Firstly I just want to thank everyone who contributes to the TRP as it helps me live a better life. I also watch Corey Wayne videos, listen to the Tom Leykis show and “read” many suggested books through Audible. The only thing I’m missing is a muscular body which I’m working on.

The reason I am writing today is for two reasons: 1) to get your take on my current situation and 2) if you could explain “frame” a little better for me.

Situation: have been seeing a hot babe for about a year now and we had the relationship talk (I was BP then). I immediately saw red flags and basically this has led me to check out of the relationship because I don’t believe in its longevity anymore, basically not investing much and giving her the gift of me. I’m wondering if there is anything wrong with continuing to fill her holes (someone’s gonna do it, may as well be me), see her as usual (we pay our own bills) and not take this commitment any further (don’t move in, don’t introduce to family, have an exit plan of engagement talks start happening) while seeing other girls on the low? I have kept my investment relatively low by not paying for her portion of the dates, seeing her 1-2x/week, doing what I think is fun, focusing on improving daily and still have an exciting sex life with her.

Frame: if you could give me examples or additional readings on it? I have read the sidebar.

Thank you.