Plate 1:

I'll keep it short. A girl I've been fucking for over a year and plating for 3 months started ghosting me so I ghosted harder. Three weeks go by. She started snap chatting pics of another dude cooking her dinner. I didn't say shit. Two days later she tells me she missed me wants me blah blah. We schedule a hang out and then I canceled and told her "something else came up" (my good friend needed my company, baby mama drama). I think this sent her nuts because I've never canceled on her and before. And she's done it to me several times since we met. I started reading TRP and realized she always kinda had the upper hand on me. So I've been withdrawing and giving her zero attention besides the fuck me eyes. Tonight she snapped pics of the same guy with heart faces and shit and called him hunny. Just yesterday she tried jsutifying to me through text that shes wifey material. I didn't respond. I feel like she's trying to make me jealous. They're probably fucking but he looks beta despite being an accomplished chef. When I saw her today at the bar she couldn't look me in the eyes and took off fast. FYI this girl is crazy af about me when we're alone. I've fulfilled several fantasies with her including anal, three somes, struggle fucking etc. sex is on point. Moving forward I want her back but i want her behaving better. Cut off? Keep ignoring? schedule a hang out?

Plate 2 (Not a plate yet but potential):

Hot sexy nurse. Good family, wifey material. Has a huge crush on me. treated her like dirt for a few weeks and she HATED me. then one day I started flirting with her and she fell like crazy for me. exchanged snap chats and started talking a lot more. But we're stuck in this snap only phase. She stopped coming to the bar. hasnt been there in several weeks. but she wants to talk to me everyday. I always keep it short. send a snap chat of me eating or lifting, flirt for a second but mostly i try my best to be cold, then hot, then sexual, then back to being a dick and then repeat. WE had a 26 day snap streak when I decided that was too long since i had not seen her since it started. so I stopped responding. she texted me "What the hell is your problem" and "I never see you anymore" so then i scheduled a chance for us to meet to exchange some toy items for a toy drive she's doing. she acted like it was gonna happen but then basically just dropped it. So i let our snap streak die again today. How do I get this girl alone?