Plate insecure about her weight

CainPrice · 2019-08-15T02:17:29+00:00

If a girl's been reliable sexually and is bitching about her appearance via text, e.g., "I'm so fat and gross today", I might respond with "Don't believe you. Send pics."

She sends a pic, I send the eggplant emoji, life goes on.

In person if she's bitching, I just use it to escalate. She bitches about her appearance, I move her hand to my dick and say "See how hard you're making me?" and it's on.

tteezzkk · 2019-08-15T04:08:27+00:00

If you genuinely think she's looking hot that evening, tell her. That'll make her more comfortable. Don't be neurotic about making sure you "don't validate her" etc (this is only for the neurotic nice guys). Keep shit simple. Just be honest. And in this case, it will help you.

Lysanthir · 2019-08-15T07:10:45+00:00

They want validation, I usually just copy-paste this quote from Marcus Aurelius and move on with my day.

"Is an emerald suddenly flawed if no one admires it?"

[deleted] · 2019-08-15T12:15:27+00:00

You can throw a plate bits of comfort here and there, and it doesn't have to read like a four-page Betamax Hallmark card. Here are a few examples off of the top of my head:

I wouldn't be fucking with you if you were fat, but do what you want.
As long as you don't lose your [ass/tits/whatever].
Come get you a workout on this dick.

SolidLiquidGasPlasma · 2019-08-15T12:41:47+00:00

Depends if she’s thick or fat

Distractingyou · 2019-08-15T06:37:58+00:00

As getting old and dying is the human condition insecurity and irrationality is the woman condition, if it's not her weight it's her skin color or her boobs, if it's not her boobs it's her lips or he small ass.. you get the point, woman see the rules of reality as relative while man see the rules of reality grounded as objective reality that's also why we arent as insecure as woman, this actually means that whatever you say or do she will always see herself as fat, in a rational sense if she was actually fat you wouldn't be talking right now in fact you can tell her also extra points for being so brutally honest and cause you give her the asshole vibe all girls secretly crave for, if you want to sound more "nice guy" just say girl i love your for your personality your weight doesn't matter to me, 50 or 100 pounds i don't care love doesn't discriminate. Whatever you do understand you can't change womans insecuritys so you might as well just have fun with her and not take her so seriously.

SolidLiquidGasPlasma · 2019-08-15T12:42:44+00:00

Just to clarify gymnast girls are thick, half the softball team is fat, some are thick but less than half

IceBear---69 · 2019-08-15T03:51:56+00:00

thicc.....aka a fattass. Gross bro

prince0verit · 2019-08-15T10:45:11+00:00

Never give any validation even to the ones that are hot. If she's baiting you for validating her about her weight, come up with something that seems like a compliment but is really a put down. Something like "well you seem to know how to dress to cover your weight."

You should keep her chasing your validation. Once she feels validated by you, she will start seeking it from others.

waking-life · 2019-08-15T12:00:36+00:00

My line would either be "If you're fat, I guess I like fat girls" or "No, I don't date fat girls"

tempuserthrowaway5 · 2019-08-17T13:02:56+00:00

I did this exact thing. It wasn't my weight. It was that I knew I was a plate and not a priority. It was my way of expressing to this guy how insecure and hurt he made me feel without being aggressive towards him about having other girls. He never figured out what I was trying to explain by calling myself fat so I dumped him.

Title	Plate insecure about her weight
Author	alphadecember22
Upvotes	10
Comments	14
Date	August 15, 2019 2:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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