Plate probably got into LTR

red__Man · 2019-06-10T02:55:31+00:00

you met her once.

stop over-analyzing and move on.

XT3M3 · 2019-06-10T04:37:36+00:00

ima have an aneurysm if i see the word plate misused 1 more time. you fucked once, this isnt a plate. and more than likely she was with ole dude first. you are stressing over a girl who dint care about you.

this wont be a problem, if YOU ACTUALLY HAD PLATES

cpotpie1 · 2019-06-10T03:59:04+00:00

I wouldn't put much stock in it. I had a plate tell me "We can't continue having sex until I get my feelings sorted out"....We fucked that night. Don't put stock into what a woman says, it's what she does that matters.

what do you expect us to figure out based on the tiny amount of information you gave us?

(cufflad)

I also agree with this. There's very little for us to judge the situation off of here.

CainPrice · 2019-06-10T04:11:05+00:00

My "predictions for the next months" is that you're going to be mopey and weird and obsessive about this one girl you hooked up with this one time because you had this stupid idea that just because a girl will have casual sex with you, she's supposed to be falling all over you, chasing you to the ends of the earth, begging to be your girlfriend, trying her best to impress you, while you string her along and fuck other women who you're also stringing along.

That's not how plates work.

When you have casual sex with a woman, the sex is casual for her, too. The whole time she's fucking you, she's fucking other guys. The whole time she's fucking you and other guys, she's also looking for a boyfriend and going on dates. Maybe she has sex after her dates, too. Maybe some of her dates suck in which case she texts one of her casual guys to fuck after a date instead.

Eventually, she finds a guy she wants to date more seriously who wants to date her, too, so she breaks things off with her casual guys. Her boyfriend will never know she had casual guys.

This is how plates work. If you're good in bed and fun to be around, maybe a plate hits you up in a few months after her relationship ends and she's horny. Maybe you never hear from her again. That's just how plates go.

Except in rare circumstances, there's no such thing as a perpetual or long-term plate. A plate lasts maybe four fucks on the average. By that time, she has a boyfriend or is bored with you or you're bored with her and one of you stops answering the other's texts.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-06-10T04:39:55+00:00

You don't know enough to be sure. Could be many reasons but what you said could very well be the situation. In any case, if she doesn't want to meet anymore move on and meet new chicks(meet new chicks anyway). If she comes to you again and wants to fuck, fine. Until then, keep it moving.

Title	Plate probably got into LTR
Author	red__Man
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	June 10, 2019 2:49 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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