Disclaimer: Discovered TRP like a month ago, so excuse any stupid or redundant questions. I'm still learning and de-Beta-ing myself.

Anyway...

My LTR and I are moving house soon. She decides to start packing some small stuff away in boxea right after we get home from work. Now I did not agree to or want to start doing this yet or at this time of the evening.

She just kind of started doing her own thing.

Thing is, she starts getting pissy that I don't offer to help. Again, I did not at any poiny intend on doing this yet. I have all day tomorrow (Saturday) booked for packing.

Was I being weak and Beta for not offering to help pack a few small things?

I feel like I was, but I also feel like bending to her will would have been Beta as well.

Also, if it matters, she usually yells and gets upset when I help with things because I'm 'not doing it right' or I 'get in her way'. So I've begun defaulting to just not helping when she begins to get busy because I don't need that kind of treatment in my life.

All in all, I kinda feel like I'm being very Beta.

Tear me apart boys...