Question about a statement

feminazis_stalk_me · 2016-02-03T03:45:00+00:00

She was being honest with you. You have shared a sexual situation that has made her feel close to you, and seeing you share that with another woman will make her feel a tad jealous. This is normal, and a lot of guys would feel the same twinge of jealousy or possessiveness if a really hot FWB that rocked their world decided to hook up with another guy.

Is it rational? No. Emotions are never rational. But it's a type of mate-guarding that stems from our evolutionary past. In a way, she views you as HER FWB. She might not want a relationship, but she sounds like she's happy where she is with you at the moment. So keep things as they are as long as it works for you.

If and when you do decide to add other plates or see other people, keep her out of the loop or avoid going into detail about them - you don't want her jealousy to get the better of her. And if you stop the FWB situation, you can still go back to being friends, as long as you can keep a lid on your sexual attraction for her.

If you can't "just be friends" or if it makes you jealous to see her with other guys, then you might want to cut your losses and move on. You don't want to get oneitis from her.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-02-02T22:42:26+00:00

You see, women have this neat ability to rationalize their feelings to justify the means to their goal. This girl's goal is to keep you down and out so that you are there waiting as her backup plan. Her rationale is to essentially tell you that you aren't good enough for anyone else and are lucky to have her. This is actually a form of spousal abuse, but then again this is a FWB relationship so you shouldn't have any issues doing the right thing, which is to HARD NEXT her and move along.

thiasus · 2016-02-02T23:16:05+00:00

has recently said it would be hard to see me hook up with other people once our FWB relationship comes to an end. However, she also does not want a relationship

i.e. "I want you to be exclusive to me, I don't want to be exclusive to you"

She's fantasizing, barely qualifies as a shit test. You don't need to do anything particular unless this keeps coming up.

oglowkey · 2016-02-02T22:04:09+00:00

She's a girl and as a girl she is going to be emotionally fickle so don't put too much focus on what they say it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. Focus on you're happiness and if alienating her means you'll be happy in the end do it and don't look back.

Title	Question about a statement
Author	MJR3120
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	February 2, 2016 9:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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