So I've been on Match since around March. I've had minimal success.

It's been tough . I'm 32, 6-4, 12% bf, and have only plated one girl for a month. (She was insecure, and I think I hit her with a little too much dread, she ended it last week over her "personal issues."

Another, hotter girl and I have been out twice. She works overnight in an ER. She was feeling it big time our first time out, and she would have gone home with me that night if she didn't have to work. I fucked up the following date. (She texted me the "I had a great time tonight" at 11PM.) I had her coming into town where I live and an hour before she texted me asking if we could go to the same place downtown. Knowing her seven nights on, seven off schedule, I reluctantly agreed. Our second time out was good, but she brought her friends (for the first hour or so.) We touched, kissed etc but now she seems wishy-washy about meeting a third time.

I will message anyone, but response rates are low and phone numbers are lower. Even with the number, the chances are 50-50 you'll get them out.

I don't want anyone with kids, and of course I want a woman that's in shape. This eliminates a large percentage on Match. Sometimes a cutie will like my profile, I'll message, and get left on read.

I've had Tinder on and off and have had ZERO success there. I intimidate women around my age and the younger ones are looking for young Chad and Tyrone.

Is online dating a waste of time? Those who have had success, how?