Direct after knowing them?

HimBalanceHer · 2021-01-12T08:16:13+00:00

😳 I’d say it’s different from woman to woman. If she’s overtly sexual with you... go for it. But if she’s not... I wouldn’t shoot yourself in the foot of you don’t have to. (I’ve blocked guys for less.)

My guy says you have to read her responses and listen to her, not just stare at her pictures. 🤔 (I wonder what he means.)

_Dignity_ · 2021-01-12T11:35:58+00:00

Some women will respond well to that sort of overt thing, but only if you have that kind of relationship already. If you’re already FWBs then a late night booty call probably isn’t weird.

If you just met her at work, texting her late at night for sex is a great way to get a one way ticket to HR.

Don’t just make a friend and then hit them up for a booty call randomly. Why the fuck would that work?

kettlebell_workout · 2021-01-12T15:08:05+00:00

Just follow this simple rule:

"Sext only if you had sex at least once"

thestaredcowboy · 2021-01-13T04:42:55+00:00

It's a mood killer. Avoid. Only exception if she's your gf or fwb, but it's better off just to set a precedent that everytime you hang out you get down.

Otherwise no, just go through the motions with dating to get what you want. Only exception is if the woman is being extremely difficult and has friendzoned you, and you have established significant report can you give her such an ultimatum, and it needs to be an ultimatum. This is from the wise words of patrice oneal himself

TravonM · 2021-01-13T02:13:25+00:00

Depends on how attracted she is to you. If you’re consistently having sex with her then I doubt she will have a problem with it.

Prestigious_Ad_2238 · 2021-01-13T02:53:59+00:00

Depends. If that’s the kind of relationship you have, and that’s the kind of girl she is - into the casual sex thing and you know she’d be down for it, go for it. If it’s a more conservative girl that you’re looking - do not send that. That will get you binned

Title	Direct after knowing them?
Author	That_Giraffe_1670
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	January 12, 2021 8:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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