So the last month or so has been quite a ride for me. I slept with a few women in that span of time, got a lot of numbers and general attention from women (women opening me while out). Literally too busy to arrange dates with them all.

As the title suggests, is it possible to be too Alpha?

I ask this because although I am focused on work, my side hustles, and martial arts, I'd actually like to see the 8 again. Not for a relationship, but def plate material, and general fun.

I met the 8 out at a bar. She was with her friend, so I started chatting both of them up. Got her number, scheduled a date the following week. We had a great date, a bit of teasing, pool, laughing, and talk of music.

Long story short, I suggested we go back to my place. She eagerly jumped at the opportunity. We listen to music, I show her to how to do pullups and we get right into it. No LMR, No ASD. She knew what was up as soon as I pulled her towards me. Fucked her good and hard. When she left, her last words were, "Thanks for talking to me at "

Well anyway, she has basically soft nexted me. I dont mind it, tbh.

My autism is wondering why though? Out of the many possible reasons I can think of, the ones that make sense are:

  1. She has a beta bf
  2. Hamstering for giving it up so easily
  3. Too Alpha/ She knows she'd likely never have a relationship with me.
  4. Some combo of the previous

So we all know the saying Alpha fucks/ Beta bucks... should I add in a bit of beta traits to increase comfort level in girls id actually want to see again? She literally knows very little about me... not even my last name lol

Would love to hear your thoughts