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"I got attached really bad".. There is your problem. Also as a rule keep texting to logistics only. Girl could be 13 but can still smell neediness from a mile away. For now stop and just wait for the date day. Then call her once and i mean once to confirm. No second calls. If she doesn't pick or doesn't call you back the date is over. If she does pick just say you are pushing the time by 15-30 mins etc. Thats all. Make up some reason. On the date just treat her as a human not as a princess. . . …
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:46 AM
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Tell her you are not my type while pulling her close
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:39 AM
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It means you developed too much comfort and not enough tingles. The desire is dying down. Completely ghost until she texts to reach out.
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:44 PM
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Maybe ita me but "I am after something more" seems like a guy who is not even willing to state outright what he wants Should be more like That's alright i respect it. But I got way too many friends already. Anyways it was nice knowing you. Bye
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:58 AM
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If all that ugly has ammased are 9 rated betas then you being a 8 is of no use right. I had one chick that came to the date with zero effort. I called her out on that. Bascially she just wanted to get fucked and in her mind i simply wanted the same thing and not any charades. So you might be good enough for a quick fuck but not enough that she has to win you over.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:59 AM
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Understand the subcommunication ... they didnt care if you like them or not because you werent good enough for them.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:00 AM
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Say 'Bitches be crazy' and next
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:28 PM
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Hi
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:58 AM
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Maybe i wasn't clear ... Not in city... Not in my country... Scattered over Europe
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:06 AM
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Yeah as i said... Covid times... Cant travel ... And most girls are not in my city.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:02 AM
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Imagine her having a very good relationship with you and then when you are planning to buy her a dream house she goea and sucks a coworkers dick at a party. Now are waiting for that message. Go fucking work on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:12 PM
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Sure... Search sugar mommy. It will however depend on how much humiliation can you take :/
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:56 PM
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Hmm. Interesting. For some reason i always thought it would be difficult with Indian chicks for cultural reasons. Good to know they are as slutty if not more. Which city are we talking about here Btw?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:51 PM
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Any same day lays in India? I feel like Indian women like a little to Bollywood style and need a few days to warm up. I might be hitting Goa after the pandemic so any tips are welcome
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:43 PM
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Finally an Indian dude... Just a quick question... Have you noticed if game is any different in India as compared to say European/US countries? I have success with Europeans a lot... Very little with Indian chicks
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:32 PM
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Tell her this week is busy and text you next week. If she does try again else let go
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:24 AM
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Just give them space... Most of them will come back
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:20 AM
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Aren't plates meant for breaking. Don't think too much about it. Or was she the only plate you had
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:19 AM
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You can... Just don't do it in front of a lady.... She might know which subs your visit :/
/r/seduction05/05/21 11:14 AM
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Try malefashionadvice reddit
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:18 AM
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Sarcasm doesn't come naturally to people
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:18 AM
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Scar could be used as a childhood fight story. Chicks dig that
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 05:58 AM
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Don't show off... Its unbecoming
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:22 AM
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Generally No You are catching feelings. It will come off in your words and behaviour. Work on yourself and distance from her. And as a man you decide not let her decide. Break contact and work in yourself.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:49 AM
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People are gonna say weird things trying to rationalize. I don't think there is anything wrong with "good foe your age". Sometimes its just not your time.
/r/seduction30/04/21 01:01 AM
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Someone's butthurt
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:11 PM
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Because If you are not doing it... She will As soon as a women knows you are just for her... You are done
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:40 AM
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Soft next
/r/askTRP25/04/21 12:56 AM
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Bad idea
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:48 PM
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Don't know about the rest but the /10 after every HB score did bother me.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/21 04:25 PM
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Maybe the new guy would have left her if she got married first and have more resources than the current dude. There is no such thing as heart of gold. Its pure calculations.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:06 AM
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She is not really feeling your vibe.... Next her... Until she calls again.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:05 AM
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Break up and stay friends and be supportive if she needs it
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:01 AM
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That is just for you to save them. Just in case. If anyone comes to you regarding this. Just show them her texts
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:34 PM
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Do you have all her messages?
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:24 PM
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We need to see what you wrote
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:09 PM
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How much were your levels if I may ask?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:27 PM
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Dont try to deal with all things at the same time. Focus on just one thing that you can maybe improve in your day to day life. Maybe a little better at work, maybe a little better at classes and soon things will get sorted out. I would recommend if possible to leave your job and find a less stressful one. Try other things that could help with stress as well. You can talk to a doctor if needed. And also find some support system. Friends or therapist if you get too stressed regularly. Even though …
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:55 AM
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Stopping porn and excessive mastrubation should be on a top priority. I don't give a fuck about about physical effects and anything else but it will definitely help straighten your mind.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:34 PM
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Or to go down on her ...
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:50 PM
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Emotional investment increases over time, of course you get somewhat attached but pedestalizing is another issue. You clearly are new to this ... the more women you go through ... the more you realize they are all more or less the same and hence don't deserve a pedestal.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:37 PM
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one less size tshirt ... :/ But also ... maybe do a proper arm workout and give a day rest in between.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:32 PM
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Did you even read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:28 PM
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Sometimes people don't watch watch your stories. They start with the first and then circle quickly through all to see if there is anything interesting. Kinda like videos but in the horizontal direction. I often see stories of NatGeo or some fat lady I met once that is working to save a forest when I am doing it that, doesn't mean I want to fuck the zebra or the whale.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:25 PM
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Dont get hung up on the books. Its another of the technique mind uses to delay doing the actual work. Oh i am going to reas this this etc etc and become super knowledge and then kill it.... Nope. Eh eh. Wrong path.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 04:58 AM
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Depends your place or her place? If hers... You pack and leave no words required. If yours pack her things. And tell her straightforward you want her out. Your balls have starting to descend .... Now push them a little more and get it over with like a man. Pro tip : keep this on recording. Just in case.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:59 PM
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Why not work on yourself more during lockdown and pick it up when it ends for face to face game. Texting/dating is a numbers game if you are upto an 8. If 9-10 you don't even require text game but since you are asking I assume you are not. Its a waste of time. You are competing against tons of low value males who give girls attention for free. And the fact that you are doing that automatically makes you low value.
/r/seduction21/03/21 11:37 AM
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Few years ago i took out my pea balls and put some steel in it. Worked like a charm.
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:14 AM
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Bring her home, escalate. If she is still doing this weird shit kick her out.. Not kidding
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:09 AM
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You can do it as a gesture it it doesn't affect you financially. But don't you fucking expect anything in return.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:06 AM
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Use text only to setup meets.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:04 AM
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Everyone gets lonely sometimes. If it's recurrent, bothering you and not going away with the presence of some close friends. Try therapy.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:00 AM
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11 - (your rating on the smv scale)
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:57 AM
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Kino
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:55 AM
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Don't try to make sense of it. And join the rest of us in a moment of silence for the 6 2 jacked brother.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:51 AM
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Time to part ways
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:46 AM
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All three
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:34 AM
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You stop resenting when you see that weakness and get it out of you system. Plus go easy on the guy. He might be beta but that means he atleast provided for you. If you don't want that make sure your kids don't get that. Everyone has been dealt their own deck of cards. You make do with what has been offered and not bitch about it.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:29 AM
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Thats a fucked up thing to say to a kid if you are living life normally at your terms. On the other hand perfectly normal if you are doing some fucked up shit.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:25 AM
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You will have to find your own fragrance. I go for suavage and the one by dolce gabana
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:57 AM
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Seems like you have deeper issues. Try therapy for some time
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:50 AM
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Whenever in doubt Keno
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:12 PM
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Eh... You caught the feels. And i think you are getting pressure to get settled being Indian and all. So you are speeding up the process. Btw How many plates are you spinning right now? If the answer is only her... Then you are already in an ltr
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:04 PM
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Wait... Did you already know you wanted an ltr with her on the first date? You waited or she made you wait?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:00 PM
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Na i think he thought rich girls have more/easier access to dick. He forgot sex is a currency in itself. And morality has nothing to do with your household income
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:56 PM
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Let me guess... She made you wait for sex/makeout. And now you are insecure that she had hots for another guy and can jump on a similar opportunity in the future.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:53 PM
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Poorer in India doesn't mean decent... Where the hell did you get that
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:50 PM
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Jesus... Why the hell did you write a whole paragraph for a stupid makeout session then. The other fucking sessions takes precedence over this don't you think
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:48 PM
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She cheated on you once in 5 months. Ltr is long game and comfort is only gonna lower attraction towards you ... You do the math
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:44 PM
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Damn thats sad If you keep doing this soon you mind is gonna accept that thats all your are good for.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:42 AM
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You know the answer... Quit playing it on easy mode. Challenge yourself or you will always be slaying 6s
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:52 AM
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"One in the bank" All things enormous that are ever achieved are done by doing one step at a time. Have a goal of what you want to become and then move towards that one step at a time. I didn't beat off today. I will keep one in the bank for a better me. Think of it as an investment, a small saving. You keep doing that and in a few weeks or a month or two things are different. You imagine your perfect body. Store one in the bank, one day of a few set of push ups and squats. Thats a start, thats …
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:56 PM
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Just a simple message asking her out on Friday would be fine.. Dont overthink it
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:37 PM
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Do not reply to this and no contact.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:39 PM
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Its always lonely at the top Edit : that being said. Lonely can only be cured by having some meaningful relationships in your life. That you have to cultivate on your own and most probably they are not with women. They are mostly with men. Men who are following their path and don't hinder yours or are threatened by you. Try making a lot of new friends. Over time they gets filtered down to a select few. Cultivate those relationships
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:25 AM
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Tl dr. Chasing your purpose should be your no 1 purpose. Money should a result of that. Money is always good. You can go on that route and find purpose on the side. But in the end your optimal goal should be to have your purpose make you lot of money
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:01 AM
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Its a conscious choice. If you think of it as an option you will use it. If you don't, you won't
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:20 PM
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Just 60 .. Jeez... Ok what are you not telling me about yourself ?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:41 PM
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The only way ahead is to carry on your life as if she leaving didn't make any effect on your life whatsoever. Being friends with someone who broke up with you takes away the last smidgeon of self respect from the man. If you broke up with her, sure you can do it. But not when she did it. It is a very pathetic way of holding on to something. And it gives her closure, "oh i didn't do anything bad, we are still friends and then she does all her crazy adventures while you work your ass and then if y…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:35 PM
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Not sexually attracted to a plate? Whats the plate for then?
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:34 AM
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Start slow, with hair pulling and biting for eg. And dont ask her to change positions. Lift her and do it in the act. Filming will come later. Once she is comfortable with everything else.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:50 PM
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A few months on loneliness to achieve something great is a small price to pay
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:27 AM
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If insults happens often, is not distributed equally among everyone , and everyone participates on your turn, You are wasting time with that group. They don't respect you. Probably because you didn't have the balls to stand up for yourself, be unaffected or leave. Distant yourself, visit and form some new circles and Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:12 AM
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Mannerism
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:27 AM
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The boundary is you stop driving her places. And tell her to get a taxi
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:25 AM
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Good stuff. Also Any book that doesn't rely too much on illustrations should also be convert into audio
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 02:23 AM
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Get gold
/r/seduction05/01/21 12:42 PM
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Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:42 PM
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It happened at 25. Call it a blessing. Always remember its a blessing. One rule stick by - Dont ever call her again. Delete number, unfollow instagram, Facebook. Believe me its worth it. Talking from personal experience. It was a chapter and its over. You learned your lessons, try to remember them. Also you miss the moment and your perception of a person. She is not that person anymore. If i were given the same chance at 25 here is what i would do. 1) travel more - they are way too many experien…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 07:34 AM
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It's not a big deal. On the path of betterment trivial issues like this would be resolved on its own. Try not to dwell on it
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:39 PM
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I can see how it might affect you but it seems like his problem. What i mean to say is he will have to man up and face it and you should try to stay aloof as much as you can. If he can't even see that its a problem for him then you should not point out. If he brings it up you guys can discuss, possibly consult a lawyer.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:35 PM
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I think a person who is truly supreme/alpha or whatever you call it, would not have time or energy to spare on planning a revenge on a woman. Have the image of that person in your mind and emulate that. And also not doing anything and leaving cold turkey i have seen is the best response in these conditions.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:55 PM
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Audiobooks, meditation or learn something technical
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:52 PM
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You already know the answer to that
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:48 PM
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The change if it comes whenever it comes will have to come from within.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:46 PM
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You should be with a person only if you want to, not if you have to. Pity should not be a reason. Its will hurt both of you in the long run
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:16 AM
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I am like this but when 1 on 1 with a guy. If there is anyone else i feel alright. I think i have trouble initiating conversations with guys. Like nonsense topics. And i rarely gossip with anyone. Anyone else get this way?
/r/askTRP12/06/20 12:26 PM
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You are not attached to her. Just to the trauma of the experience. Brain tends to store extreme emotional highs and lows very carefully. You will have to forgive and forget. Basically stop giving it too much importance in order for brain to recognise that memory is to be faded away.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:18 PM
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You are fuckin her just for sex. She is also clearly fucking for just for sex. What seems to be the issue? Pull aways all the non sexual attention and keep fucking.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:33 AM
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Rule 3 : conceal your intentions, and confuse your enemies.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:20 AM
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I do have a question on this Do you tell other people that you broke up because she fucked another person for 8 months? On one hand you spoil her reputation. On other you do yours. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:40 PM
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Damn you JP. Why am i thinking of the lobsters here. Your brain needs to dissolve now :/
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:20 PM
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That's a good list. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:00 PM
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I understand what you mean and i agree mostly to what you are saying but i am not looking for a Master tome (it will be good to find someone like the rational male but very few such revolutionary books exist that gives a whole new level of information). What i was asking for is a couple of good bricks that can help broaden the base and a few lessons from other peoples journey.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:23 PM
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I Do it everyday. Works well for audiobooks as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 08:13 AM
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Try looking at porn (not fapping) , if that gets you hard then you might have an issue. Although on 100th day of no fap you should be hard even by scent of a woman. . It happens not a big deal. But you will get better as you be with more women. Its mostly psychological.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:56 AM
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Would love to hear the comments on this from seniors
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 02:13 PM
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I mean i was aware of that generic type. Was almost trapped by it once in Budapest. So i am always careful not to go any place a person who approached me suggests. I was wondering if it something other than that.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:00 PM
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Can you elaborate what is the scam. So that i be careful in the future?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:04 PM
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Thanks for the detailed reply. Never knew about this dynamic. This could definitely be used in the future. The thing is she said this guy is appearing to be their friend. But they just met him. And i saw him approach them at the red light (i remember thinking someone is taking action). So I don't know if he would be so helpful in this situation (maybe he could be, he and her friend was walking like 20 steps behind us and they seemed to be having good time) Also, Regarding the old man issue. Shou…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:27 AM
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That it happens or that it's a pretty common scam?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 05:53 AM
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Thanks. I never adjust my approach according to the prospect. Maybe I should work on that
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:35 AM
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Text ok. And find other prospects She will get back to you if she is interested
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:32 AM
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Depends on what you mean by gaming on insta. If you got a killer insta and chicks (within short distance of you) are hitting you up go for it. If you are noob on insta and hitting chicks up. Stop wasting time.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:31 AM
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Just stating my opinion here. If she is just asking for space it's normal. But if with space she is starting to interact with other males seeking other forms of comfort. That's your cue that this is over. Also not sure if others will agree : But if she is the one suggested this, don't contact her first. It flips the dynamic Edit : also keep working on yourself and don't offer unnecessary advice if you get to talking, unless she asks for it. People mostly know what to do to make themselves okay a…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:18 PM
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Rule : The girl that wants to fuck you will not make it harder for you
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:13 PM
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er than dorm rooms but should give you the b Yeah, that's a good idea actually. Gives me the best of both worlds. Strange I never look for private rooms on Hostelsworld.com
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:16 AM
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I noticed the same thing as well a lot recently. If you don't do light kino to create a little bit of tension, pulling her and going for the kiss can feel very odd. I assume idgaf attitude should be used while teasing her and using kino. And frame for any shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 10:48 AM
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Don't have much to add to this. Thank you for this enlightening article!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 07:48 AM
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Thank you, everyone, for the replies, your opinions help provide guidance. ​ I think the best course of action would be to not focus on it much, and lower the importance scale of people who does this consistently, and not even let these things register on my mind. Simultaneously I am getting highly pro to the idea of earning your keep. Not in a group, not for a person, not for someone amusement, but for yourself as a man on this earth. ​ All the comforts around have made me soft that even the id…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 09:20 AM
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So far they are not adding any value so its a timepass (read time killer). I used to say i want to make them my business but got nothing. Unless you are actively setting up business right now, its just something you are telling yourself to use as an excuse. First remove the myth single player cant be addictive. They absolutely can. Secondly if you want to check that try giving them up for 3 weeks. You will get an idea. Plus you might find other more productive hobbies.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:10 PM
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What you did was fine. If the jealousy factor comes up just tell her, she can sleep with whoever and as many as people as she wants but just goto their place, no other person boy or girl is allowed at your place without permission.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:09 PM
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I recently started smoking weed. I use very little and only after gym, like an hour before bedtime. So far I haven't found it interfering with anything. But I am new to this. Just to get perspective Am I standing at the entry of a rabbit hole?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 10:33 AM
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This too shall pass. If only I had a nickel for all the times I faced a situation where I could have given up. You have a community to help you and 3 billion potential women to have shivering orgasms while you pound them. You are giving her too much credit and a little too blame for yourself. Give it time. Believe me. Have a little faith. And find some extra activities to keep your mind occupied. And you will emerge stronger better and with much more pussy at your feet. These moments are a test …
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:59 PM
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Sure! But don't be the guy who will hang around just for makeouts. It comes off as if you get happy just with them and you loose value. Also on similae lines if you get to finger the girl make sure you have sex the same night. If you postpone hamster goes into overdrive and you may never see her again.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:37 AM
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For future reference don't keep making out for hours. Either escalate or end the date.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:53 PM
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The question is.... Can you be more of a man than her first love?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:29 PM
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It just means(confirms) that women use sex as a leverage/currency to fulfill their other needs/agendas. Its only guys who put sex on a pedestal because of scarcity.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:27 PM
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How do you go about texting 2 days later? Wouldn't she had cooled down of the impact you left or even forgotten about you ?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:31 AM
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I think we should have a pinned post for commenting on all the fun stuff (crazy ideas) people do on dates and with friends . It could be a list to refer for next time you want to plan a dats or a list of adventures to do in life to make life more memorable. Since not everyone is creative in coming up with plans it might be a good starting point. What do you guys think?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 11:55 AM
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Surprisingly never thought of that. That's a great point. And I agree with my mental masturbation on reading more stuff. Will try to fix that. Thank you for this imp reminder. But the question if i try to rephrase is, " How much laws of power or seduction techniques do you use in your interaction with women and daily life ?" Or is the idea to be high status and attractive and just leave it at that .
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:04 AM
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If you are done with theory you can pick up the field again for practice even after you fail trying something different. If you follow something you are passionate about its difficult in the start but gets increasingly good. Follow your passion and money follows
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:35 PM
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Too long didn't read. Step 1 : Getting over breakup : imagine her fucking a different chad everyday. Believe me that will help. Step 2 : become that chad that others girlfriends wanna fuck. Come back and thank the community. Plus Rollo rule : never try to fix a broken relationship.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:50 PM
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There is your answer
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:46 PM
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The only question you need to ask yourself is are you passionate about this field?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:45 PM
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Why are you gaming strippers after paying them btw ... And more imp why are you going down on them?? I don't think its a win for you in any situation
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 02:30 PM
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I doubt about the last one. She is a sales woman and she knows what she is doing, probably has a separate phone number for these situations. She was leading all the conversation, and you did nothing well manly. So i doubt there will be any attraction unless there is huge difference in SMV's. But whenever you feel that girl is leading the conversation take charge. Its a hidden 'now you get wet' button. Good luck
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:32 AM
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I dont think so. That isn't the case here. The fingering was around the end of the date ( like 1:30 pm ) that's after 7 hrs of rapport building. And she started kissing my neck and turning around to rub against by dick. I touched her outside her pants to rub the clit, she got turned on and let me put the hand inside her pants. Actually now that i think about it, i didnt seize the moment ( was not sure because it was the balcony ) and my hand started getting tired because the pants were closed an…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:39 AM
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Thanks for the info !! Yeah i think i tried at least 4-5 times . May have seemed i am so desperate for sex, and i kept kissing her passionately throughout the date ( This is beta/needy too i guess ? ) , plus touching and caressing her ( oh god now i see ).
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:44 PM
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Thanks man ! Makes perfect sense. I did shower her with attention while she was withholding sex, and i did get a little needy with texting and calling ( this i should definitely keep in mind ). I have faced this before so i am not clear on this : How do you normally approach if she is withholding sex ? Stop kino? do something else ?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:23 PM
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Well she had issues that i can see, i didnt drop the dominance because according to my understanding that is the only move that should be there, i mean we are not dating and its tinder so and she said she fucked around before as well. The issue with dad could be troubling to women and maybe it hinted she go issues. But shit testing aggression , i have never see that before. Is that a real thing ? And doesnt dropping the aggression means i am less assertive and know less of what i want.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:10 AM
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its a possibility i guess
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:03 AM
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Does that mean chicks around 32 dont fool around ?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:02 AM
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Yeah that was weird but ' she said she ran out of job (graphic design) and temporarily living with her father for about 3 months and moving to her apartment next month' so i guess he was calling to check in where she was, it was 2 in the morning. But yeah he called like 3 times so i guess there could be issues. But it was her father definitely, i dont know much swedish but 'snalla pappa, lungt' means 'please dad, relax'.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:38 AM
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Its not about benefit. That's the only group where we discuss if anyone needs any help (medicine, immigration, discount on food, who is going back home country in case anyone needs to send or bring something) and where we plan parties, get together, trips abroad. You get the idea. It's more like a necessity.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:50 PM
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Thank all för the advice. I will give try to give it a go (keep it) and see how the reactions are. Will let you guys know if results are positive or negative.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:58 AM
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The lessons are pretty straightforward and you could find them at most places . But if you want to go a little deep into why those lessons are there, then it's a good read. P.S. : If you don't like too much biblical examples you might have to skim over some parts
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:50 AM
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You can also try Memrise. It’s wonderful and offers multiple ways of learning a language. I use both Duolingo and Memrise daily for Swedish.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 02:08 PM
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Around 1 month
/r/seduction12/12/17 05:28 PM
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Just came from fucking a tinder date. Had the same issue. So listen carefully. I couldn't get hard and almost ruined the date, as I did once before. But fortunately I remembered a imp thing. The more you think about it (getting hard, performing too well or no well), the more difficult it becomes. So I laid back, told her to relax, kissed her with more passion, started talking dirty to her(this was a huge success, it's basically like free porn in your mind where you are the star) and i basically …
/r/seduction09/12/17 07:42 PM
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Yeah alright I get the gist. Thanks for the advise and heads up.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:03 PM
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Shit that's fucked up. Will try to be careful though. Btw Is there any way you use to recognize hookers from normal girls or is it always a judgement call?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:07 AM
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Are you talking specifically for Prague? Had any similar experiences?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:44 AM
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yeah will have a hotel closeby.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:01 AM
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What do you mean ? Is there something that i need to be careful about ?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:01 AM
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Thanks a lot. These are quite helpful. I managed to find the hostels. I would try to have a room nearby as well for logistics and maybe to get some sleep if i am not managing any.
/r/seduction30/11/17 07:00 PM
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Hey thanks man !! There are quite detailed descriptions. Will keep them in mind and will surely check out the train station. Do you know the name of the nightclub in prague ? Also a few good nightclub suggestions would be appreciated for Vienna .
/r/seduction30/11/17 06:58 PM
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hey thanks man. how to look for party hostels ?
/r/seduction30/11/17 12:03 PM
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thnx
/r/seduction30/11/17 12:03 PM
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Can you let me know more about which apps, when to switch location, what changes in profile are needed (being direct?)
/r/askTRP29/11/17 01:00 PM
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Yupp
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:41 PM
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Here... Went through the same thing. Thank me later. It's mostly nerves / PIED / low T / too much jerking Below links should help you https://www.reddit.com/r/Supplements/comments/7bk6p0/best_supplement_for_libido_and_sexual_health/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7capg1/loosing_erection_while_putting_on_condom/ Also read the sex god method.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:51 PM
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Smile and say, "You see you were almost cute there"
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:56 AM
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Timing doesn't work for other days.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:40 AM
1

I understand. Working on it. Thanks!
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:38 AM
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I go do approaching every week. But as I said my game is still weak. It will take some time for the options to grow. And i am not mad. Just wondering how to handle such situations. Also just wondering how much attention / validation should one give to a plate ?
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:31 AM
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Thanks. Its a good read.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:05 AM
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Here... Went through the same thing. It's mostly nerves / PIED / low T / too much jerking Below links should help you https://www.reddit.com/r/Supplements/comments/7bk6p0/best_supplement_for_libido_and_sexual_health/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7capg1/loosing_erection_while_putting_on_condom/
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:43 PM
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I agree totally. What I am looking for is a little bit of guidance. What style to learn and where to learn from online. What path to follow. Any suggestions?
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:12 PM
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Here is the simple fact that you missed. The women that you cold approach, are no different than the women you could find in social settings. It is all about numbers. But it's not approach everyone. Approach all those whom you find attractive. Math is simple here. The number of beautiful women you can find on the street / grocery store / transportation etc is much more than those you will find in your so called social settings. So no its not the crappiest approach, it's the best one. But you kno…
/r/seduction15/11/17 03:09 PM
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Been in the same boat. Even though in my case, I lost erection after fingering her for long and she won't give me head. But anyways I realized the problem was in my head and a little in my health and habits. Changes introduced : 1)Completely cut off porn. Bye bye 2)Mastubration to once a week. Even when I do I focus on the touch and not elaborate sex stories. If I have to think about more I do focus on a real women I have seen and not on a porn star. And I decreased the pressure on my grip. Orde…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:36 PM
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Its a book. Read it and reap the benefits.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:25 PM
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SexGodMethod
/r/askTRP15/11/17 09:29 AM
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Yeah thats what i think too .. Thank you for the reply.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:05 PM
1

ck length isn't really the issue, it's about the Thanks !! For me its psychological as well and porn did some damage(recovering from it). Did you change the condoms size then ?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:05 PM
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Haha... I like the analogy. And thanks for the idea !! I can do that
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:55 AM
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i think the idea is to get used to the fact that its a routine and not something special you have to do. Your subconscious patterns are much more reliable than conscious ones.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:54 AM
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you are right. Thanks for input !!
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:47 AM
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Thanks for the ideas ! will try them .
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:47 AM
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yeah i started fapping with condoms. Hopefully it will help. And yes it is mostly experience. Thanks !
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:46 AM
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I dont have a bigdick. Its just average 5.5. Anything for that ? :-p
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:32 PM
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citrulline Are you sure its citulline? the book says its L-lysine. So i am confused, was about to order online. Can you let me know and how much are you talking/was taking ?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:04 PM
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yeah i try. But moslty a girl want to have a drink or two to feel a little loose, especially on first time. I try to give them company while keeping a check on my drink tab
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:27 AM
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foam rolling, flow state and sensory deprivation ? I dont understand what are these and how they help . Can you explain
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:26 AM
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thanks !
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:25 AM
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yeah i will cut out porn completely now that i understand how it fucked up my mind. But i will keep a tab on masturbation ( maybe once every 15 days or so ).
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:24 AM
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For similar problem or in general ? Are you sure these were the only things that helped ? How much was the dosage ? I am taking one mineral tablet every day which has (61mg magnesium and 10mg zinc) in it.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:21 AM
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Yeah i already started taking zinc in the mineral tablet daily, will add grape seed extract after a month or two if i still dont see much results.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:19 AM
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I take a mineral tablets which has some zinc in it. Or do you mean to take exclusively ?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:18 AM
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Thanks. I have already bought it so will finish this pack atleast.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:17 AM
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i dont understand. How does this help ? Its the same calories burn right. Or do you mean to save energy for weights .
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:16 AM
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Yeah i was thinking about L-arginine ( but saved it for the second phase, if first doesnt work,) But it has to be paired with something else as well right ?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:15 AM
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So not even cutting masturbation ?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:13 AM
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yes i was for the last 6 months. Sometimes even two times per day. I moved to do it without porn but now cutting it down to max once every 7-10 days. Baby steps. Any other things i should be doing ?
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:44 PM
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Yeah i understand. Its most probably the body conditioning to my habits. I am working on them now. I need to fix this area of my life, else everything else will fall apart. These are the steps i am planning to take, let me know if there is something more that needs to be added or subtracted. Quit porn and masturbation Get more sleep/better sleep Cold showers Hit the gym 3 times a week Take some supplements (maca, ashwgandha, ginseng) Do kegels Try to be more relaxed (not in my head) before sex
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:17 PM
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Here is the thing. I had a little bit of cialis(well a substitute - Tadalfil, 5mg, 1 part of 20mg pill split into 4, taken 2 hours ahead of time) in me already( as i said this happened before and it was when it was my first time with my girlfriend, so i was a little bit worried already), but it started giving me a little headache, after she went back, and i lied for 30 or so mins to counter the headache the erection came back. Or maybe its possible i am used to getting erections with my own hand…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:53 AM
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I know man. Got rid of porn a week ago. Working on giving up jerking as well.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:45 AM
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I agree i was too much concentrated on giving her pleasure rather and getting mine. And she was ready i just didnt pull the trigger at the right time.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:45 AM
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yeah i read about this in Models as well. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:41 PM
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Thanks ! Also just curious do you just escalate during the first make out or stop (continue watching movie etc) and do this after it happened a couple of times.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:40 PM
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Thank you. Will try all that. Got any advice for better kissing, someplace i should read/refer to ?
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:39 PM
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Yeah i can totally relate to that. My morale was not allowing me just fuck and leave, so i made the point clear to her, because i have seen a few who are traumatized by such experience (frankly if they knew its just sex its better). But the dry spell is fucking my brain up. I will have to gauge how horny she is and how horny I am at that point. But ahh ... who am i kidding given the circumstances i am still gonna smash.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:37 PM
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yeah i know... just trying to dodge crazies ..
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:44 AM
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thats what i am thinking too ... Just wondering "she have all the conv on chat, can she misuse it later ?"
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:28 AM
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I agree . And that is what she is counting on ... that maybe i will catch the feels over time . Btw do you bring it up beforehand or just assume that they are a plate and discuss only if they bring it up ? I think it would have gone much easier, if i invited her to drink and just fucked before having this stupid chat and later say it didn't work out or something
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:25 AM
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She already knows my social media (tracked me on facebook as well) and last name and I live in a place where you can find a person's location just by his name. I agree she is looking for a provider. But I have made her clear that i am not looking for a relationship and if you want to call it that it will be an open relationship. She replies on the lines 'i dont want to be one of many and you wont be needing other women ;)', which is fucked up. I think i could just try her once (since she is so h…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:20 AM
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