Plate cancels twice

MetalDevils · 2017-11-24T09:38:25+00:00

You should have enough plates that one cancelling on you is barely noticeable, and you have enough back ups, that even when one does you can quickly fill the vacancy.

She may or may not be comfort testing you. The most you should do is take a little longer with foreplay the next time you see her. It's a way to communicate care, which should reassure her, while also reminding her of what she missed.

Also, for the future? "It's okay, BJ's only involve your hands and mouth." Learn to shut down 'period excuses' with plates and make sure they know they are only in your life because they provide enjoyment and sex. If they are not fulfilling those requirements consistently, they should be rotated out with women that will.

fnordsnord · 2017-11-23T22:42:41+00:00

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1Pink1Stink · 2017-11-24T01:14:56+00:00

Well you are mad. Why do you only see her on friday? That's weird. You should be able to fuck whenever.

This shouldn't bother you and you clearly don't have any other options.

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-11-23T21:53:20+00:00

Ask yourself how much trouble you'd go through if you had a bunch of other plates lined up.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-11-23T22:03:29+00:00

The problem is right now she is the only source of sex

Then address that problem. Focus less on the minor details and take a step back and look at the greater issue. She IS your only source of sex. You ARE mad that you've lost access to sex for two weeks running. You ARE starting to feel like you're not sure if you're actually going to get sex next week. This is directly a result of having only 1 source of sex.

Both of these Friday nights should have been doing something fun, approaching women in that location, and therefore possibly upgrading your roster. Instead, you're worried about the sex you aren't getting.

Sounds like both genuine reasons, could be shit tests, but a man with options wouldn't be mad, he'd be busy. "Mad? FUMING! You will be punished. You may think of a suitable punishment before I see you next."

vandaalen · 2017-11-23T22:09:27+00:00

Let her chase you. No other options.

walawalawa · 2017-11-24T00:01:33+00:00

Today she said "I am not feeling well .... I think we wont meet tomorrow". To which i just replied 'Take care'.

Well done...

Then she replied 'Mad?'. I haven't replied yet.

Don't reply. Let her hamster fry. Let her THINK you have other options.

Then...go find other options and leave this one.

I have a plate like this. She texts me all the time when she's in my city. I suggest meeting up. she disappears. I don't care. I have 3 others on the go. She knows this.

RedPilledRoaster · 2017-11-23T23:29:28+00:00

Title	Plate cancels twice
Author	rookieMale
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	November 23, 2017 9:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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