Pretty much a plate went out with my group of friends ( she has mutual friends with my friends) while i was at the gym. She got black out drunk and some of my friends had to take care of her. She has apologized to my friends since but I feel like it has tarnished my reputation (I am a highly respected athlete). I told her and her response is that she holds no responsibility to me since we arent 'together.' I am happy to hard-next her but when is WITH me she is very submissive and behaves herself. What should i do?