So I recently dumped my LTR which was a perfect decision. Have been out of the game for about two years, but looks like old dogs can learn new tricks as I shortly after hooked up with an old plate and also took a random chick home from a night out, and pulled another one's phone number the same night.

My question relates to those two last girls. I think I played the first one flawlessly. She's writing me constantly and I'm ignoring most of it as I don't really think she's useful to me at all. She's really young and impossible to talk to, but it was good to have sex with someone who wasn't my LTR, so that was fine for the night.

Anyway, the second is more difficult, as I have chatted her up on Facebook for a while and met her twice in the city, where we've kissed both times, but also both times I've left the club early without any indication from either me or her that there was some bigger interest going on.

When I first got her number, I wrote to her telling her I was going to take her out, and she accepted but later cancelled. I said "ok" and didn't contact her for a month. Then she wrote me and was like "sorry I've been busy, lets do that date" and again I'm just "ok" and we meet up at a club in the city.

Here I completely fail. Being too drunk I break frame completely and bitch to her about how I think she's flaky. She's laughing it off and to my surprise even says the words "don't worry, you have me!" - but obviously that's bullshit.

So anyway I leave early and tell her that we should do the date next week, I tell her a date and a place, and during the day she fucking cancels again. In my mind I think it makes sense, since I was a little bitch and whined to her in the club. So I again just say "okay :)" and have ignored her since then (yesterday).

My question is then, how do I balance it? She seems to be one of those chicks who are just not that interested, and I'm OK with just going on ignoring her for a month until she writes me back again, I hope, but it could easily fail. Even if I hadn't broken frame yesterday I sincerely doubt I would have gotten her home, because she basically acts the same way I do. Flaking.

Do I just keep on ignoring her? At one point its going to end up failing since she probably will have some other douchebag showing her interest. So could I approach her again if I keep it very direct? I.e. write her to meet me some place at some time again, without really seeing the option in my voice that she would cancel? Or something. Please advice.

Regards