Starting about last year, I started developing premature ejaculation. I was coming out of a dry spell freshman year of college and started seeing a new plate. First time came early but went back in and lasted long enough. Each time, my times got shorter and shorter. I remember one time she gave me a blow job and it might have lasted all of 10 seconds.

In highschool I remember not being able to cum from a blowjob, and now I can't even enjoy it. I've read sex god method and NMMNG, but the teachings regarding PE didn't seem to help. I've tried to stay more centered and in the moment, also focusing on triangular breathing, but not much seems to help.

I've been practicing kegels and trying to edge a couple times a week. This is severely affecting my confidence. I am a good looking guy, game is my weak point but it's good enough that I could be consistently pulling every weekend. Something is holding me back and I think I am afraid to pursue women sexually because I have a negative feedback loop building and know that I will fail in bed. I also know that I can't really fix this problem without regular sex, so I'm basically looking at a solution that I'm afraid to implement.

Do any of you have any suggestions of what I might be able to do to improve my situation? Words of encouragement or direction would be greatly appreciated.