I had posted about this plate in a previous post where i was afraid i would have to next her. Maybe i will have to now.

She told me on Monday that she was working all weekend this weekend. I said that was fine, and for her to take off June 8th from work for us to hang out. She complied. Haven’t spoken to her since, but planned on txting her Monday telling her that she would have to come up to me because I planned on going into the city with her.

Today, there is a housewarming party for the new people who moved into our fraternity’s house, and lo and behold - she is on the way to that city as we speak. I’m assuming this is nextable, as she lied to me and finds that going to a party is more important than me. I’m angry and bummed out, but also aware that there are countless women available that would treat me with more importance.

If I soft next, how do i go about doing it practically? I planned on doing the soft next, ignoring her well past June 8th, since I anticipate that she will have texted me by then, and then resuming contact after maybe about a week from today, possibly longer. If I hard next, I’d just remove her from all social media and delete her number; I feel that i am well-informed on how to hard next.

This sucks. Never had plated someone and had to next them, but such is the way of life. I’m disappointed as I saw some potential in her. That’s quickly draining.