Hello,

Let me give you the background of my story. I've been with a girl who is a plate for the last 6-7 months things are fine, sex is great and we actually spend some nice time together. There were many occasions in which she implied that she wants a future with me and that she likes me a lot. Fast forward 2 weeks ago and she tells me that she is confused and she wants to "break up" not many explanations given, I think I've handled it pretty well and I just replied with a "yes sure" more or less. We met again today and eventually the discussion came up about our "breakup", the situation with this girl is that I like her and I could see having a LTR with her so for me having a relationship with her is an option. Anyway today she is telling me "I am confused I don't know what to do I was thinking that we are going in a relationship and I don't know if it's right" and after 1 minute she was telling me "you never wanted a relationship in the first place and you never include me in your future plans" and then again I don't know if I love you to get in a relationship with you and then back again to we are having great time but I have to think about my future and you never told me that you want us to be together etc. Basically she was hot and cold all the time...In the end I told her we can have a relationship if you want, think if you want it aswell and tell me. If this was a shit test I know that I failed hard but my question to you is this: Do you think that she was shit testing me or was she trying to create a nice "closure" to get rid of me?

Thank you in advance