Alright guys. I finally lost my virginity to my fwb. I’m an 18 yo college freshman. We’ve had sex 3 or 4 times now, and for whatever reason I’m running into all kinds of problems.

First off, I typically last no more than a minute or two, then I have to stop for a few seconds before I can continue.

Next, when I start putting on the condom, i have trouble maintaining my erection.

I think these things are due to nerves/anxiety, but knowing that doesn’t help. I can’t exactly make myself not worried about lasting long enough or going soft.

Do y’all have any suggestions? Thanks.