I read the sidebar and am wondering if things are clicking now. The phrase "it should just happen" refers to you should not be overtly or activately saying you're trying to fuck her but making it seem like "it just happened". So that means coming off as friends or someone you get to know till you meet up with them and escalate? If they ask if you just want pussy, don't ever come up with a straight yes but go around it and game in person anyway. Is that it?