'm worried about. She has initiated everything thus far except meeting up. ​
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:34 AM
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not a neg but because I dont want to buy shit. An unintentional neg is still a neg. she would instantly follow up on a guy that gets her wet then it's a risk that her delay means she's going for scraps This is more what I'm worried about. She has initiated everything thus far except meeting up. ​
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:34 AM
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so I guess the part AFTER is what will determine whether you handled it well or not. It's a little MGTOW what you did as TRP usually pushes the slay mindset. But the beautiful thing is that you're in the driver's seat either way. If you "don't shit where you eat," then stick to your guns. If you feel like you didn't do the right thing, have the excuse ready (I wasn't feeling good). Whichever way you run though own it! ​
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:12 AM
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Ah, so you're talking more about a strictly work environment. I'd recommend reading sidebar information with emphasis on the 48 Laws of Power. I admittedly just started reading it, but I think it'll give you something to think about when playing with the antagonistic (thinking a combo of Law 3 & 5).
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:08 AM
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The Beta kind of showed with her asking for the number (job or not) and what I'm perceiving as her continually asking for information of you. That and she just 'randomly' texted you out of nowhere 3 weeks later... I wouldn't buy it. But what I'm afraid of is orbiter: Orbiter - Also known as Beta Orbiter. A beta guy who accepted the proposal to "just be friends" from a girl he has oneitis for. He will stick around her and constantly validate her whenever she requests it. Also known as "friendzone…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:01 AM
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IMO she's driving the relationship, and you are BP. If she suggested the day/time, tell her it doesn't work (something popped up, work, whatever), and suggest a new date/time.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:41 AM
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AWALT - I'd play exactly as you would with any other woman. She's not mature, she's got a few more years than the women you normally hit on. "I'd love to talk about it over some drinks" or whatever you do.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:36 AM
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Personally, I kept expanding. This is fairly easy for me being an extrovert and having a natural interest in many hobbies. ​ The reason I went expansive is because you need a pool in order to be selective. Going to several pools allowed me to find interests that I liked and people who liked them as well. Within each circle I would assert myself as someone who also enjoyed another social circle. Without having known about TRP, this made me appear more alpha in two ways: 1) I have connections/othe…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:34 AM
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That's a shit test. Ignore or escalate
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:24 AM
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"Yes, but it may take 4x as long..."
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/18 02:56 AM
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I find it messed up that she shows up in court with her street clothes, and the bf is in an orange jumpsuit...
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/18 08:54 PM
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We all have to start somewhere...
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:07 AM
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There is a 'cool kid' of every group. The popular boy because he's good looking sure, but women like Chad's in their areas. Let's say band - some women will be attracted to the dude who can play. I'm not sure what your gift/talent is, but that's the one you should be showing off.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:52 AM
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Please use the sidebar on how to lift or do anything RP related.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:50 AM
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It's not stupid, it works. The problem is that women that you want to plate won't keep up on it. Protect yourself
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:49 AM
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Create your own orbit. This dude has looks... be different, give a girl a reason to want to hang out with you
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:25 AM
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No way! She agreed to a time and place and now she's trying to make you feel bad about it. Don't deal with that.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:23 AM
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what's the problem? your bp friend is hanging out with a girl that you're plating... I feel like the only reason you'd post is if you did have a problem with it. And if you want to keep your bro (which I recommend), joke about how awful it was hanging out with him and put yourself into a better light. Plates come and go
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:22 AM
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In terms of...
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:43 AM
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If you're from an ethnic group that is seen as low SMV by women... Doesn't exist. Shit, half the time not being "exactly like everyone else" (of course in a white girl's voice) is exactly what they want. Your SMV is probably low because you want your race to be your crutch. Don't let it be.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:06 AM
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My only concern is that I'd look like I was stunned and can't find my words, especially through text. Nah dude. It's a shit test; if you were stunned, you'd respond.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:51 AM
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Please read this and this. If you still have question about what to do, reply to this comment.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 11:52 AM
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It's always been my experience that the majority of people who talk to me like this are my friends, people I'm on good terms with, or a good looking woman. Very few times has it been just an asshole, but I'm going to assume it is. There's a difference between being able to take a few hits/jokes, standing up for yourself,and feeling vengeful. To a certain extent, being Alpha/TRP is rolling with the punches and even escalating it just to prove how stupid the other person sounds (sidebar). Then the…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:55 AM
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Let it die. If they try to start shit, tell them that it was in the past, we all had a good laugh, now let it go. We're not 3rd grade school girls around here.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:38 AM
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I don't care what my value is, because I enjoy being me. I don't need numbers or stats or a woman to prove that I'm worth anything. TRP is not making you feel like hell, it's challenging you. You are at odds with yourself.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 12:27 AM
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What do you enjoy doing? What do you like to do? Reading is always a good option, especially on material you like (cars, planes, etc). I personally try to get creative, play an instrument from time to time.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 09:22 PM
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This is going to be harsh, but it's coming from a good place. Where do you find your value? Is it in you, or is it in a HB#? It's okay to have a bad day(s), to be in a slump. But you got to decide what you want. Good on you for getting your blood taken. You want to help yourself. Now decide what's going to make you better. Make it an internal validation. You got to love yourself first, otherwise TRP is going to make you feel like hell.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 09:20 PM
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Alright bro: 1) You're in the military, and that is a small group of people, and you don't want to be on the wrong end of ANYTHING concerning this woman. Also, she's coworker. Don't screw with coworkers. 2) Don't let her know (or orbit) because she's better than you/gets what you want for any reason. You know you have to work your ass off to get anything. Focus on you, become the best you. 3) If you know what you're doing is beta, QUIT THAT SHIT!!! You recognize what you're doing is wrong, corre…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 09:16 PM
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It was just the general vibe I got: Keep in mind that we hadn't kissed yet... I know the number of guys she has kissed Honestly, you're putting too much pressure on this kiss. If kissing is a big deal for you, then right on, but just so you know, kissing for most TRP-ers is reaching first base... a norm if you will. Main reason I made the comment. Most guys don't say things like that until they're talking about banging chicks.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:25 PM
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Try finding a local college. Younger women, most are just as new to it as you as well. And if you know what you're doing, they fall for you that much quicker.
/r/seduction31/03/17 12:40 AM
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Okay young grasshopper, I'll answer each question directly. Hope it helps. Why do you think she reacted the way she did? Because you've been talking a big game! You guys are flirting, having a good time. TBH, it sounds like you are super sheltered and afraid to just pursue a woman, LTR or plate. If you are, it's cool, but the language you use is... childish (not trying to be a dick). It sounds like you're worried about being a 'kissing notch' on her belt. If you pursue TRP, you will get 'notches…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:24 AM
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Agreed. Just don't ask her for techniques or how to do something. You still want to come off alpha.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:04 AM
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Okay, if you're going NoFap, include losing any woman you donate money to for time. For goodness sake, TRP says make the women chase you, and you're not doing yourself a service. If you're 22 and are willing to spend money on ladies, take that money and invest it in yourself. Those women literally want your money, but if you're worried about your wallet or would rather pick up a girl, you can do it! Never messed with sex/testosterone pills, and I'd recommend you go cold on this. Your body may be…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:03 AM
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PUA is real. If you watch youtube videos, I'm sure most have perfected it so they are successful more times than not. But most guys aren't going to ever get that success. Besides, self propaganda; you only show your successes, and cut all the failures.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:08 PM
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If you've read all the sidebar content, start reading the RedPill Theory and Examples (sort the flair on the bottom right of r/theredpill). Knowing is half the battle, but if you don't make connections and figure out how to work it into your life, it's useless.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:06 PM
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If you want to be with the girl, then yes, way over thinking it. You either have to trust her, not care, or ask her about this 'trust issue' that you have. I recommend letting it go, because it's a lose-lose (either she did and you're pissed, or she didn't and she's pissed at you... assuming you trust her answer). Personally for my LTR, we talked about this shit before we dated, so to me, you are way late to that game. Talking about boundaries and expectations is going to make an LTR work. The d…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:04 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. /r/theredpill TRP cares that she's a HB#, but doesn't care or give details as to why we rate her as such.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:28 PM
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No, getting engaged was a goal, but it wasn't the reason I went out on dates. I went out to have fun, meet people, get out of my comfort zone. Going tout solidified to me what I was looking for in a LTR, and when I found one I liked, I stopped spinning plates.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:03 AM
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Well first, go get your mind right. Cry, beat a punching bag, hit the gym... get the anger out. I used to be exactly where you are - ended a three year long relationship with 'the one'. I ultimately took a year off, swallowing the pill, went on dates, and ended up two years later with a fiancee. So snap yourself out. She obviously isn't the one, and don't fool yourself into believing only one woman is suitable for you. Abundance mentality. If you want to settle for one ultimately, that's fine, j…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:35 AM
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Yes, goals and other stress relievers. Goals will help you focus your energy on something(s) specific. But you should have a few ways to decompress and relax (which is a reason most masturbate).
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:21 AM
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Wrong forum
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:49 PM
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Got myself into a date which I don't normally like to do. If you don't want to go on a date, tell her to screw off. Hotness does not matter (and if she wants you, she'll chase, see How to Not Give A Fuck. As for the other shit, that's on you! TRP is not about ideal or making things perfect, it's about making the best of a situation, and then moving on.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:49 PM
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I read this and couldn't figure out how to reply, but this is golden. The details of the matter don't matter. The guy sounds a little out of his mind anyway. AKA: You did it right.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:39 PM
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Look, I've done the NoFap thing. Here is what it'll do: Your 'superpowers' are a combination of ultimately two things: self-discipline and testosterone. The first will make you realize that you can achieve certain goals if you put your mind to it, but may take more than a few weeks to realize, which builds confidence. The second will make you (manly) hormonal. You will probably have more energy, and have more of a drive to go after women (or men if you're gay, do you). This can be a bit of a rol…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:37 PM
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Was kind of my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 03:55 AM
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The ability for a woman to get laid plays a part in her femininity? Call me crude, but I think that most men would jump on a girl who was offering sex (generally speaking). The ability to attract partners may be a part of it... but I'm not sure about necessarily the 'banging' process, unless these are one in the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 11:27 PM
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So is a scantily clad woman who can get laid more masculine than a man who cannot?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 11:23 PM
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Isn't this all in the side bar?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:35 PM
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More than likely you are employing RPT techniques without realizing it. Case and point: Even before this girl, I've always had the mentality that I could get with any girl I want, I just have confidence.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:52 AM
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"I don't need you to hold my hand" I thought this was funny personally, and made her show she was standoff-ish, which is typically feminist in nature. male supporting actor goofily asks if female protagonist has a boyfriend, making a fool of himself and essentially obliterating his frame They did not develop nor keep his character very well. If you think of his upbringing (training), then they really make him look like he became a total panzie over night. Didn't read the books, but on this point…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:35 AM
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There is a lot of truth to that, but it's about fleshing out the idea. Believe me, I usually linger more here than I do the parent for that reason. Might be worth running by one of them though. Almost guarantee they say "Dude, just post it." As long as you aren't breaking rules, there really shouldn't be a problem.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:23 AM
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Agreed. Sounds like you're needy and you may need some new bros. And if anything, if you're picking up a chick, sounds like you're almost guaranteed a place to bring her back to. So please tell us, why are you bitching? And you saying you brought beer home makes you sound very beta especially with context.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:19 AM
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Take it as a shit test. Most non white/black dudes I've seen playing the game have a hard time dealing with the shit tests. I personally recommend the agree and amplify, command authority, or ignore.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:16 AM
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Not trying to be a buzz kill because that is very good, but this place is more for questions. Would highly recommend throwing this on the parent sub after fleshing it out and telling everyone that he gets down to business after the first few minutes.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:12 AM
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I will definitely act on this advice, and I will report back one or two months later to you. I am cutting off my friends from today itself Looking forward to it. I will forget, but throw it up as one of your goals to accomplish and at least link this article so I can remember. Honestly thought you were still in high school, but going through college, you realize it's high school on a more 'adult' level. Keep charging. Can't wait to hear about the results.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:36 PM
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Not 100% seeing your point. Yeah, a super hero can use their powers for good or evil, but the power in of itself is not either. If that's what you're saying sure. One thing I would be careful about is talking about immoral actions. There are lots of points of view, religions, and upbringings here that have become the core of what we see as moral/immoral. This person was asking for advice concerning this specific situation for him. By far this doesn't mean that you have to act the same way, but t…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:26 PM
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Can you explain how it wouldn't be?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 03:43 AM
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Going to spit ball some ideas: Try to get roommates and split costs; Try to live close to work to cut down on commuting costs; move in with someone established (parents, family); cut out frivolous wants, stick strictly to needs. I know this sub is about being alpha and on top of your stuff, but you may have to be a little humble and get some serious help to get you back on your feet. But make sure that you never take more than you need, and that you have a legit game plan when things come back t…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:33 AM
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So who is at fault here. He is. He acted like he'd be cool with it and he wasn't. Doesn't matter though, you did your thing. Remember, RP is amoral. Should I care, and even if not, should I avoid in future? Can you think of a reason why you should care? This girl found you and let you take her to bed voluntarily. I recommend against going after taken girls, but RP says that it doesn't matter (amoral). I'm curious as to why you're involving yourself in their mess. She went away, let her go.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:27 AM
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And if you need to do that, then definitely do it. My biggest worry is that your friends are validating you. Definitely spend time with friends but don't be afraid to go solo.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:21 AM
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Suggestions based on what was read: *Friends are great, hanging out with people is great. But there is a certain wonder about a man who can walk in alone and start a conversation with someone. Recommend going somewhere alone to prove to yourself you don't need someone there . *Go out into the city/park and work on game. You have a reason girls need to get with you (only in town for a limited time) if they want you. Show off SMV. *Self improve. Read and lift.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:49 PM
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Personally I would say what was wrong with 290 lb you? Don't tell me the feminists didn't approve because you weren't cut like greek god... My point being is that it's a self confidence thing. If you are confident to go after numbers, do it. If you want to wait, do it. One advantage of starting now is knowing that you're going to get closer to personal goals as you continue to build muscle and lose weight increasing self confidence. By the time you get to your goal, you have practiced techniques…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:40 PM
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Read the rules: Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals. To answer, I would say not necessarily. You are showing initiative, but without knowing why you're adding her, I can't answer this question for you.To kick this with a sidenote, the problem with social media is [this.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/276c8y/social_media_has_created_a_culture_where/] Basically a dick swingi…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:34 PM
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I prefer not to believe that I'm self-improving only for the betterment of myself, because that actually demotivated me during tough times. Maybe I didn't state this well. You need to self improve, but that doesn't mean you can't ask for help. There are few men if any that have gotten to where they are, been successful, without someone's help. You can do anything you put your mind to, have your name echoed into centuries to come, but that has to be something burning within. No one here is going …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:19 PM
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AWALT does not apply to a virgin. Unless a virgin is not a woman, AWALT applies. She may not exhibit those things and it may be easier to put down when she does start to show this behavior, but it's still there. But minus that, everything else u/thatoneguy955 says is correct, especially if your personal goal is to get married (which is against RP teaching; plate). There is an inherent risk in everything we do and you must weigh and decide. But as it was stated: Do not cheat. Either leave her and…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:30 PM
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You should have lots of LDRs. A girl in every city.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:20 PM
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Hence the analogy. It's meant to draw a parallel (a good one at that) to be able to relate to. You are getting into weeds.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 06:15 PM
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How could I ensure without a doubt, and without violence/psychopathy, that an SO will remain loyal and trustworthy? You can't. I had a great SO and then her mom butted in, and the girl sided with her mom. Dropped her without questioning it even though I thought we were going to get married. Not sure where this violence/psychopathy is coming from, but RP doesn't promote violence, and only uses psychological games to ground or get wanted behavior out of someone. Is the goal eventually to become so…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:45 PM
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I think that you care way too much about your ex-wife. Regarding the actual image, seems stupid. We force kids to eat healthy food, tell them to go play/exercise, etc. Interactions between two human beings, one of which is too young to remember anything by the time they hit five, needs to be taught. To say you're 'forcing' your daughter to hug Uncle or kiss Grandma may be true, but they've never done it and are probably scared of trying it. It's pointless.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:30 AM
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You got her on a pedastool. You perceive her to be more flirty now because she's a viable option. You have a study group with her and some other people... big whoop. Not sure why you're inviting her to the gym, that's your time, and if she doesn't know how to text back for anything, fuck her. Become a better you, flirt with her HB friends and make her fight for what she wants. Don't invest time/money with this girl until she starts doing it for you. Sounds like she needs someone to coddle her af…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:24 AM
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I would like to think some wingman concept comes in here. I would definitely be tempted to straight up give him advice, but he wouldn't receive it well. I would point out red flags and try to help guide his thinking to "holy shit what am I doing? I need help" that way the advice is asked for.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:18 AM
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Bottom Line Up Front- Sidebar, abundance mentality, goal making, positive friends/influences, DGAF I'm going to be an asshole, and break this down line by line just so you know what you're saying and what RP says. He was the worst friend Ive ever had and I absolutely hate him Like a bad relationship, LET HIM GO!. He's not helping you reach your goals, and he's not a girl. Take your hatred to the gym and release the energy that way. After you do that one, three, thirty times, let him go. The prob…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:13 AM
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RP doesn't promote LTR, and definitely not marriage. The reason is because in order to have either of these things, you have to compromise. To compromise or make deals means that you are required to do something in order to expect 1) the same behavior or 2) get an unwanted behavior (complaining, no sex, etc.). For everything stated, this relationship can't truly be within the context of an RP. But it can be successful and have RP principles. You can be in this relationship and hold an alpha stat…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:39 AM
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Not a huge Star Wars fan, but happy to argue: unrealistic that Rey had so much knowledge of things such as the millennium falcon at her very young age She didn't know it was the Millennium Falcon. Assuming all ships (like cars) are built the same, and seeing that she made a living scavenging for them, I would say that from a knowing the systems, it was plausible. As for being able to fly the thing, You have a point and then some. unrealistic that Rey had such strong jedi powers (that she didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 02:28 AM
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Dismiss it and change the subject. Face palm
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:29 AM
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If you really aren't interested, then why not just man up and say "thanks but no thanks? I consider you a friend and I don't want our relationship to go any further." Think of it as holding frame but with a girl you don't want to be with.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:23 AM
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Yeah, welcome to being single. Also sounds a little like /r/MGTOW as well, but not as politically driven. Dude, do your thing.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:25 AM
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Sounds like either she was waiting on you to just start making out with her or that she really was that awkward. Did you flirt with her? Sounds like you never escalated or took frame. You went through 46 different conversation starters, and if you pride yourself on small talk, either she didn't care for it or she wanted something else. I would chalk this one up as a "Huh, that was interesting" and continue plating.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:19 AM
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I would say you're being too hard on yourself. Yes, read up and understand what you want to do. Yes go out and meet people (practice things like frame with friends). Yes flirt with girls. But if you screw something up, roll with it, use other TRP techniques. Every man is going to show Alpha and Beta actions while out and about. Just because you're not perceived as Alpha/TRP 100% of the time doesn't mean you failed. You have to roll with and learn from the punches. One thing I've learned from giv…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:47 AM
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Please sticky this or add to Asktrp sidebar. Telling guys to refer to side bar only works in /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:37 AM
3

Borderline: what is it? Never heard of term, and didn't see in glossary.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 03:57 AM
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who actually want to be in relationships and value that over hook ups Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought this was one way that MGTOW was different from RP. Currently, I still value (and want) a long term relationship more than I want any hook up.
/r/MGTOW10/12/15 04:53 AM
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women have changed ... but the court system has not. Most judges grew up when modern feminism was just being born. No matter what, men are wiped clean, even if they were the 'stay at home' dad.
/r/MGTOW10/12/15 04:43 AM
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With a feminists mother, he won't ever reach this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 11:31 PM
1

Look into student jobs that are overly glorified secretaries too. You get paid less than minimum wage but you can study and do personal development. Time is the most important thing. It's constant, you can't take it back, you can't give it to someone else (as in here, I'll shorten my life to extend yours). In this respect, make the most of all your opportunities, but don't stress about working a few hours for food and helping to pay for some books.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 02:33 AM
1

As others have said: side bar. But what you're asking for in particular might be more down the road of /r/seduction
/r/askTRP04/12/15 12:19 AM
3

You should always be looking for the next one.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 12:15 AM
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I'm surprised. You've made some entry-level mistakes. Re-read the entire sidebar, at least once. This twice.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 12:14 AM
2

I have never seen the principle of not texting first. I've had dudes rip me a new one for expecting women to message first. Would love to see who is giving that advice.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:11 AM
1

over gaming orbiting And just have the knowledge to know they weren't 'just thinking about you'. Take it as a shit test and call them out on it.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:50 AM
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Not necessarily. Just like the most jacked dude in the room isn't necessarily the equivalent because if they don't know how to portray themselves then it's all useless. Take Homeless Joe. This dude (used to) sleep with dozens a women a year. Guess what? He didn't have his own place, money, literally nothing but some clothes.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:16 AM
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has technology given most women such a strong false perception of power that they won't do something as simple as texting us first? No, women just don't know how to initiate. Men are always the ones that initiate because it takes risk, and women don't have the balls to getting hurt if a guy straight up never messaged her back. You should never trust a woman to message you back. If anything, you should poke fun at them when they say they will and don't (thought you were going to text me so we cou…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:12 AM
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You honestly sound like you need to relax and maybe focus more on you. I know you're meditating, but it sounds like you're trying to force things along. The online game goes strong for about a few weeks and then dies. Sorry dude, that's standard. And unless you're in/near a big city, it's not going to get better any sooner. One tip on that if you go back to it is to change your profile picture every 2-3 weeks. A woman that skipped over you might gravitate to a different picture. If the object of…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:04 AM
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The honest answer is that you should be spinning every girl who wants you. Not fuck them, spin. Easy to work game on and keep sharp. They will also boost your SMV. It's like when you see that ugly ass dude with a smoking hot girl and you're wondering how to steal her. Switch the genders, it works the same way. And spin every freaking woman you can. Abundance theory is going to keep you from getting overly attached or clingy to this woman you actually want. You don't lower any standards, you just…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:54 AM
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Unless she's LTR worthy (shakes head no), next now. Continue no contact. She's nuked herself, don't dive in trying to save her.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:44 AM
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Bro, can you read the title?
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:41 AM
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Then you probably need to be eating several meals throughout the day. Instead of cramming 1000 calories at once, break it up over a few hours, ie breakfast, mid morning snack, lunch, snack, dinner, late night snack. Also would recommend looking into the lifting subreddit.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:41 AM
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I was in your position a year ago without RP. Depending on how often you see this person, you're just going to feel out of place doing things at worst. The big thing is to keep doing what you've been doing: continuing to self improve. There really isn't anything cosmic to it.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:37 AM
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If I had to recommend a fix, it would be to call her and acknowledge the other night was a little crazy, ~you're sorry~ it got so intense, and you'd like to try again when everyone isn't wasted. Then she'll probably also say sorry, and you can set something up. Everything else /u/machimus said is correct except saying sorry. RPT (from what I've read/been told) is that you never say sorry, or at least first. Continuing, you were so worried about keeping control, you lost control of yourself (I wa…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:43 AM
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You are not alone. Literally posted about the same thing not too long ago. Basically abundance theory. Knowing that even at your lowest, you still have options. Tips: initiate texts with women, but wait at least five minutes before replying back, and don't make it exactly five minutes every time (they'll pick up on that). Also, say what you need to say and nothing more. You don't need to go into every detail, ex: Hey I am free on Tuesday at 4 otherwise we can meet Thursday at 5 vs let's meet Tue…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 09:19 PM
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I've graduated from HS, graduated from college. Every time I go back home for the holidays, I meet up with maybe one or two people. The fact is that all the people that I was semi-close to I've let go. They aren't helping me, supporting me or even contacting me. If someone doesn't care about you when you reach out to them, don't worry about them. People come and go.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:32 PM
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Probably the best advice. She wasn't 'feeling well' but still wanted to hold your interest. Doubt Chad is swinging by, but if he is it'll become obvious very quickly. If you think she's worth your time then keep going with her. Doesn't sound like you have too much invested, so don't over do it, get out when you're tired of getting dragged along.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:27 PM
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Recommend reading the sidebar if you haven't already. But there is some truth that TRP doesn't really go into explicit detail about this. In my interpretation, RP doesn't really believe in love. They recognize relationships, that some are more serious than others, but love is more of an idea built long ago when romance was the norm and gender roles were more PC. Now a days, love and romance is more of a figment of imagination for the beta.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:19 PM
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Yes they did. They just had different rules.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:08 AM
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Well first I am a man who has control over his beast like qualities. I recommend getting some self discipline. Also legs, feet, boobs, faces... AWALT, abundance theory. Recommend some serious reading the sidebar with a side of /r/seduce. But dude, you have not swallowed the pill yet.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 04:17 PM
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Thanks for the message with the update. And totally agree with /u/writewhereileftoff. Had a PR guy next to her so she needed someone who was going to be good going out. I found it interesting that you didn't say that you were a party animal (but if you're not it makes sense). In either case, you probably would've done fine but the fact that it was a public relations deal and a speed date (almost stupid in itself) probably screwed you over. Seems well played though, and you implemented RPT.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 04:12 PM
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Classic shit test. For the date, if the opportunity wasn't there, it wasn't there. If it was, learn from it. So this girl is just ignoring you hoping to escalate you, and make you orbit her. AWALT. Man do women treat betas with disgust! Well then don't be a beta! Ignore her for now. Escalate with this other girl (doesn't have to be anything crazy, but definitely don't change your actions for her). This increases your SMV and will have her coming back to you. And if she doesn't... whatever. Abund…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:18 PM
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I'm going to assume you haven't been here long, and that's ok, but go read the sidebar on /r/theredpill. But I have to let you know what you just said is a lot of beta buck bullshit. You cannot change anyone. They have to change themselves. You can help to mold their behavior, but ultimately it is a personal decision. Women may have a fantasy of settling down, but around here, marriage is a bad word with exclusive LTR not following too far behind it. These women will settle down with some BB orb…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:09 PM
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If you're looking to fuck then yeah, you want forbidden fruit, otherwise you're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:59 PM
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This girl has been treated like a superstar. But on this speed date of yours, she is just an ordinary woman who came over to you from the bar with a drink who is 'semi-interested' in taking you as a date. Never done speed dating but within a couple minutes you need to be memorable. Connect with her quickly on something, flirt, escalate, throw in some kino (be interesting what /r/seduction had to say about this). And remember, you have nothing to lose. You weren't going to this festival to begin …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:15 PM
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The problem is the focus. You can't compare yourself (yet, will explain). You are self loathing guy who is caught up in his own depression. The only way that you can build yourself is by literally building yourself. Figure out something(s) that you're good at, and build confidence that way. When you start to enjoy it, get a teacher or specialist who can promote your learning in that area. When you get good, then you can think about looking around and figuring out how people are better than you i…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:04 PM
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I'm not British (American), but I'll try to understand this. First, You are not a special fucking snowflake. You can't change your skin color, so get the fuck over it, and work on things that are actually within your control to change. Second, why the fuck do you want these "unapproachable, behave too posh, 200k or fuck off" type of women. These girls act the way they do because they have so many orbiters that will bend over backwards for them. They aren't even necessarily the feminists type the…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:57 PM
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And this response has nothing constructive for him to work on or do.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:46 PM
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Not only hold your frame, but tell her your gift was going out for a dinner and movie. And don't start being 'fair'. Relationships are not about any fairness (give and take). But you need to make sure you show her you're willing to stick to your guns. If anything, you deserve an apology for her acting child like when you were just trying to show her a good time. And for goodness sake, do not try to compensate this 'mistake' by spending more money than you normally would have for her Graduation. …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:42 PM
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I think reading up on sidebar stuff would do you better than I could, especially that link I posted in the first reply. Keeping frame is going to be challenging, but play with it. If you come off like a schmuck, then guess what? You got plenty of other girls to try these things on, so don't be afraid to take a risk.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:57 AM
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DID YOU READ WHAT YOU POSTED?
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:03 AM
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Well I'm going to be honest; you sound more like an orbiter than anything. You sound very submissive and that she just sees you as nothing more than a friend. "liking" FB pics is whatever. You need to do stuff IRL, at a minimum talking on the phone. I recommend reading up on frame and establishing yourself as at least confident. Because from what I read it sounds like you're visiting your long lost mom.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 06:02 AM
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What has the conversation been? All messenger? Talked to her on the phone? Strictly platonic? Flirting? Come on brother, give some details! Is it lunch at a fancy place? Is she just squeezing you in? Will you two be free after?
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:53 AM
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Did you fuck it up? Yes you did. What makes this worst is that you didn't think this through (having future classes with her). But I think that if you want it to be recoverable, it's possible but will be challenging. Although when you say: all these girls are very intelligent, which unfortunately means they feel entitled to the fucking world because they're hot, smart, and have a rich daddy AWALT. Including this girl, she's not a special snowflake. I think that if nothing else, you need to read …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:48 AM
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This post honestly made me cringe. You keep taking but you never establish yourself. She suggests things, she buys things (which is awesome that you don't have to buy it, but it's adding up), she controls the tempo... I see a lot of She (action) going on with you just going along. One of the first posts on here I made, I got raked across the coals for not going straight for lips when kissing. I would say that younger women this or older women that, but truly AWALT. If you want something, establi…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:26 AM
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I ran into this problem while trying to quit fapping (which is amoral for the intents and purposes of this conversation). I'm going to explain this video but I highly encourage watching it. Every habit has a cue/set off. From that we go do something in hopes of deriving a pleasure (eating, sleeping, sex, etc). So what you need to do is find what cues this boredom. When you recognize it, go do something productive. Personally I came up with 'bored' cards. Every time I got bored, I'd shuffle my in…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:26 AM
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Rational brain and dick need to think together and say: there are many others like her and I do not need her. You called her a plate, so I'm assuming you don't give two about this girl (unless 'label' refers to something). Tell her what you want and let her make the decision. Remember you are NOT making her dump her bf for you, that is her choice.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:49 AM
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Agreed with this. Sounds like you're in college, some girl needed to use the bathroom, banged on your door, did her business and walked out. If this is the case... dude you're reading way too into that.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:19 AM
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From what I read, you sound like you're doing some BB stuff, but when trying to LTR, there's going to be some give and take. The question I would ask you is who has control of this relationship? Because it sounds like she is, and that's very beta around these parts. You know what you want but you're unwilling to stand up for it. You can respect her decision, but she keeps running back to you expecting to become an orbiter. Her ex is fucking her and you're not. She wants to use you as an emotiona…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:07 AM
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I want to help but am not an expert. Would recommend trying to find a subreddit that goes into things like this such as /r/skin_care. Otherwise, it might be worth talking to a dermatologist about the majority of these things.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:50 PM
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My empathy stays the same. Dated a girl for 3 years LDR LTR. If you're serious about her then be serious. You can still hold frame and what not in an LDR (which I actually did prior to swallowing) you just have to be willing to put up with it, and it's doable. If you can't, I guess she can be your side thing when visiting each other but if an LTR is what you want then there's no reason to drag this on.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 12:16 AM
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What I read here is that you don't have a talking problem, you have a listening problem. If you ramble on and on you don't really have control of yourself more or less the conversation. And women love, excuse me... love to talk about themselves. Even if they ask you a question you should pause, formulate what you want to say, and be done talking in say 15 seconds. Not an expert on this by any means, but try this when you're out and about: pause and add a bit of mystery. "Hello welcome to (sit do…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:40 AM
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TL;DR: Use the sidebar. You're welcome: Relationships, the Red Pill, and you. If you want someone to empathize with you, yes, been there, done that and it sucks. Your ego is in the way and it says "I had her, she's mine, but now she's not." The problem is that we're emotionally attached and we don't like to share. As in all in or all out guy myself, you just got to suck it up. If you don't see anything LTR with her, and you are after LTR, leave it alone. Because statements like: I don't want her…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:30 AM
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Yeah I got some advice: grab the red pill, swallow that shit, grab your nuts and do what you want to do. One thing man (to include myself) struggles with is thinking there is a right path. There is no right path. There are many paths with several destinations. Are there greater rewards for greater risks, yes, but if you're personality doesn't fit into you better be ready to fake it until you become it. It is possible, but it takes work and climbing over personal hurdles.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:18 AM
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When was the last time a girl you tried to pick up say "How big are you?" Crickets crickets Size doesn't impede anything except your self confidence. And for goodness sake focus on what you can change, not what you can't!
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:12 AM
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I'm more curious of what you think guys should do if they do want to take a plate and make it into an LTR. If it's in the sidebar, I'm working through it just haven't gotten to it yet.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:10 AM
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If only there were subreddits that could offer advice... /r/lifting ... /r/liftingroutines ...
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:48 AM
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I like this option the best. You still have control of the situation and are in a more dominate position. Behavior wise (and it's only funny because she's a psych major) you can actually condition her to start offering things before she starts whining to you. Plus who doesn't enjoy a good meal?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:47 AM
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TL;DR: use /r/theredpill sidebar You're Welcome: Relationships, the Red Pill, and you Oh and there is no such thing as almost a unicorn, she either is or she isn't... and there are no such things as unicorns.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:41 AM
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Stop screwing up. When you screw up (because none of us are Chad), own that shit. You fucked up, but that was your fuck up. No need to get emotional because you screwed up. You're going to make thousands of mistakes over your lifetime. If you want to whine and cry, you can but realize that you'll be on the BB bench while the AFs are out playing ball (or getting their balls played with). And no one likes a whiny toddler: I lose my emotional control and just end up crying for a few minutes Idk how…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:04 AM
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You need to just tell her she can't bring that up anymore. It's done and over with; and if you bring it up again we're done. Sick of it. That's all that really needs to be said from my perspective. Have seen the nagging and all it turns into is a snowball that picks up other nags as time goes on. Threaten once, cut the second. She's not playing baseball.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:57 PM
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Not occupy, fulfill your day. Each day you're given a glass to fill. You can put marbles, pebbles, sand, water or 'nothing' in it but the glass is still full. Occupying a day is essentially putting nothing in your glass. You had a day, but you didn't really do anything with it. I feel like the girl in chick flicks that can't get guys to stick around. Never say this again unless you're eating ice cream, crying, with mascara running down your face. If you're a man, be one! As in reference to the g…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:40 PM
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ASKTRP is for when you don't know what to do, not when you are too lazy to fucking to it, and you want some sympathy and a cookie instead. Clap, clap, clap This is unfortunately long overdue. Seen these pop up way too often especially the last few days.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:24 PM
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What can you change about your past? Nothing. What can you change for tomorrow? Everything. You know why those guys you mentioned are perceived as good, because they have the confidence! Perception does not equal the truth. One of those guys was probably just like you and wanted to change themselves... so they did. Name an average guy who is of average height doing anything more than average. Got one? Neither do I. DON'T BE AVERAGE! And more importantly use your lack of average to your advantage…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:57 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Had one real LTR that I thought I was going to get married to. I'm impressed with the 77 women over the course of a year... shit I haven't had more than 10 dates with online girls. I recently asked about being clingy and was advised to use abundance mentality. One thing that RP doesn't really do (from what I have read or seen) is transition to an LTR or even a single 'plate,' because that's not its goal. You can't control your emotions, but you can control who you are talki…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:48 PM
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No, you're an alpha dude, and that's what she naturally wants. Of course she's going to try to lock you down because no one ever wants to share their toys. Doubt she's trying to make you a BB. Also depends on the culture. In the South US, girls are normally married by 22.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:54 AM
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My point was getting her to come willingly, or at least have her play fighting that she didn't want to go. It's all manipulation
/r/askTRP15/11/15 04:12 AM
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Ok... let's be honest, everything points to this: I got a little out of hand with the drinks. Dude... duuuuude! You can't do that. A man that doesn't know how to handle himself on alcohol is going to be an instant turn off for every girl. Basically says you're a BB that needs alcohol to even talk to these girls. AF know how to handle their alcohol, so if nothing else, figure that out. In my perspective I was able to get her to comply. Able to get her to comply=manipulated. I can get my dog to si…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:39 AM
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Dude... Wth are you reading that for? And what does it matter his sexual orientation? Getting a helluva lot more than you are right now.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:14 AM
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Don't go after them. Go after girls worth your time. But if one of them comes after you while you're doing your thing... "You sleep with my gf?" "No, she slept with me."
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:52 AM
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As interested as I am in this question, I'm not. Why? Because you're trying to make yourself feel better, excuse yourself for half assing this whole thing. Both men and women have SMVs but it's all about how we perceive it. If you think YOU have an SMV2, good luck even finding a plate, a friend, or even a waitress to talk to you. SMV for dudes is about the confidence. Because HB9 here and HB9 there have a preference doesn't make it any easier or harder because you're going to play them both the …
/r/askTRP14/11/15 05:50 AM
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Good on you for the sidebar. I've gotten through like 10% of it but relatively new and relatively busy. Good you're hitting the gym but honestly that's just your self building. You could be a fat ass, not working out, but if you were still self improving (reading, developing new ideas, etc), technically you're still RP. My point is that girls don't give two how you look unless you're a movie star. It's more about the confidence. And dude, I would love to meet some women from that part of the wor…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:37 AM
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Is your dad showing signs of a beta? Yes. Is he showing you how you should treat your mom? I hope so. Does he love your sister more than you? Sounds like it. The problem (and I have it) is that he was brought up in a culture that taught him to be a gentleman, respect women, etc. The problem now is that if he were single, he wouldn't be able to get a girl to save his life. So take it like this: what you're experiencing is real life. Women are going to get exactly what they want from men like your…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:04 AM
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Honestly, women at work is walking on thin ice, especially if you are required to talk with them on a regular basis. There are just so many ways that this can go wrong for you from that perspective alone. Concerning this other dude, it's what you want. Sounds like you want her to be LTR worthy when she's showing signs of being a plate.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 03:30 AM
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I definitely would. I wouldn't tell her or even suggest what I wanted though. If she wants to put her money on the table for you, it's of her own free will. You already said you weren't going to do anything special for her, just hold frame. Bonus- Situational. If you definitely are going to get some from #1, then ignore, otherwise escalate.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 11:01 PM
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If she wants to buy you a gift, let her. You already stated you weren't going to do anything for her. The only thing I would say is don't pick the gift. Tell her to surprise you. If you feel she's that clingy, then next. Bonus question- situational. Is plate #1 going to bang you tonight? If so, then respond with "Cool, I'll let you know when I'm ready." If #1 and you are about to depart, then I would escalate with #3 "You don't say? What are you wearing?"
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:55 PM
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I'm personally glad that you are doing better, but I honestly think that RP may not be the best for this. By RPT, you should have let your wife go a long time ago, but that's not what you want, and your circumstances have definitely changed. I'm new to this as well, but what you want is some validation. You're not going to get it here. Your beta tendencies have made you fall for this woman, and now you feel obligated to stay with her. By RPT, you'd be better off divorcing her. Everything from th…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:50 PM
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Was trying to find an article I saw on /r/TheRedPill about this exact thing. Basically it said never to go after girls at your workplace. Sounds like you may need a lawyer, and honestly he/she could probably give you the best advice. As for continuing to work with this person, only talk to them when you need them. If you need something from them, just ask them for whatever. This girl obviously doesn't want you touching her, so as long as you don't do that or bring up sexual stuff you should be f…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:40 PM
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Why can't we both get what we want on some level? For me personally, I would get emotionally attached to someone like this (and by would I mean I did). But again, you're still going to be the one she whines to unless you shut her up by hanging up or putting something in her mouth. She does want attention, but you're almost validating everything she's done. If you can be the more Alpha, then sure, have your fun. But if this were me giving me advice, I'd say you wanted an LTR, you wrote her off fo…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:39 AM
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Yes! I've done this to girls both in and out of relationships. Why? 1. Social proofing: You're the fucking man, and everyone recognizes you when you step into the room. 2. Shows that she doesn't complete you: The fact that she has the honor to bring you should make her wet because she knows you could literally be having a 3 some right now.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:26 AM
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I find it more interesting that you're tag is a gay guy and you're upset that girls won't message you back. But yeah dude, girls do this to me all the time. So much so, if I get a girl's number, I usually wait 3-5 days before trying to text them (and patience is a bitch). The only girls that consistently get back at me are the ones with low SMV. The only reason I talk to them is to keep game up... and it gives a confidence boost that you're doing something right with the HB7-9.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:17 AM
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I tried twice to make a move to her pants and she pushed my hand away... ignores the shit out of me while going on a slut rampage... The girl you wanted to bang hooked up with other dudes, and now that she's single, she wants another BB in her life. There's no time context in your response, but it sounds like she was fucking around while dating. You really want that shit?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:12 AM
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Dude, I understand the need to get off, but at what costs? She's going to make you pay in terms of being an emotional tampon. Unless she is willing to be submissive again, hard next. But honestly if this is true: I really don't want her back (no longer LTR material) Then why screw with it at all? At best you get a fuck buddy that gets attached to another guy because at best you're a beta to her. At worst, you fall for her again and she pulls the exact same shit.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:07 AM
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Unicorns don't exist, that's why they're called unicorns. Don't try building one. Next, if I were you and this girl and I got along, LTR material, I would definitely be selfish and wouldn't do at least a few of the things you're doing. If you see the potential for a HB8, then you should lock her down now.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:42 AM
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Also, she always says that she have a crush. Specially in front of me. She always says how everything is going really fast with her crush, and that he drives her home. What more can be said than what you have admitted? Right now, it sounds like you're her side thing. You are reading into something that may not exist. My friend insists that nothing happened between her and her "crush". And what is everything else saying? And how is everything between her and the crush going fast if nothing has ha…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:37 PM
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Here's the thing: they will throw it in your face, but they still do it. All these people in the south get married only to get divorced a few years later. They may truly want to be religious, but they should be called out for their other hypocritical actions/ways. I would say if you are not near a big city, a college, or a bar scene, you're definitely in the wrong area. Obviously ymmv, but the opportunity lies greater in these places.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:32 PM
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That much BP huh? Trying to balance RP with me being a gentleman, but I'm finding that hard to do without coming off BP. But the orbiter is true. Trying to learn how to let girls go and not go back after them. What is the "read sidebar"? Assuming "lift, get frame" will make more sense after doing that.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:02 PM
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Plate - Woman with whom you are in a non-exclusive sexual relationship with. Spinning plates is the act of having multiple plates simultaneously. Again, Rollo has a great article found here. TRP Reference
/r/askTRP01/11/15 08:29 PM
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"I'm a xyz and you're just going to have to deal with it." Human, yes. The difference between men and women is that men acknowledge and carry on. It might come up, but it's not necessary. Women use it much more often as a crutch. "I'm coon-ass American and you're just going to have to learn to deal with it." "I'm from New York and I know how to deal with people." "I'm a strong woman and some men can't deal with it" Straight shit test. You are either going to accept, change or leave it. You and I…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 08:22 PM
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25 year old, make seven figures, a decent level of fame Where the hell do I sign up? Not to say these things make you a man, but a young rich guy with power is almost the definition of an Alpha. I can't seem to escape women seeing me as someone who needs help Not trying to be a dick, but you're having Napoleon syndrome. Women (especially the ones serving you) are going to say that. That is what they were trained to do. It keeps customer satisfaction high and makes dudes (generally) feel good. Yo…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 08:16 PM
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I would say don't instigate any interactions, let her come to you. Patience is a bitch, but man can she come through. Give it time bro and definitely keep your eyes open. I went two weeks without texting a girl to show I didn't need her. A few days here and there is nothing to sweat.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:54 PM
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I'm a young buck so I haven't dealt much with this but I'll call it how I see it: how is the hinting about men losing interest in her a shit test? For the exact reason you just stated: validation and attention. It's preemptive. If I told you the stove is hot and then you proceeded to burn yourself on the stove, I would say "I told you!" Now if the stove is her brokenness, every time she has a 'problem' or isn't getting the love she wants out of you, she can go back to that and say you're like ev…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:57 PM
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Your buddy is right. You dove in too quickly. The way I have been taught is that if you find someone (club, party, somewhere where people are going to stay awhile), show interest, but walk away if it's too early to take her home or purse a number (she's not leaving). First, this shows that yeah, you're cool but I don't need you. There could have been four or five just as attractive women that wanted you. You were obviously the Alpha in the social circle, go find another. This allows you to sprea…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:41 PM
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To piggy back, a book I loved about the social differences between men and women are "Men are From Mars". Talks about the difference between how men and women social interactions and the way they deal with problems. I recommend it for everyone and is pre-requisite for the girl I marry.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:17 PM
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Out of the replies so far I agree with this one. Wait three days, then text You closed on her because she has interest in you. You didn't do anything to get her attention so don't go blowing it by becoming a needy SOB. text that you're gonna be downtown doing some cool shit. She should come down and hang. It's casual and you were doing it anyway. You don't need her there to do it but it'd be cool if she did. Have a backup plan. The backup plan (to me) is treating the situation like a plate until…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 05:58 PM
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I'm going to assume you're in at least you're 40's if she has the peter belly and three grown kids. If you're in you're early 30's you can stop reading after this next word... run. If I still have you or you want to reason through it a little more here is what I see. You're already putting her on a pedestal. If you think she's in shape, then body stress (especially after kids) should be a one side of the fence or other conversation. For drinking, don't we all talk about weird stuff? Unless she's…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 05:40 PM
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I don't think you know what you want. Here she is running around with other dudes while you're in the friendzone even though you want her. The moment she shows some interest in you (drunk or not), you should have treated her like a plate. ...it's annoying when she crosses the boundaries No, you put up those boundaries. If you really wanted her, you'd either treat her like a plate or tell her to screw off while making out with another chick. My recommendation: you define what you two are. I'm new…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 05:24 PM
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