She texted me: You should join me in buying my party decorations Insert heart emoji I suspected that what she was really saying was: I need someone with a car to take me shopping. I did exactly that. The weak side of me agreed, but rationalized by putting my terms. I said to her I was busy until 16:00, but I could help her after that. She sent me a heart emoji (what I believe was a manipulative thank you). Contextual information: I’m new in game. I’m 30 years old, lost a ton of weight. Been fat and shy on my teen years, now I lift and never looked better. I also been reading the RP sidebar, Rollo Tommasi and the Art of seduction. I currently have another plate and just broke another one a few weeks ago. This girl is the HOTTEST girl I’ve dated. I’ve made a lot of mistakes. Never did escalation on the 5 dates we had, sometimes lost frame, and been overall complacent. She is 22 and on her party years. At first she was very attracted to me, but mistakes made her lose interest. I always wait for her to contact me, while dating other girls.

Continuing the story:

Next day we met at the store. We got the things she needed and talked about how everything was going on. She asked me how my gym was going. Whenever I start talking about fitness I can go on a little bit too much, but I contained myself. She told me about her work friends and stuff. How she generally isn’t liked by girls and have more male friends and how she is very sincere in her communication.

We drove towards her home and there is when the downfall started. She lives with a big family. Dad, mom, sisters, nephews, the whole package. She started making arrangements for the party and barely acknowledge my presence there. At that moment I started thinking how it was a bad idea being so available to her. The beta part took the best of me. I thought, well, if I’m here I better be social. Her mom approached me and started having a conversation. She was really nice and chatty, actually also her father and siblings. I was helping around moving stuff and they were asking all sort of questions of me. According to The rational male: preventive medicine this might be related about mothers in their 50s trying to get the best hypergamic deal for their daughters. In a way, I think she was trying to sell me the idea her daughter was a great catch for me. After seeing her son in laws going around the house I believe she thought I was the best one to come in. I am not bad looking, have a degree, starting my masters soon, good united family, mannered and confident. Her mother was offering me food, beverages and whatnot. The girl I was “dating” (Lets call her Lucia) was just going around the house doing her own stuff while I made friends with the family.

About an hour passed. Her siblings invited me to play videogames with them. I sat on the couch and played. Lucia sat on the other couch texting and laughing. After a while, I went outside for a smoke. Lucia went outside too, but not to give me company. There was a car outside. Yes, my redpill friends. A weird guy was waiting there. She told me she will back on a sec. Just going on an errand. “Better not lose to my sister!”. I went back inside and continue to play a little bit more. My inner self started reflecting on how of a beta moron I was being. I decided I should do something more fun with my time and decided to go. I explained I was meeting with a friend and returning latter when the party started. Her mom was kind of concerned and told me Lucia just went for a birthday cake, I told her it was fine. I would return later.

I went for dinner, coincidently met a friend there. Had a nice conversation. Then I went to get a beer to some bar nearby. I had other cool interaction with strangers and overall having a chill time. My phone started ringing. It was Lucia. She told me everyone was already at the party and asking for me. I told her I was with a friend and later would stop by. After an hour or so I went back to her home. There were some mutual friends and the weird car guy (lets call him… Buttercup) from before. We talk about political and academic topics. As I watched Buttercup he came across as loud, extroverted and kind of annoying. Actually at first, I thought he was his gay friend, but later confirmed He wasn’t. Buttercup praised my knowledge on those different topics, my friends didn’t seem to like him that much. More people started arriving. One of them is relevant for the story. We are gonna call him, Sasquatch. He was a big guy, Kind of fat and built, I guessed he was bulking. He was serene and friendlier than Buttercup.

As the night went along, we started playing some challenge drinking game. As Buttercup was getting drunker he was being more aggressive in the shit test department. He started making snarky comments towards a guy friend and me. We didn’t really acknowledge them. He was making fun of how well-spoken I am and how much I love academics.

Lucia was drunk and started being flirty with Sasquatch and Buttercup. One of the challenges was: “Give a drink to the person who you believe has the best body” She gave it to Sascuatch and told him “As I told you today!”. I must admit it made me feel bummed, of course I didn’t manifested it any way. At that moment, Buttercup was trying to hog attention. Lucia started being more “touchy”, occasionally putting her hand on Sasquatch’s shoulder, sometimes over Buttercup’s and sometimes over mine.

Only a few of us remained later at the party. Since I didn’t get any of Lucia’s attention I flirted a little bit with the only other girl there. I’m really new at game, and probably could have done it much better, but whatever. Suddenly, another guy shows up! This dude stayed at the entrance of Lucia’s house. Lucia let a little scream as he saw Mystery man at the door. She went running and hug him. I didn’t took a good look but instead watch at Buttercup’s and Sasquatch’s faces. They were so jelous, it was funny. I realized Mystery man was the real alpha of all of us beta orbiters! (Yeah, I now know this was my role in this relationship).

Mystery man went as he arrived, like the wind. He didn’t get in the party. At that moment, drunk Lucia was passing by. Sasquatch put his hand over her lower back (just over her ass). She sat between Buttercup and Sasquatch. Buttercup decided to suddenly kiss her on the cheek, I swear Lucia was so happy about all the orbiter validation she almost exploded.

I decided I had enough. Why should I stay? I didn’t want to witness whatever happened on the rest of the night I was going home. At first I was thinking in staying, since she was really drunk and these guys were ready for anything, but I remember to avoid being “captain save a hoe”. It was her responsibility and I was tired of being her attention provider number #3. I told her I was leaving.

Next day she texted:

Lucia: How are you? Me: Thumb up emoji. Lucia: Do you have a hung over? Me: I’m fresh. You? Lucia: I feel terrible! I’m Dying : ( Me: Oh, but you thought you were drinking milk, huh? Lucia: haha, noooo! I didn’t respond. Now, a day later she just texted me: Lucia: Are you mad at me?

That’s it folks. As the moment I’m writing this it’s her birthday. I wish for an advice. I kind of now I should next her. I was thinking on replying: “No problem, everything is fine. Happy birth day” or "We're cool, see ya later"

I don’t want to look butthurt, but also I don’t want to give her the impression she can continue her behavior plating me as she did. Any advice?