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The couple times I did and did go up to a girl it usually involved me asking them if I can get them a drink. Thereby setting up your interaction from the first instant as you being a material provider and them being on a pedestal for you to gain (limited) access to. Read the Red Pill Primer in the sidebar. You need to fix your frame before you delve into practical game.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 11:25 AM
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How many women have you fucked over the last 6 months, how many women did you develop oneitis for over the same time period, and how many of the latter did you also fuck?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 11:24 AM
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Remember that women act on their current emotional state. At that point in time she was feeling some slut-guilt over being your cumdumpster, so she tried to assuage her feelings by 'asserting' herself as a proper lady from now on. When she's back in your presence and feeling the tingles, her hamster will spin an excuse for why it's fine to be YOUR slut. Ignore it and proceed as you usually would with her. You might encounter some increased LMR next time you fuck her, so be prepared to smash thro…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 11:20 AM
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The people with the real problems have neither the time nor the money nor the education to make a big splash in the media.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:55 PM
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The sexual game is a negotiation of sex for commitment. There's another side of the game. From providers, women desire comittment; from Alphas, they subconsciously desire their superior genes, and aren't necessarily interested in committment. That's why you see plenty of women giving away sex to men with which they don't even fantasize, let alone hope, to have a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:50 PM
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She was. Nobody lost. But GLO wasn't in a position to win. This was rigged. The script, the editing, the entire set up were crafted to make the Trump supporters look stupid and the interviewer look the smart proxy of her clever liberal audience. GLO couldn't win. If he had won too much of the sparring match, he would simply have been edited out. There was no way for him to deliver a smackdown even if he could come up with one in the moment. He could only put in a zinger that she'd leave in becau…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:44 PM
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Getting her to self-describe as someone at the receiving end of a media bukkake was masterful.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:36 PM
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That list has been going around for years and it's not specific to reddit. You can easily google it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 06:12 PM
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I case anyone's wondering, that would be a horrible routine. The ice pack is doable provided you don't keep it on too long, but doing deep pore cleansing, then more cleansin, then a scrub, then an exfoliating scrub is insanely, insanely aggressive on your skin.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:37 PM
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Most people here understand very little about about 1915-1945 history in Europe outside of the pop culture stereotypes of this era For example, stating that the modern world hadn't emerged by 1918 because there were still 'many' monarchies is retarded: only Italy, Bulgaria and Romania were monarchies in 1918 and now aren't (Spain, the UK, Belgium, the Netherlands, Denmark, Norway and Sweden still are), and all monarchies at that point were constitutional monarchies with the king or queen as figu…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 11:53 AM
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She's probably craved a man who could take charge for years, and once she read the book she thought she could make her husband into that man. If he had been less spineless than he appears, she would neither have felt as strong a need nor thought she could impose this lifestyle change on him.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:30 PM
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You are overloaded because you don't have a way to separate the chaff from the wheat: what's useful to you from what isn't. You need to practice TRP, not just read about it, so that experience can teach you what works and what doesn't and the relative importance of each idea to your specific circumstances.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:13 PM
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Regarding work, if it works out then I'm not concerned about my job. It's a small company and if everyone found out they just need to deal with it. Are you aware of the concept of workplace sexual harassment? arranging a business trip during which you press a subordinate for sex is an open and shut case, and your company will drop you like a rock to save their assess if she sues. You have oneitis and you are thinking in stupid ways because of it. Your target is stupid, your plan is stupid and it…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:49 PM
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but it doesnt say anything about me... It's just a genetical accident Women have been attracted to certain genetic accidents since the dawn of time. What do I say when girls say that I'm very tall? Depends. It can be a sincere compliment, when she's just smitten, in which case just smile; or it can be a shit test when she's teasing you, in which case A&A: "Thanks, I'm aiming for three meters next year" How do I defend from being called skinny? Make a joke out of it. Agree and amplify: "With all …
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:44 PM
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You hold frame like and let her attempts at breaking yours wash over you like waves on a rock. When she finally caves and accepts her submissive, feminine role, be prepared for a BIG flood of sexual/emotional release on her part.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:39 PM
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If you plan to have her a serious LTR, go ahead: as far as I'm concerned it's an essential part of screening. But do know that if she has something to hide she won't be sincere about it.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:38 PM
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You want to expose yourself to potential marital, social and professional disasters all to get some young tail for which you have oneitis?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:36 PM
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Are you asking a morality question or a goal-oriented question? if the former, I can only tell you what I'd do: ignore the cuck, minimize fallout for myself, and go on to live my own life.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:25 PM
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She's setting up a pattern where she lets you get close up to a point but then pushes you away, and you keep coming around for more of the same. Does that remind you of anything? You might be failing to escalate properly, it's not clear from the scant few details, but more importantly you are rewarding and reinforcing her behaviour by accepting the standard for the interaction that she is setting. Go fuck other women. Forget about her. She might come around wondering where you've gone or not, bu…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:23 PM
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So what I really want to know is what lifestyle choices you made that made it possible for you to sleep around so much. Being on every dating and hookup app on the planet + hitting the bar and club scene consistently and being shameless about what I wanted.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:21 AM
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There is a common notion on this sub that women's libidos think being an Alpha is genetic (I'll call this Assumption A). I'm proposing an alternate hypothesis that raises less questions: Women's libidos rewards alpha behaviour (I'll call this Assumption B). Both are true. Female sexual strategy has evolved on the basis that alpha and beta traits are inheritable, but since they lack the ability to directly assess the genetic makeup of a potential mate they have to rely on outward signs like physi…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 09:10 AM
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Play it by ear. Kick ass on the job, and if rumors crop up simply explain that you two had a personal falling out and that you are disappointed she has let it affect her work, or something to that effect.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 08:54 PM
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Should i break frame, apologize and do some damage control And thereby teach a potentially unstable person who you fear might badmouth you at this NGO that her behaviour will work? no. What kind of rumors do you expect her to start?
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:47 PM
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She won't put out, but you're still giving her attention. At this point you've trained her to pursue that strategy. Soft next her, she might come around or not, doesn't matter because if she's not putting out she's useless to you.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 12:45 PM
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"social and sexual dominance" are just weasel words Do yourself a favour and read the actual paper: Dominance. Men who are more competitive with other men and who behave in a more socially dominant manner tend to have lower FA, and therefore behavioral dominance may also be a cue to good genes (Simpson, Gangestad, Christensen, & Leek, 1999). Gangestad, Simpson, Cousins, Garver-Apgar, and Christensen (2004) coded the social presence and intrasexual competitiveness of men who were videotaped while…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 12:15 PM
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I know you're all thinking "YOU'RE AT UNI YOU IDIOT", but it doesn't seem that easy. If you are waiting for an 'easy' strategy, you're only going to keep waiting. Isn't that what you've been doing so far? Life improvement isn't about not having problems, it's about choosing which kind of problems to have. Read this post, then ask yourself: "would I rather my problem be that I'm a friendless virgin, or how to deal with the feelings of awkwardness when I'm chatting up new people?" "would I rather …
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:43 AM
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You LTR'd a whore and your hindbrain is telling you "dude what the fuck are you doing?" A chick that has fucked "several of your close friends" is not LTR material, period. The reason why you are "not concerned about cheating now" is that you still hold onto some BP views. Cheating is always a concern even with the most upstanding girl; this one has been sleeping around, so it's even more so.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:27 AM
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How do I respond to this? I feel like I can't dodge the question anymore. Do I just next her? You do a (playful) pressure flip: "Make me want to fuck only you ;)" This achieves several things: it implies you could and would be fucking other women, it puts her into the situation of comparing herself to these other women, and it puts it into her head that the way she can keep you is by fucking your brains out better than all the competition. A side note: I attempt to defuse this by being vague "I …
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:24 AM
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there is no "Alpha" and there is no "Beta" In terms of human sexual strategy there are alphas and betas [PDF], and it's not about being 'comfortable in their own skin'. Alpha traits: physical fitness (muscularity, body shape) facial masculinity social and sexual dominance Beta traits: resource availability high compliance high reliability Women are instinctually drawn to alphas during the fertile parts of the ovulatory cycle and to betas during the infertile parts.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:07 AM
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She might have specific hangups about casual sex, yeah. It happens. But whatever the case, try to get her mind off of the question of sex. Remember, with women it's all about making it 'just happen'. You are talking and all of sudden, oh the magic, you are inside of her. One of the simplest things is saying "oh never, I only cuddle on the first date" and going ahead with naked playing; eventually she usually gets worked up enough that she wants the D.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:12 PM
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You furnish a credible excuse to bounce. "I want to make you X drink", "I want to show you this", "Let's go watch..." and so on. I have a guitar I can kinda play, so I just tell chicks I'm going to teach them how to play it
/r/askTRP05/03/16 07:53 PM
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$5 million euros on a 15 year contract. This guy is doing it right. $300.000 a year is $820 a day. For that much you can fuck a pantone palette of different women, and their looks won't fade over 15 years unlike his chick. This guy is a sucker, just a higher class of sucker.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:48 PM
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The average schlub doesn't get a woman who cleans his house and cooks his meals, this isn't the twenties anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:46 PM
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There is a certain amount of companionship, bragging rights, trophy, decoration and beauty that cant be quantified by a $/hr. Sure they can. There are escorts who'll talk to you about the fine points of stoicism, entertain your friends as the most charming hostesses and look like a classier brand of swimsuit model, all for a hefty hourly rate.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:43 PM
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Sounds like every other story of ME dad with a successful son. He's trying to do what he thinks is best for you, which results in him being a well-meaning asshole. No, don't cut him off. For one, you'll regret it; and you're likely to get ostracized by the rest of your family for it. Learn instead to stand up for yourself. There is no magic cultural barrier that prevents you from doing this, it's just more difficult.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 07:31 PM
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You can personally outplay feminism, but its destructive effects on Western society will become progressively worse and it'll be progressively more difficult to insulate yourself from them. So unless you are personally profiting from advancing feminism no, you shouldn't support it.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 07:00 PM
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It's your choice then, decide whether the chance to practice your game on easy mode is worth more to you than this particular language course.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:58 PM
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What do you need out of this language course? standard advice is not to shit where you eat, but it's possible you don't really eat here.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:46 PM
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Spectacular, detailed field report, one of the best if not the best submission the subreddit has seen this week. Congrats on everything dude. And don't sweat the clean bulk too badly, almost no one achieves this unless they do mini-bulks (look into them).
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:37 PM
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Whatever the hivemind sets as a rule or something like that, they need drugs (alcohol and other stuff) to get enough liquid courage to overcome it and do what they feel like. It's not a matter of courage, women rarely think in terms of courage. It's a matter of respectability. It's not a cool girl's thing to go after a guy (she should be chased), so she manufactures an acceptable excuse ("I was drunk!") to do it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:30 PM
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Because gold digging can be way more profitable. And much less work. Prostitutes only make money so long as they keep fucking johns. A gold digger only has to put in the work until he's said "yes" in front of a priest, then she can cash out and be set for many years if not life.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:23 PM
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Good. You should lose faith in the idea that people are inherently good, and that something like a 'good woman' can exist. You can only find a woman, with all the instincts that pertain to her species and gender (including hypergamy), who through virtue of circumstance, upbringing and disposition is less likely to fuck you over. But there are never guarntees or sure things, and there is never a point where you are done and you can just trust her to stay faithful and loving. The sooner you accept…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:21 PM
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It's the same with gold diggers, the problem is that the plugged in can not see. Gold diggers put everything there on display: what they want, what they are doing to get it, what kind of person they are. Men who fall for it are not deceived by the gold digger, they are deceived by decades of social programming that make them superimpose images of idyllic relationships over the reality they have in front of them. It's the reason why even johns can fall in love with their prostitutes even as they …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:18 PM
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This chick is making money off of teaching women how to maximize the profit off of their natural sexual strategy in today's world. If anything, I admire her. If I could make money off of teaching men how to maximize the results of their sexual strategy, I would.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:16 PM
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Other than the fact we're biologically programmed. "Tell why you do this thing, excluding what I know is the answer"
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:09 PM
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You are denying reality if you think that we act only based on preternatural free will, on the basis of what we 'want'. We evolved with built-in instincts, including those towards physical and social self-defense. Your selfless holier than thou bullshit answers to a psychological desire to feel purer and better than everyone else, because that is one of the ways we instinctively seek to secure a social position. As a strategy, it's not too bad provided you go through with it. Priests, activists …
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:07 PM
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You need to play up your nationality since you can't play it down. American women have extremely limited knowledge of the rest of the world and are automatically fascinated by anything exotic, especially if it has an aura of ancient history deep tradition and blah blah blah. Basically rope them in with a lot of bullshit about the secret and ancient beauty of India and it people, traditions, cuisine and whatever. Play to the strengths of where you come from so they'll forget the negative stereoty…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:17 PM
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Why? what's that right based on?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:13 PM
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How can I condition myself to do and have the same psychological effect on me, activity Y instead? You are limiting your ability to find an effective strategy by asking yourself a very narrow question. Instead, ask yourself "how do I handle the feelings of stress and tension I get from work?" It might be taking 5 minute breaks every X minutes. It might be listening to music as you work. It might be having some kind of reward to look forward to when you complete a work unit. Whatever it is, it do…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:07 PM
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You are here asking for help because your current frame isn't conductive to your (stated) objectives. Not answering my question by restating your current frame wastes your time and, more importantly, mine. Once more: in your opinion, would that person be within their rights? I don't care that you think you should help them, you don't exist in this scenario.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:04 PM
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When you see someone being disrespect, do you feel it's right for them to stand up for themselves?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:33 AM
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How did you attempt the transition? telling a girl to get back to her hotel room is telling her "let's go fuck". Being that indirectly direct is only going to work if the transition is short, basically if you are going from living room to bedroom or from one floor to another. If you need several minutes, a car and so on, she's going to cool off and start thinking of all the reasons why she shouldn't do this. For longer transitions, you need to give her mind plausible deniability, a ready-made ex…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:24 AM
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Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:34 AM
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She lied because in her mind she rationalized the fingering as not really counting as cheating. She told you the truth later because she decided it was better to give you a little truth to show you she's "honest" even at the price of appearing a little slutty. This is called trickle truth, a basic strategy to lie while giving the appearance of coming forward. And make no mistake, there wasn't just the fingering. A chick that lets herself get fingered in a club is almost certainly sleeping around…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:25 AM
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It's time to grow up and learn how to handle responsibility without dad's watchful eye. You should tell him so much. Know that you don't have a right to have your lifestyle choices finance by him, so should he prove unmovable you're going to have to suck it up. As for the roommate vs studio route, that depends on personal preference. You're likely going to be working a lot and have very little time for social life under that program, so some low-effort human contact could be a good idea.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:21 AM
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But whenever I envision myself spinning plates or something along those lines, I just...can't - I don't know why, you see, my past involves me being a fat blue-pill beta who played Halo all day and was terrified of talking to girls. I consumed years worth of Blue Pill garbage. You are like a guy who has spent years sitting on a wheelchair and is now considering running, but instead on thinking "ok, now I'll get up from the chair, now I'll put my left foot forward, right foot, ok this works, lets…
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:12 AM
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Read this. Perfectionism is a problem of mentally and emotionally focusing on an elusive perfect plan rather than on the next step you need to take. Use the technique highlighted there to recalibrate your focus and get working.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:34 AM
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No, I'm not in the mood for a civil war.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:32 AM
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All over the world, men are doing work they’re not getting paid for. In rich countries, it might be fixing things around the house or taking care of the yard. In developing countries, unpaid labor tends to be more physically arduous, like hauling water and chopping wood. Wherever you are, it’s considered men’s work. I would write some sarcastic comment here, but I'm so used to feminist double-think it's hard to express surprise or indignation.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:34 PM
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he punched me across the face like 15 times while i couldnt stand straight That's called assault, the proper reaction is to defend yourself as best you can and/or flee, then press charges. Not show up at his house and laugh at yourself for getting beat up in the hopes you're going to be let in.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:18 PM
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The OP in that thread already got the answer: "Don't expect to understand complex topics through buzzfeed-style lists and shortcuts. Becoming a fully self-actualized man is a lifelong project." The biggest favour you can do to yourself every day is doing the work rather than trying aimless shortcuts.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:03 PM
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What do you provide to her life, now? not in the past, she lives in the here and now. Resources? no, she's the one making bank. A strong masculine polarity? from what you say, I doubt it. Hence why she thinks of you and treats you as if less of a man. You should read the Red Pill Primer in the sidebar and then head over to /marriedredpill.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:50 PM
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"My probem isn't getting up earlier, it's finding a way not to return to bed after switching off the alarm" Or "My problem isn't getting up earlier, it's finding a way to deal with the grogginess I feel when I do"
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:50 PM
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Don't give her details, maintain that aura of mystery. Let her think you fucked 40 girls even if you fucked 3. She only needs to know you are non-exclusive, everything on top of that is optional.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:19 AM
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With zero details to work with we can only give you generic advice: lift, hit the bars and scour tinder for easy lays.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:17 AM
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You imagine I have implied something about OP's honesty where, exactly?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:13 AM
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18 day old account that has submitted a ton of content from the same young, low-viewership Youtube channel. If you want to do self-promotion be upfront about it, this sneaky shit only says "I have no confidence in my product".
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:07 AM
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So, what am I? A guy who thinks he's so awesome he's above following mandated formatting, while offering nothing of use to others. If you wanted to pat yourself on the back though you are right on track.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:05 AM
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"My problem is not being lazy, it's how to remove distractions which I use to procrastinate" Or "My problem is not that I'm lazy, it's how to handle the feeling of discomfort when I start working" If you can tell me more about your type of procrastination I'll narrow it down. When I had trouble with procrastinating studying, I had specific issues with how I felt when I turned the first page, for example; but I knew someone who just got massively distracted by all the other shit he had going on a…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 08:39 AM
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That's exactly how I felt with a regular therapist. I sat in her office chair, complained about my life and she patted me on the back and told me all the reasons why I shouldn't feel this bad. With an analyst, you don't go there to solve an issue, you go there to understand it. You are made to bring out the deep psychological underpinnings of it, and you come out understanding exactly why you have this problem. Give it a try. Facing the possibility of not liking a therapist is a better class of …
/r/askTRP03/03/16 07:35 PM
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I paid $100 per session, one session per week. There were both significantly less and significantly more expensive options. If you tend to be hyper-rational like me, and from the way you write I think you do, it's absolutely invaluable and the exact opposite of the wishy-washy psychobabble bullshit you might have heard about psychology in general.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:23 PM
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Life improvement is not about not having problems, it's about choosing a better class of problem to have. Reading too much is a better class of problem than playing too many video games. Having too much free time is a better class of problem than wasting all your time on junk activities. When you start to fill up your life with valuable pursuits you'll discover you don't nearly have as much free time as you think. When your house is in top shape, you are training hard, you are reading good books…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 05:36 PM
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I also have to state that Im not a big fan of people (looking at you Americans) trying to paint Sweden up to be some sort of pussy-whipped rape-loving country Reality always hurts Sven, especially when it comes in the form of Muhammad's big cock down your throat. You only need to stop denying it and join the fight to change it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 02:25 PM
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You should pursue your objective while keeping your intentions hidden from potential competitors and interlopers (which means keeping them hidden from people who are liable to go tell the aforementioned).
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:10 PM
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let's hang out sometimes "Let's hang out sometimes" translates to "I'm into you, please take me into consideration" in the mind of a girl. Don't do this. Instead, either just get her number to later set up a specific date, or set one up on the spot. By giving her a generic expression of interest and your number without getting anything back, you gave her all power in the interaction. This lowered your value in her eyes and made it particularly unlikely that things would move forward, as girls in…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 10:49 AM
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The fact that this retard threatened to beat you up doesn't mean he's going to follow through, but it does mean that he's in a world of shit if your management is even remotely competent. Have you specifically reported him for making physical threats? Other than that, you're not going to learn how to fight in 9 days. It's likely that he doesn't know how to fight either, so in that remote event you should simply disengage. There is no victory condition for you in staying and fighting. If you win,…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 10:41 AM
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Im not looking for the "dude just forget her and plate other bitchez",I don't have that much of free time and I don't want to deal with that drama,at least not now. You're making excuses. You say there are a lot of girls who are into you, you wouldn't need any more time or drama to go after one of them than you would your crush. The reason why you are making excuses is that you have oneitis, which is the same reason why you are struck dumb in her presence. There isn't any magical advice. You don…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 10:33 AM
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She normally is Is she? Furthermore, this is an ongoing pattern with this chick - neverending shit tests that leave me feeling more annoyed than interested in conquering her That's not well behaved by my standards, not at all. In fact she sounds like she needs to be taught to cut it with the bullshit. Shit tests never end, but they should evolve - if she's still testing you like she'd do with a random chump, you're doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 10:19 PM
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When a woman says you need to stop otherwise something's going to happen, it's because she wants it to happen. When a woman with whom sex is on the table comes to your house alone, it's because she wants to fuck you. ESPECIALLY if said woman is in the mood for a rebound-revenge fuck with the guy she's been after for the last 3 years. You dropped the ball twice so she wrote you off. She's not going to keep actively pursuing you, so ignoring her won't work. You have to take charge this time if you…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 10:14 PM
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Assuming you're no pedophile, she's adult enough to face the (petty) consequences of her choices. The bag is not your responsibility. I would consider carrying it only for a brief time for a plate that was normally well behaved, and that's it.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:57 PM
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Yes, you should have something, like "I didn't see that, how were you using it?"
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:47 PM
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And that's why we tell people to use texting for logistics only. Chatting via text is a trap for 90% of guys.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:43 PM
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If you are working as a chauffeur, pallbearer or bodyguard, sure.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 08:55 PM
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With how vague you are being how do you suppose we're going to answer?
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:51 PM
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You are describing a shit test. In both not responding and falsely calling you on not texting, they are trying to gauge how eager you are to win their approval. When you maintain frame and call them out on their bullshit you pass the test and win their interest.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:49 PM
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I'm ideally looking for something that can increase my interior SMV (In the sense of building Confidence, Frame Ect.) Anything where you are dealing with people and you have to convince them to do what you want. Sales, management consulting, real estate...
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:45 PM
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http://static1.squarespace.com/static/52d2ebb3e4b06f22d60562c5/5459180ae4b0168a2765aad6/54592084e4b0d8d8aa3c5e20/1415127179969/Adam-Jacobs-Mens-Fashion-Photography-Model-Suit-Photography-Freddie.jpg This looks like a picture of how not to put together a suit: white collar over striped shirt overlarge shoulder pads tie the same colour as the jacket Its one saving grace is that the guy is a fit, professionally groomed attractive man shot professionally.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:40 PM
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I had a girl who's a liberal feminist equal rights type. She liked to be bitten, dominated and manhandled. I am yet to find a woman who doesn't. There is just something primal in being with a big strong man who can do whatever he wants to you that gets women off mentally before even they do physically.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:47 PM
3

This guy could turn his marriage around so quickly if he just had the right mental toolset, I almost feel like reaching out to him with a couple of links. He really doesn't need much. Physically he's ok, he's on top of his career and hobbies, he just needs to embrace gender roles rather than reject them. Yes his wife wants to be bossed around. No he doesn't get to drop his guard with her. If he could just accept that shit and learn how to handle shit tests he'd have a great marriage on his hands…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:46 PM
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What women say on camera or in confrontational situations =/= what actually happens. She needs social leverage, and will shift any responsibilities and blame You need to chill on seeing manipulation and deception in everything. Women are not masterful Dark Triad types (with few exceptions), they screw up and spill the beans when they are emotionally compromised. This chick isn't trying to claim social leverage by stating she licked his asshole, she just blurted it out because she was so pissed. …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 12:52 PM
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That's just an embarassing level of historical ignorance. Only the small patrician elite, who drew its wealth from land, could afford not to work. Luxuries like spices and running water were only available to few, likewise for nannies. All of Roman history was literred with corruption scandals, as public officials systematically exploited office to enrich themselves; there was never a golden age of virtue. Prostitution was always extremely widespread, which was common in ancient societies. The M…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:09 AM
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"I fucking licked your asshole, literally, and treat you like a mother-fucking king, because I love you" See this lads? this is what happens when your SMV is so high and your game so on point that the hamster just can't keep up. She knew he was cheating, she knew he was a 'sleazeball', and not only did she stick with him and get knocked up, she treated him like a motherfucking king all the way through. Alpha cock is like crack to bitches, they might complain about all the shit they have to put u…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:23 AM
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Even the average GOP voter doesnt like him. Trump has won 3 out of 4 primaries and his national poll numbers among Republicans have reached 50%. Turnout at Republican primaries has also massively increased, so you couldn't even say that anti-Trump Republicans simply aren't voting.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:37 PM
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Since the time it became a fundamental political strategy, which was about 4000 BC. Probably earlier, but we don't have records. Every single leader throughout history has manufactured victimhood in order to legitimize himself, his faction and his actions. Hitler said Germans were the victims of Jews and bolscheviks; the Romans said Carthage was disrespecting Roman allies; Caesar started his conquest of Gaul by (falsely) claiming certain tribes had intruded upon Roman territory; Attila manufactu…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:35 PM
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Nothing about him suggests that he actually knows what's best for our country. The only candidate this doesn't apply to is Hillary and that's only because you said "him" and "he", although one has his doubts.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:30 PM
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dumbass degrees in university such as women's studies, nursing, makeup and fashion studies (how the fuck is that an actual course) Don't confuse typically feminine professions with dumb and especially with unemployable shit. Nursing is a very serious job and in high demand, there's good money to be made as a professional make up artist and the fashion industry is worth $400 billion in the US, likely more in Europe.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:28 PM
2

Huge cleanup of inactive and banned accounts. Given that people use alts for TRP, it's not surprising.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:27 PM
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I got here super fucking early when there were about 100 subscribers. There was too little content and it looked too similar to PUA/self improvement stuff for me to care. I came back when it started getting notoriety among the SJW subs and found that the community had grown and there was more interesting content. I started posting under my alt at the time, got invited to /alreadyred when it was still limited, good shit. Then real life kind of toom over, I started my own business and had time for…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:25 PM
1

Look into the actual science of race mixing a decide with your own head where the evidence leans. This isn't a topic based on belief.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:20 PM
13

"Hey if I knew you were that shallow I wouldn't have bothered" That telegraphs your butthurt so loud they are going to hear it on the opposite coast.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:53 AM
2

Chicks don't play hard to get by asking for menial favours after you've failed to make an impression. She's trying to place you in her orbit, refuse and next her.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:42 AM
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Unless your SMV is through the roof (or their SMV is through the floor), you simply don't get to have a girlfriend and then a bunch of side chicks. You can plate her, but your relationship will have to remain on the fun casual side of things because the more committment you give her the more she'll demand.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:10 AM
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As a general rule, if it's pre-sex then it's about trying to gauge your SMV; if it's post-sex it's about being comforted that they haven't just been 'played'.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:55 AM
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It's less about 'we' fighting back and more about every single day passing by being one more occasion for her to fuck him up. She will try to get rid of him eventually. If she can't by legit means, she'll make shit up. Sexual harassment would be my bet. The sooner he nukes her the better.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 05:30 PM
2

Body before everything assuming your life basics are tight. Being in shape has so many advantages you could start counting now and still be at it when super Tuesday is over. You feel better. You have more energy. Higher confidence. People like and respect you more. You feel more comfortable. You have more clothing options. Join a gym with a good freeweights are and start pumping iron. You'll thank yourself later.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:53 PM
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Yawn... next her. She sounds like the kind of person who picks apart everything you do in order to control you. A train of shit tests that never ends. If you really want to pursue her, you need to smash them down mercilessly and reassert control at every turn, which is too tiresome for my taste. Also, don't text chicks free compliments and attention. As a rule, texting should be for logistics; anything else is almost certainly going to end up in the free attention and validation department.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:47 PM
2

There's this mistake I used to make, which was confusing liking a woman as a person and wanting to be in some kind of sexual or romantic relationship with her. I think you are making it too.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:19 AM
14

...do you even like hanging out with this chick?
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:50 PM
1

IDGAF means that you won't let emotions stand in the way of what you need and want to do. It doesn't mean your emotions don't exist or that you literally don't care about anything ever. The guy is creating an objective problem, fix it.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 06:51 PM
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It's one thing to get to you on an emotional level and another to objectively create a problem for you. Fixing the second doesn't imply being affected by the first.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 06:11 PM
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Of course you are tired of this fuck. It's one thing to brush off someone's childish snipe once or twice, but when it becomes systematic it's time to stand up for yourself and confront it directly. Next time he keeps this up, say something like: "Jesus Christ man, we get it. You think you're impressing people by putting down other people in front them. All you're doing is making a fool of yourself and making things awkward for everybody. Give it a rest." Don't get irate. Don't raise your voice, …
/r/askTRP28/02/16 01:49 PM
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By your logic By the twisted demented half-logic that you attribute to me you mean. No, people don't always know what they should be doing. They don't know what they should be saying, doing, writing, they don't understand a situation or what their best course of action is and need advice. And they get it. None of that applies to OP. He already understand his situation. He has already determined what his best course of action is. There's a point where analysis must give way to action and this is …
/r/askTRP28/02/16 01:01 PM
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Tips on overcoming Oneitis? There's no tips to making yourself do something. You want us to magically induce you to do what you already want to do because you think it'd be too difficult or too scary. That's not how it works. You not only have to say the words, you have to stick to them. Start taking charge of your life. The way you give up agency to others is how you ended up in this mess.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:06 AM
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...since when do stoics suppress any kind of emotion? it's one thing to have self-control, another to go into weird ascetism where you negate rather than understand and take charge of your basic human nature.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:29 PM
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You want the stability of marriage? then you've got to give up on the instability of going nuclear for every slightest infraction. It's not going to make sense to be married for the kids if daddy is leaving mommy every few years when he throws a tantrum; 'cause that's what you are describing here, tantrums. The issue is not your relationship with her, it's self control: the ability to be on top of your emotions enough that you don't need to immediately explode when something puts you off.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 02:06 AM
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Skilled trades. Roofing. Plenty of labour that doesn't require a lot of education, but does require willingness to learn and bust ass a whole lot. Later on you can start your own business and make serious money. There's no cheat codes though. Drug dealing might look like it except the reality is that you end up doing the shittier part of the job with the most risk to make money for a thug for whom you are a disposable tool.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:56 AM
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Stick to your guns and keep the contact cut
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:51 AM
8

Single moms are the nastiest package: full-on hypergamy and full provider-seeking. They'll throw themselves at you and tell you they're totally fine dating casually, then slip you into the role of the provider without you even noticing.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:11 AM
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you are happy to fuck but have no interest in being part of their kids life Many will take you up on it and eventually will evolve into thinking that you might just be a good daddy, why don't you come over for dinner once and meet him, ehy can you please pick up his vitamin on your way over... There won't be a talk, they'll just naturally slide you into the role as if it happened by magic.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:06 AM
2

BC pills must be taken at the same time of day every day. She was just taking her pill dude, chill.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:02 AM
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You made a fundamental distinction, thanks. Stay as an employee so long as you have opportunities for growth, but at some point branching off could be your best rational option. I took the plunge nearly a year ago with my own consultancy and I couldn't be happier I made the move instead of slaving away at the big firm where progressing up was becoming a matter of playing office politics rather than being good at my job.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:05 PM
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low (verified) n-count You looked under the hood at the secret counter? I've been flipped back to BP ways. No, you have flipped back. It's your behaviour, take charge of it. Shit I would normally dismiss is brought to light as being harmful to her mental well-being, or me ignoring her needs. She's manipulating you using her illness as leverage. Does anyone have any specific tips for this kind of scenario? Yes, don't let her use her illness as a stick to beat you with. Being ill, even mentally il…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 09:36 PM
6

Social life moved on without you. Go right back in and reclaim your spot, expect resistance from the social order that's established itself in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:41 PM
3

No telling without more details but it sounds like you are deflating sexual tension. If you are making out in your bed you have to smash, she's there for that, if you let it go and reschedule it's highly likely she'll go into 'I don't have to sleep with him right away, I won't make the same mistake, let's do a date'. Why is it usually 'just to make out'? are you escalating and encountering LMR? are you not escalating?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:40 PM
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smash regardless no fucks given about your body come on man tell me when you are there with your cock an inch from your pussy your going to think about the fat rolls
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:37 PM
1

This thread is two hours old and OP has been active in the meatime, yet he hasn't explained why we should take his advice. Two years ago he was a cucked loser pothead. Now he wants to give us advice. That begs an explanation.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:16 PM
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Then oneitis diagnosis confirmed. I would say don't do this it's going to end badly, but you're not going to listen are you? Ask her out for coffee or whatever in a few days; set it up as a date, pursue as you would have. This 'blunder' isn't terribly grave if she's into your regardless, plus you're her rebound so she's liable to forget it regardless.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:02 PM
5

I asked you a question.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:45 PM
5

Forget the mind games dude, go for the kill. Besides, you don't show abundance mentality by telling a chick you just wanna wait a few days before talking to her. How does that even communicate abundance? it's not like you are saying or implying you are going to do something/someone else, you are just telling her 'we should wait a few days'. What's your endgame here? plating? LTR? you sound like you have a bit of oneitis here, what with you telling her about your feelings, she having a (now ex-) …
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:40 PM
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Women look to men as the emotionally stable centers in their lives. Because of strong independent wymyn propaganda they all want to make their own decisions, but emotionally that's still extremely hard for them to bear so they lay on a man when they can. Also yes she's probably also gauging your reactions in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:08 PM
1

I'm not referring to Italy. I know the country well and it's a hellhole of moral decadence very close behind America, with a much worse economy to boot. No way I'd move there if not maybe to retire.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:05 PM
1

For the mother of my children? coming from a traditional, stable marriage with a strong father figure; no financial issues; no CC riding, but experience in committed relationships; job, but not career-oriented; not a fuckup, addict, or drama queen. Even then there are no guarantees and you had best cover your bases from day one. Also, I would probably move back to my home country since its still early in its path towards Western decadence and both social and institutional conditions are more fav…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:58 PM
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Who the fuck are you and why would I bother? your only threads are about your girlfriend lying to you and the pathetic things you did as a pot 'addict'. You don't sound like someone I'd come to for RP advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:29 PM
3

Look at an IQ curve. IQ isn't the end-all of intelligence but it's highly correlated with so much meaningful shit it's still a very good gauge. Most people are morons, purely as a statistical fact. They do ok with repetitive tasks that don't require mental initiative or creativity while they are ill-suited to adapt to changing requirements and conditions. And that's just considering the horsepower under the hood. Then add in poor education, inefficient processes, bad management and you quickly r…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 03:55 PM
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improving air quality Minimize exposed cloth and fiber items (they catch dust and smells), air out daily, dust frequently. having better lighting Spread out your room lighting over the entire cieling either with multiple small lamps or a big one that projects against the cieling not the floor. Use spot lighting to highlight areas and guide the eye where you want it. decorative advice Stay away from subreddits dedicated to interior design unless you want to end up with a nerdy neckbeard's room.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 03:30 PM
4

So on the one hand black activists want the recognition and celebration of black culture. On the other hand if you point out that black culture has some fucked up aspects you are a racist. And on the third hand that just came out of nowhere it's fine to criticize white culture and even ascribe to it moral evils like imperialism and racism. See the slight problem here? you are reasoning like a feminist. Not surprising, given that the discourse around race relations is dominated by the same kind o…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:41 PM
2

how do i handle this girl? Handle her towards what goal? I assume it's fucking. Set up a meet in a convenient location, bounce to your place with some excuse, smash. You can't no-talk your way into her panties, at some point you need to make things happen.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:05 AM
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I've been interested in this girl for a long long time and she's finally single. You have oneitis. Problem is though that she said that she wanted to get physical with me when she came back but she didn't want to go ahead with it. Really confusing. It's typical, girls want YOU to 'make it happen', they don't want to be the ones taking charge sexually. She's making herself available to you, it's your job to seal the deal. Read the Red Pill Primer in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:00 AM
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However, idk if she is honestly confused and needs time or is just messing around? She's waiting for you to make a move, she's basically doing 21st century mating display. What are your goals here?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 10:45 AM
1

CTRL+F Hillary - 0 results CTRL+F Clinton - 0 results Write again when you have an argument based in reality rather than idealism. This election is going to be Trump vs Clinton, the only arguments that matter are why one candidate would be better than the other.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 10:34 AM
3

Low drama high enthusiasm. I'll ONS a dramatic HB9 if I can swing it, but I'll plate an enthusiastic HB7 over her every single time.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 10:19 AM
7

Tindarellas are on Tinder for two things: free attention and validation from thirsty betas hooking up with the occasional prospect "not looking for hookups" helps them achieve both. Betas will 'court' them hoping to get into their pants via friendship, giving them the attention and validation they seek; and only alphas will see past the bullshit, so it works as a filter.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 11:26 PM
2

/r/marriedredpill They are the specialists of all the extra complication that a marriage and kids bring into the situation. Go there, seriously.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:08 PM
2

I write detailed two paragraph answers and you keep writing vague two-line questions. I won't waste my time for someone who isn't making the effort to explain his problem clearly.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 07:01 PM
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If they don't take no for an answer and you don't/can't cut them off, learn how to fade them. Fading means making them believe you'll do what they want, only not now because you've got this thing to do, and that thing to do, and that this came up, it's terrible but I just can't right now... Basically what they are doing is exploiting the fact that it's socially acceptable to pester friends and relatives for favours and counting on you not wanting to make a scene to make you eventually give in. Y…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:29 PM
8

No rational/educated person would vote for Trump. They said the same shit about Berlusconi. He won three elections, two with the largest majorities in Italian history.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 06:24 PM
2

The usual euphemisms are 'just looking to have fun, see what happens' or 'not looking for anything too serious'. The goal is communicating that you're not interested in a relationship without sounding like you just want to use her like a breathing fleshlight.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:02 PM
1

how much of an idiot am I? Pretty much a total one, given that you still think she's going to 'realize' how much of an 'idiot' he is. Things dont' work like that. But don't worry, it's a fixable condition, we are specialists in fact. The greatest favour you could do to yourself right now is reading the red pill primer in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:49 PM
2

We have basically zero details. You got skills? how's job market in your field? any chance of inhereting the business or moving into a different role within it?
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:45 PM
1

There's a big concept that dominates your writing: if it's not easy, then I must not be talented at it. That couldn't be further from the truth. When you are talented at something only the first few steps come easy. Becoming a pro at it is still hard. Programming is hard, it doesn't matter how talented you are. One of my best friends in uni was talented as hell and ended up doing great things in his field, but he spent nights working over hard problems and was lost more often than he was on top …
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:35 PM
1

Is it even possible that the term "hook up" has (in a small way) helped increase sexual encounters in western society because it's just such a good phrase? Yes, it's branding sex as a casual, fun activity that you want to engage in. But don't confuse the English-speaking world with Western society. I come from a country whose language doesn't have a functional equivalent of 'hooking up', not in terms of use and connotation, and people have fewer issues with casual sex than in America.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:16 PM
3

I already told you what you should do: go-to-a-doctor. Yes you should stop training in the meantime.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:14 PM
8

Go see a physician. 200 pounds overweight at your height is enough to give you permanent problems, and you're hitting heavy enough weights that they start showing up like you describe. Fuck yes spinal problems can affect your lifting, go to a doctor.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:44 PM
6

You're not describing a clear situation. Is this acquaintances? salespersons? work or study colleagues? what is the nature of their requests? The strategies you can deploy are different depending on these details. Salespeople you can physically and electronically avoid and block. Acquaintances you can cut contact with if it comes to that. Colleagues require a different strategy, as do schoolmates. Unless you tell us, you can only have generic replies that you most likely had figured out already.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:41 PM
4

If by 'lose my temper' you mean expressing that kind of unfocused anger that results from frustration due to impotence, because something isn't going your way and you feel like you have no control over the situation, then that's going to work against you, yes. Give us an example and you'll get a more specific reply.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:38 PM
1

I'm allergic to mind games, so I'd text her: "Stacey, this is stupid. I won't apologize for something that wasn't my fault. You can choose not to talk to me for as long as you wish, but I'm not going to wait around forever for you to grow up." Assuming you mean the last part. Alternative is waiting her out and hoping rumors about your extracurricular activities reach her through the grapevine, if you have friends in common. But as I said, I'm allergic to mind games and I'd loathe for that to hap…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:23 PM
8

I already have my money abroad and navigate political waters in my city/state. "I'm rich and politically connected and I like the system just as it is, why won't you plebs understand that this is best?"
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:06 PM
12

Who runs Wall Street? The powerful men. Hilary can be a little feminist bitch all she wants, but it's the men who run things. I rather have someone who can be controlled then Trump. Controlled by whom and for what purpose? The men you mention, the men in control of Hillary, don't live in the same world as you or I. They have so much money they aren't personally affected by anti-male laws like kangaroo rape panels in college. They don't care if the average American worker is squeezed out by Chine…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:03 PM
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There literally isn't one rational reason anyone would ever consider Trump for President. You don't choose Trump or not-Trump, you choose Trump or the other candidate. The other candidate is likely to be Hillary. A female-supremacist, interventionist Wall Street lackey. Maybe Trump won't undo the PC laws, but he won't make new ones. Maybe Trump won't pull the US out of its current engagements, but he's the only candidate who has spoken of a vision larger than military power to deal with foreign …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:11 PM
1

How do you personally deal with this type of women? Honestly I don't. I have tried the crazy type you have to constantly game and on the balance of things I value peace and quiet more than the satisfaction of 'conquering' a difficult woman.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:05 PM
3

What could she possibly want? A known quantity. A guy she thinks is a sure thing. Validation, for sure, then whatever she feels like is appropriate in the moment depending how your interaction goes.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:31 AM
2

For most of human history, the average woman's choices were not even close to what they are today. With scarcity always a threat, war an endemic menace and pregnancy a much more dangerous affair than it is today, women needed a faithful mate to protect and assist them. And those mates made sure as best as they could that the children they were helping to raise were theirs. It's only in the late 20th and early 21st centuries that women (in Western countries) have been socially and materially affo…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:23 AM
1

It's what "she" says that gives it away, it's the language chosen. It's too descriptive, direct and visual, and lacks all concern for emotion; it's how men write about sex. You can read even just around reddit and see that women follow a different model as they prioritize how they feel and tend to be scarce on the details.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:30 AM
1

Erasmus parties Student parties (you can find the promos plastered around your department) Hit random people up, introduce yourself. The more you know the more you'll hear about parties. Social circles are self-expanding if you put in a bit of effort.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:13 PM
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tl;dr Head over to /r/rpwomen
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:11 PM
2

The primary reason women hate TRP is because it holds a mirror up to women and forces them to take a look at who and what they really are. You are overestimating the capacity of women to accept and engage with criticism. Women will hamster the 'misogynistic' parts of TRP away long before it starts to have any real effect. The phenomenon you describe exists, but it's circumstantial. The proof is that women hate TRP tactics even when they ignore the underlying knowledge base - they hate that guys …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:51 PM
-1

So this notion that Frame and Game are somehow entirely genetic is wrong. Good that it's not present in my post then. In fact, the post works off the assumption that you can learn both frame and game and appear as if you were born with those in your genetic code. Regardless, you are taking mental models that are valid for the last few tens of thousands of years and applying them to instincts that have evolved over the last several million. Gronk the caveman didn't play mind games with his women;…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:48 PM
15

The point of leadership is that the leader creates good outcomes for himself and for everyone. Nobody wants to follow a guy who only creates good outcomes for himself. The know-it-all who outshines everyone else is despised, not admired. Similarly, nobody wants to follow the guy who'll create good outcomes for everyone except himself. They'll exploit him until he lasts, because instinctually they know he can't last. Trump always spreads the win around, making people want to follow him. If you fo…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:38 PM
6

Read this UCLA study for the breakdown of why alpha traits are genetically linked to advantageous outcomes, the paragraph titled 'Preferences for Good Gene Indicators'.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:32 PM
3

There's no way I am even close to average. Here's what's going on: you are desperately clinging to the notion that all of your problems derive from a small penis, because a small penis is out of your control and that gives you an excuse to wallow in self-pity and not take action. You are so attached on this comfort mechanism that you are resolutely denying scientifically-proven statistical truths, deluding yourself into thinking hundreds of scientists are wrong and you are right. You can accept …
/r/askTRP24/02/16 02:27 PM
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I considered putting in a paragraph on exactly this but the thread was already long enough. Men don't get pissed when women fake attractive characteristics. No man has ever gotten mad because of makeup, hair styling, clothing and the infinite variety of things that women do to appear more attractive than their genetics allow. Why? evolution, duhduh. Men don't invest much if anything in reproduction. If you end up fucking an ugly (genetically inferior) chick and making her pregnant... who cares, …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 01:49 PM
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She's relegated you to the role orbiter, for resources extraction with no return on her part. Nope the fuck out of there at the speed of sound and don't look back.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:45 PM
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Doesn't it seem more butthurt if I don't answer, rather than answer with something like "Alright, good luck to you too" or whatever? First things first: it doesn't matter. You are still slipping into the frame of mind where you care what she'll think of you, even if you consciously know that you shouldn't. It's an insidious thing, which is why I'm advising you to ghost her and not reply. Second: maybe, it depends on the context of the previous conversations. But it doesn't really matter. Regardl…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:46 PM
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It doesn't matter what you think and what your subjective, low-self-esteem-biased impression is. There are studies on this, google it and read the numbers.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 10:40 AM
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How do i "refuse the deal and ghost her" and should I answer her text at all and if so with what? The deal in question is a frame transaction; you accept it by accepting her frame and you refuse it by refusing her frame and retaining yours: her frame: you still care a lot about me, so much that no matter what I do you'll still pay me attention. Be angry, be sad, be a lapdog: no matter what, you'll still pay me attention. your frame: I have better shit to do in my life lol So how do you practical…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 10:38 AM
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It's 4.5-5 inches erect The average US penis length is 5.2 inches. If you have a 5 inch dick you are so slightly below average it's going to be impossible for chicks to notice. Your problem is crippling lack of self-confidence, not dick size. Even at 4.5 inches you'd be far from the threshold of a micropenis (2.75), which is when it becomes hard to make proper contact with the vaginal walls. If you can't enjoy sex the problem's in your head, not in your tool. If this lack of self-confidence tran…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 10:01 AM
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I know she is the kind of girl that likes to come across as strong, smart and independent, is this a giant shit test? Yeah. She's using an underhanded manipulation tactic to extract sympathy from you, you passed. Watch out for this kind of chick, because very social and very cold means crazy. It's going to be a long trainload of mind games and shit tests.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:56 AM
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I'll break it down for you: when she wrote "I need to do my own thing", she knew full well you'd read "I'm going to fuck other guys" sending it the day before your birthday is a (calculated) smack to the face, designed for maximum emotional impact. It's supposed to be a day when you are happy, instead she forces you to think about her with other dudes (which she assumes will upset you, since you obviously still care enough about her to keep up the convo) All of this constitutes a power play. She…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:53 AM
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There are infinity posts on having game while being short. One of the most successful guys I know is a manlet DJ, he fucks model-tier chicks on the regular. How small's your dick? numbers please.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:32 AM
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You misunderstand TRP's problem with marriage. You think it's a problem with the institution of marriage in and of itself; instead, it's a problem with the institution of marriage in its current form and in the context of 21st century society. TRP advises not to marry because contemporary marriage is a bad deal for guys. The wife is obliged to absolutely nothing, while the husband is financially on the line for half of present and future income (simplifying). That didn't use to be the case but i…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 06:09 PM
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So here I am, developing the best version of myself, by lifting, reading, reaching goals, internalizing concepts and putting them into practice. First of all, good job. TRP isn't about patting people on the back, but it is about rationally recognizing when someone has taken the right steps, so good job. How do I do it? I don't have a blueprint to give you, if someone shows up with one I'll be very happy to read it. But I can tell you about my experience. I used to be a serial dater. I got into P…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:26 AM
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Not sure what to do next. Too old for bars, too old for dating, don't even care much to. Just feel empty, old, and meaningless. You are too old for none of these things, as I'm sure you rationally understand; a man at 32 is in his prime. You feel like shit because your entire life has been upended, the people you relied on for support abandoned you on an obscene lie and you are disillusioned with the world, a world on a part of which you had placed a heavy bet for the future. It's time to go mon…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:09 AM
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I have hit the gym more and followed through with his suggestions but its starting to take a toll on me, this is not who I am. And in reality there is only so much I can do. She must be devastated, poor soul. He trained for years for one of the most difficult professions in the world, took on large amounts of debt and now works 70+ hours a week under constant pressure, with people's lives literally in his hands. But his wife? His wife must go to the gym. That's a hardship. She has to hit the ell…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:19 AM
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The lead here is the chick from 50 shades, with how ugly she is she's going to be eternally typecast as the plain jane incomprehensibly drawing the attention of rich Chads.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:09 PM
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my mom's definitely a whore. Despite this, I am absolutely certain my mom has never cheated on him. Would you like to start making sense?
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:52 AM
1

Many PUA strategies fit to a T. I mean, one of the oldest PUA strategies was peacocking... TRP is about having relationships on your terms, the opposite of a fisherian runaway.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:27 AM
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What exactly are you looking for here? reassurances from strangers on the internet that your mom's not a whore?
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:23 AM
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Next her. She disrespected you, gave you a bullshit excuse and hasn't even tried to make amends.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 08:52 AM
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Everything always goes. You need to get this idea out of your head that women will put any agreement they have with you above their fee-fees in the moment. If Chad gives her the right amount of tingles she'll blow him in the parking lot, line or no line. If you feel need to control what she does because everywhere you see slippery slopes to Chad's dick, you need to work on abundance mentality. She's not worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:23 PM
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So it's professional. Yeah, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:11 PM
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read this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/?ref=search_posts
/r/askTRP21/02/16 06:42 PM
2

I have decided to swallow the red pill, but do I have to become an 'asshole'? Yes. I mean the real answer is 'no' but I'm not in the business of making excuses for TRP. Sexual strategy is amoral, you can go be an asshole with it or not, that's entirely up to you. I'm direct, honest, straightforward with what I want and what I think. I tell plates what kind of relationship I'm looking for and if they're up for it good, if not we part ways. A lot of people will call you an asshole for not conformi…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 06:41 PM
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Is this professional or casual? If professional, don't shit where you eat. I used to work as a tutor in university, plenty of chances and I never began to take one because fucking one of your students is a great way to stop having students if she so much as mentions it (parents don't want to pay for a dude to come plow their daughter). If non-professional... why are you teaching a girl for free?
/r/askTRP21/02/16 06:36 PM
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who gives a shit? she kissed a chick, oh noes. Tell her to bring her over the next movie night or whatever for a forgiveness threesome.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:48 PM
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Yeah too harsh, don't go Rambo. Set up a meet; if she says no but proposes an alternate date then it's good, if she just says no then yes, next her.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:06 PM
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You already know that these thoughts are bullshit, you don't need us to tell you that. If you want to hear what you already know, here it is: these thoughts are bullshit. Nobody gives enough of a fuck about everyone else to care about small missteps and awkward moments, even supposing they're actually happening at the rate you fear. Now that we've dispensed with the bullshit, here's the part you actually need: go and do the shit that makes you get these irrational fears. That's the only cure. I …
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:04 PM
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You are overthinking shit. Don't make plans. The only plan you should have is to bag it up. Look up a video on how to put on a condom properly and try it once in the calm and comfort of your home. That's it. As for what to do when you are there, the answer is 'whatever feels good'. Focus on enjoying the moment rather than performing. Also, watch out about oneitis. You shouldn't be worrying that she might not want to fuck you again. It goes 'bad', whatever it is that you think counts as 'bad'? wh…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 04:59 PM
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I will stop here, what you guys think about this? he told me make a thread to get advice from you guys He doesn't need advice, he needs a ballsack. His girlfriend is cheating on him and he has direct evidence. His male hamstering is his problem, we can't fix it by telling him a truth he already knows and refuses to accept.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:18 PM
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Dear god dude you need a lot of work. First, read the sidebar. I don't care if you have already, you clearly need to read it again, paying attention this time. Then, specifically: Thursdays are becoming our date nights. You have 'date nights' with a girl you haven't fucked. Let that sink in for a second. You committed to showing her a good time, even driving her home, every thursday for absolutely nothing. I have a pact with her to wish her a good morning every day on waking up, which I stick to…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:13 PM
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Do yourself a big favour: shut the fuck up and read the sidebar, then read it again. Committing to do something nice for a girl every day is shit, yes. This is the most basic of basics. If you don't get this you shouldn't comment, let alone open threads purpoting to contain 'A Good Learning Lesson For The New Guys' like you just did.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 03:00 PM
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Fully agreed. When LMR displays itself in this way, which is the most common, always agree and disregard. Your game is to offer her a false alternative: she can choose not to have sex with you...right now. But 'just chill' still means she'll be in bed with you, half naked, cuddling, kissing, making out, and that's a road that leads only to one destination. LMR is about letting her take a few stops along the road so she doesn't even realize she's making the trip all the way.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:53 PM
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Hot chicks get two things: constant stream of validation. Society literally bends over backwards, men treat them like royalty, doors open for them that are closed to most others constant hostily from other women. Hot women are envied, maligned and constantly brought down by other women in an attempt at competition The end result is that you have women who think extremely highly of their place in the world and are constantly on edge to fend off attempts at taking them down a peg. Counter-intuitiv…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:33 PM
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Ok, then you might be salvageable. Ultimately it's not going to be up to anyone else to save your life (because that's what's on the line, living a shitty life as a cumstain on your wife's path or coming into your own as a man), but /r/marriedtrp can help you do it with knowledge and advice. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:27 PM
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There is no point, TRP isn't a set of goals. To solve your problem though, you need to accept two things: 'true love' is a recent myth fabricated by women and feminized society. For most of history relationships and marriage were strictly about making and raising kids, if the couple liked it each other it was a bonus but it wasn't required. The happily ever after loving equal marriage is literally a product of the last century at best, but really more the post-war era. your biological drives as …
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:24 PM
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/r/marriedtrp Go, follow their guides, talk to them. Plenty of people have been in your situation and were helped by TRP, but /asktrp/ is too focused on the younger, single demographic for this. Go to the specialists. edit: actually scratch that, if you're truly ok with being a cuckold there's no saving you.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:15 PM
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You lack the hamstering capacity. You evolved to hunt, and when you're going after a bison there is no imagining things to be different from reality - you have built-in mechanisms that make you want to call out bullshit. Women, on the other hand, were gatherers and child-rearers for hundreds of thousands of years; they evolved mainly to advance themselves socially, an arena where being convinced of your own bullshit is an advantageous trait.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 10:57 PM
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Being a metalhead I've seen and done my fair share of goth chicks. First, it's a thing that dies off by college, even for chicks staying in the scene. Second, they are super-passive, submissive girls. They'll be open to be approached, they'll transition to sex easily, they'll enjoy you bossing them around in bed. However, they'll be 100% dependent on your initiative. They like to wallow in their passivity so you are always responsible for making everything happen, including in bed. They are liab…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:23 PM
1

He's about her skin tone, taller than average, almond-ish eyes. Somatically he's just the exotic type girls here (we live in pasty-white land) daydream about.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:20 PM
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A fit motivated woman like Rhonda Roussey or any college female athlete would make a better soldier than some random male neckbeard. If the top few percent of women is what it takes to make average grunts then it's obvious there's a problem. It doesn't take that much strength to fire a gun It doesn't, however it does take strength to do everything else that's required in combat. Firing guns is something you'd do 1% of the time in an active warzone. The rest of the time is marching, waiting, load…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:17 PM
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The female Kurdish troops do fine. The YPG is a far-left group, of course they'll say their female troops are doing just fine. I'll wait for an objective assessment of their combat effectiveness vs that of equivalent male units in equivalent conditions to judge. But I doubt the Kurds managed to find a magical way to overcome differences in muscle composition, bone density and other physiological parameters.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:49 PM
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Eveybody knows how terrible sexual assault is for the victims That's the thing though, this is no longer true. The word 'rape' used to be about traumatic, typically violent forced sexual intercourse. Now when you hear someone was 'raped', you don't know whether the former situation happened or whether they slept with someone and regretted it the day or the month after. The diluition of the idea of sexual assault into "it's rape if she says so" ends up victimizing actual rape victims as well - no…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 06:33 PM
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but the fact that users on this forum use beta in a completely negative frame (beta is good. LTRs need beta because beta is comfort and provision - too much beta is suffocating and thus, unattractive; also lack of social skills is not beta - that's omega) Ever heard "85% alpha, 15% beta"? It's what's preached here all the time. Don't confuse comments by newbies in the anger phase with TRP. The sidebar and endorsed contributors are far more representative.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:33 PM
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Writer for Daily Mail On a scale from marble-floored bathroom with solid gold sinks to porta potty on the last day of Burning Man, the Daily Mail is the shit, piss, vomit and cum chemical dredge at the bottom of that porta potty. You should assume that anything written in there is going to be absolute garbage.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:27 PM
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OP, I appreciate the intent but the way you are going about this is going to fuck you over. Security is a mindset, not a product. You can't slap veracrypt on your PC and call it a day. In fact, the false sense of security of doing that might be more dangerous than having your harddrive unencrypted but being more mindful of other things. For example, you haven't said anything about your email. If you are like most people, your primary email account is the key to your digital life. It's going to b…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:00 PM
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The alpha/beta dichotomy isn't flawed at all, in terms of how TRP uses it. It's actually supported by mainstream science, which has found that human females display a dualistic mating strategy: they seek to reproduce with a dominant, masculine male (which we on TRP call alpha) while gaining and keeping the committment of a compliant, resourceful male (the beta).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:04 PM
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American Women Studying In Europe Are Unbelievably Easy As a European man, this article is hilariously spot-on. Every single thing the fictional guy lists is 100% true, and given the precise and correct details he sprinkled in about locations and food I doubt this isn't based on actual personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:48 PM
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Oh kek. I read it all, I hope for some good smut but she goes too soft on the details. Basically the guy overpoweres and beats the shit out of her and it's a cathartic experience that fixes her hamster. No shit. Alpha jizz has thaumaturgic properties, who would have known? woman is scared so she needs to submit to a strong man to feel safe? oldest story since 2 million years ago? Feminists...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:47 PM
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AAHAAAAAHAHAHAH I was waiting for these. It's sad the meetings were called off because then you could have seen them scream and throw fits of rage. But it's extremely funny how the grunts in the feminist army are always, always fuglies, living vicariously through the beautiful women that they enable to live the lives they dream of.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:13 PM
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If you want to wallow in depression and refuse to do the smart thing because you feel like at least that way you exercise a measure of control over your life, you are kidding yourself. A tool isn't a moral agent and doesn't bear the merit for jack shit, if you choose to get meds the responsibility for the results is yours just as if you had used a hammer instead of your fist to drive a nail into hard wood.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 02:12 PM
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You are in the depression stage of TRP. You've seen the writing on the world and realized that pussy is cheap and disposable, your expectations of women are bottom-low and you just don't find them rewarding anymore. Don't sweat it. Realizing that your life doesn't depend on women is good and opens up to the next stage, which will come when you are ready: realizing that women can be interesting additions to your life, just like any other pleasant pursuit, so long as you take them for what they ar…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:42 PM
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Your mistake is being in a situation where your schedule is automatically beholden to your women and you need to make excuses to get out of it. You should, always and unconditionally, be in charge of what you do when. There's no easy fix for this, you should just assert what you want or don't want to do. You're likely to piss them off but it's inevitable. The alternative is bending over like a beta bitch and either find a pathetic lie to tell or going along with their desires.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:16 PM
1

Have you never had interest in women or you used to and now you don't?
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:10 PM
0

...apologize for what? even in BP land, asking out a girl that has expressed interest in you and simply opposed logistical obstacles to other plans is nothing to apologize for. The only mistake you've made is chasing this girl so hard. If you keep asking her out like that you're showing neediness i.e. lack of abundance. Don't, go after someone else. Also, double spaces after you end a period to make a new line on reddit. Your post is unreadable like that.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:10 PM
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Only anxiety and failure. I have a brain injury which caused mild cerebral palsy, but more relevant is my extreme ADHD-like lack of executive function and focus. Like I told another guy, if you have brain chemistry issues you need those sorted first because they'll screw with your action/reward cycle and thus render your efforts futile. Whatever you can do to gain access to a physician that can give you what you need is what you should focus on.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 12:56 PM
1

How do I get over her. You are not attached to her, you are attached to your illusory pre-conceptions about women being ultimately wonderful and your place in life being the knight in shining armor who rescues and provides for them. The only cure is reading the Red Pill Primer. There's literally nothing else that you can do, it's do this or stay with your wrong, self-destructive beliefs. Your choice. Also AWALT is not true.. AWALT is true and you don't understand it. Read the Primer.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 11:02 AM
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Stop sweating technique and read the Sex God Method. Too many guys treat women like machines and think that if you master the right combination of inputs you'll get the right output. Sex doesn't work like that. Read the Sex God Method to focus on the shit that really matters.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 10:59 AM
0

Sleep deprivation produces the same kind of exhaustion but leaves me far too cognitively impaired for me to make the most use of the state. Also, training is good for my health and for my goals and is very sustainable, sleep deprivation is bad for both and is unsustainable.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 10:51 AM
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I'm an AFC My problem has been that IDGAF about anything at all, not even myself. Do you truly not give a fuck, or do you care but you see yourself beyond redeption and thus have sled into apathy?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 10:49 AM
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I'm a 23 virgin who rarely speaks to anyone or leaves home at all, my room is a complete mess, and I'm too lazy to even play games You're not an AFC, you are severely depressed. Your problems belong to another category and thus can't be solved with this same strategy: IDGAF would fuel an inner spark of motivation that you don't have. An AFC possess the basics of life. You don't and you need to build them, starting from your living space (i.e. cleaning you room daily). It's very possible that you…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 10:47 AM
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Some say that you should talk less because people don't give a fuck. Some say that you should talk more because you need to be social. The first advice is against you overexplaining yourself. The second is telling you to engage more often with people (both women and men) to be more social. Basically talk to people at parties rather than be a loner. Also, let's say I'm on the buss and a woman enters. According to TRP, should I have eye contact or should I not look her way? Kekkus, I understand wh…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:28 PM
2

Coasting and procrastinating while imaging your cool future, not exactly rocket science. Your main problem is that you give way too much of a fuck about what people think of you and especially how you compare with other people. That's why you hang out with losers (it feels much better being around people who are worse than you doesn't it?) and constantly stress about being up to scratch. Your oneitis is due to still believing the women are wonderful fallacy. Your lack of discipline is due to nev…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:52 PM
2

Depending on when you unplugged, you have had 20+ years of feminist conditioning. The kind you get during your formative years are especially long-lasting. If it's been impressed upon you that a partnership of equals open to each about their feelings and mutually supportive is what relationships ought to be, some part of you is still gonna long for that.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:38 PM
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Since you are evidently not indifferent to the question, ask yourself this: do I wanna deal with the fear of the cheating being discovered at some point? Honestly I don't think it's worth it. If you don't want to be monogamous don't, but be honest about it. It's much easier for you and everyone else.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:36 PM
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Insurance policy against you potentially being lame. Also shit test. Don't sweat it too hard bro though. I can't give you a proper answer now, make a thread ;)
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:41 PM
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So wait, you had: a fun, interesting date where you connected on a deep level about your lives, childhood and interests a natural escalation into having consensual sex, with full blown affirmative consent But but TRP is supposed to be mean guys raping girls? how is it possible that men behaving like men and women behaving like women could result in great times being had all around?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:50 AM
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Sexual deprivation has been practiced for millennia as a self-improvement tool. NoFap follows in those footsteps, only declined in an age where dirt-cheap pornography is widely available. The 'high' that people on NoFap feel is almost entirely related to psychological factors such as the placebo effect, the sense of accomplishment of self-discipline, the pleasure of belonging to a community of likeminded people and the mutual reinforcement of the various success stories.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 11:56 AM
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Europe isn't one country, Poland is not Sweden. We don't have gender quotas, leftists are an item of mockery with irrelevant percentages.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 01:16 AM
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I've seen sometimes on TheRedPill texts that are straight-up misogynistic: treat women like a dog So literally the same shit that is published in women's magazines year round? "how to train your boyfriend"? that ain't misandry though because misandry don't real. Fuck off. Your points contains maybe an idea and a half, you ignored the formatting guidelines and you definitely didn't read the fucking sidebar. Fuck you, get out of this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:18 PM
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You know, my backwater here in Europe might be poor compared to America, but at least society here is virulenty against this bullshit. We have a few feminist politicians and even people on the left laugh at their bullshit. If the football league declared they wanted gender quotas in FC management, the laughter would crumble a few stadiums.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:14 PM
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there have been death threats You can go on any of the feminist subs and read death threats right now. Admin intervention is not forthcoming because bashing in 'rape apologist' skulls is legal in the Feminist States of America.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:10 PM
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RooshV organized a worldwide meetup day on Saturday. Many of Roosh's books have the protagonist engage in rape and defend/glorify his actions. Feminists are thus trying to paint these events are pro-rape gatherings in order to slander them.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:30 PM
1

Google it, there are endless pictures. Literally take your phone to the barber and show him what you want
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:32 AM
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"why do you hate me, Adam?" "I recently gave myself to the Dark Side" She later said something along the lines of "You're such an asshole," and walked off. She still follows me around and talks to me. Actions speak louder than words, so... Is there something wrong with what I am saying? Not in general, but ease on the teasing with the dumb blonde handicapped chick. Going 100% hardcore RP can make you come across as an asshole, you need to learn to calibrate. The suggested percentages vary, but b…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:31 AM
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It's not an either/or proposition. You can chat up the random cute chick, have a Tinder account to rack up the sluts, and have a great social life full of interesting people and hot girls. We tell guys the wrong thing and give them the wrong advice when we suggest cold approach and online dating as the best options. "We" don't, actually. Opinions on Tinder differ, with some here swearing by it and some not seeing the point. As for cold approaching, it's universally advised as good practice to ge…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:06 AM
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She doesn't seem like the type to do that AWALT Read the Red Pill Primer. You show a lot of confusion and a lot of naive ideas. At this stage anything I tell you would be a repetition of its contents.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:56 PM
1

You can't go wrong with a crew cut.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:53 PM
1

has recently said it would be hard to see me hook up with other people once our FWB relationship comes to an end. However, she also does not want a relationship i.e. "I want you to be exclusive to me, I don't want to be exclusive to you" She's fantasizing, barely qualifies as a shit test. You don't need to do anything particular unless this keeps coming up.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:16 PM
1

That's how it feels to everyone. It gets way better. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:17 PM
2

I feel this is rude AF to ask It's mildly intrusive, chill. and a form of test Of course it is. What should I say? I'm going out with friends but I for some reason dont feel I need to yell her, she's not my ltr/gf. She doesn't get to keep tabs on me. Good boy, you have the right instincts. Me personally? I'd go with "I'm shooting tees with Obama". Funny, a little cocky, says "I'm not answering that" while avoiding the confrontation. Opens up a line of segues should you want that. HOWEVER I don't…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:47 PM
2

"I have to return some video tapes" This generation doesn't get the reference, and might not even realize what 'returning video tapes' even means, but this remains one of my absolute favourites. It's actually better when they don't get it.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:37 PM
1

Oneitis is simply a losing bet. Every single time. Why? because women can't and won't ever love you like you love them. She'll never live up to what you imagine her to be, not remotely. All women, including her. Unicorns don't exist. The reasons are explained in the Red Pill Primer. There's nothing I can tell you at this stage that wouldn't be a repetition of its contents. It's up to you if you want to actually find out what RP is about and why it preaches what it does, or if you want to keep sk…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:35 PM
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What's the advantage? What can she do for you when she lives there that she can't when she doesn't? For sex, invite her over. For cooking, invite her over. For any other activity requiring a private place, invite her over. The only point of co-habitation is looking to start a family, because then you do need her there. Otherwise, you gain nothing and you sacrifice a lot: freedom, space, independence. No thanks.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:31 PM
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so i basically didnt reply. a day later i just said "k," You telegraphed "I was still thinking about your rejection a day later, and I cared enough to send you a passive-aggressive text" i didnt reply to that until today, about 2 days later, and i just said "cuz you said you're busy." You are being autistic about this. Delaying your replies has its place, but that doesn't mean the more you do it the cooler you are. If you don't reply to something for two days, just don't reply to it period. If y…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:23 PM
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Do yourself a big favour and read the Red Pill Primer. It's literally meant for you. There's nothing we can tell you at this stage that won't be just a repetition of its contents.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:10 PM
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The only retardation here seems to be on your part: "Why did you stop talking to me?" -"I just liked you" "ok? so if you did why didn't you try talking to me again?" -"ehh, I liked you. Who knows" "Well I think you're rad too and I'm sorry you feel this way" -"what the hell are you talking about?" You go NC, then she plainly asks why (not exactly a crazy unpredictable question). You reply "I just liked you", which unless you are joking doesn't make any sense. You reiterate that point and then se…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:07 PM
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Ehat are the best traits I should learn to cultivate? Physical fitness, especially in terms of muscularity. Facial masculinity (prominent brow, wide jaw, small eyes, deep eyesockets). Your bone structure is going to be what it is, but you can use beard and an appropriate haircut to underline your strengths and de-emphasize your weaknesses. Social dominance. From a posture that shows you are naturally taking up space, to the way you speak (with your natural, diagraphm-driven voice), to the friend…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:54 PM
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I'm reading you coming up with excuses and rationalizations for why you don't need to change a whole lot: you already achievee much in the recent past, there were times when you felt really good with her, maybe she's just going through a tough or confusing time... It's up to you to recognize these for what they are, put them aside and face reality. I can only point to the way, I can't walk it for you.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:47 PM
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Been there, done that, of course AWALT, not my cup of tea. With tomboys you run up against a whole wall of shit tests right away since they've built their identity around being tough and boyish. Contrary to popular wisdom I haven't found them to be good fucks either. They sure show a lot of initiative, but in that "I'm a tough chick so of course I'm sexually competent". They are not in touch with their femininity and have trouble letting go and enjoying someone else being in charge. Basically le…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:42 PM
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The point here for me is to find a way that will change her perception of me through minor changes If you are looking for cheat codes to the pussy, you are in the wrong sub. I was hoping the word Dread game would get thrown here a lot Dread game isn't a set of minor changes; if you needed minor changes, you wouldn't be at the point where she's openly telling you you're not sexually attractive to her. I checked out a few of your other posts on this and you have a lot of work to do. Minor changes …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:27 PM
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You can apply the same steps that many RPers have successfully used to fix their ailing marriage, look it up on the main sub. Word to the wise though: those guys had an expensive legal committment on the line, in many cases also children who wouldn't benefit from a divorce, so they had reason to stay and fix the relationship (which meant first and foremost fixing themselves). You have no such restrictions, so the optimal path for you is NOT to do what they did.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:53 PM
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There is no schism, there are many little differences. Two cohesive factions don't exist. You are simply shoehorning everyone into either the Cool Guys group, to which you belong, which was always somewhat successful and is driven by pure and noble ideas, and the Bad Guys group which is made up of sad betas driven by anger and revenge fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:36 PM
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There is literally not one person involved in this Daily Mail-tier bullshit that I feel sorry for. Not the instagram attention whore who just can't handle the thirsty betas. Not the thirsty betas who pathetically try to hit on her or send her unsolicited dick pics. The whole thing is a circus where everyone knows exactly what they are getting into and everyone is claiming victimhood.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:19 PM
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Move on. With the scant details you've given it's impossible to tell exactly, but you likely fucked up at some point. Personally I'd bet on the hello texts resulting in too much free validation for her. Texting = logistics, remember that rule. Either way your only winning strategy is to go no contact. If you are still on her mind she'll write to you, if she doesn't you writing to her won't work. Don't get attached to any one interaction. Remember: outcome independence. It's fine if she doesn't e…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:28 PM
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It's good to continuously push yourself out of your comfort zone, it's the only way to grow. If you lift, lift harder; if you are working on game, approach hotter chicks; if you are at work, progress in your career. That doesn't mean you need to be stupid and ignore your basic humanity. Needing rest doesn't make you a pussy and doesn't mean you are slacking, it means you are smart and understand how human biology works. Your body needs rest, your brain needs rest, hell your dick needs rest. Puss…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:15 PM
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What confused me was how she didn't want to fuck even tho almost everything we were doing was saying that we were about to fuck. HB9 = free validation all day every day = incredibly inflated view of the value of her pussy = you need to be on top of all aspects of your game to close on your terms This kind of chick is used to getting her way with everything, especially men. You did well in the beginning by reframing the conversation and remaining on a superior footing, but later on when you smell…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:18 AM
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The ruse theory doesn't hold up. I know a few of the cities and the meet-up spots mentioned were clearly chosen by locals and wouldn't occur to outsiders. Roosh either has intimate knowledge of minor European cities or he has recruited many dozens of locals to help in his trolling attempt, and no co-conspirator spilled the beans. No, the thing is for real. Of course it still is a publicity stunt, the controversy will only give him more exposure which means more sales for his books. The gits atte…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:39 AM
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Summary The Summary is meant to give me an idea whether I want to read your long post or not. Your summary isn't a summary, it's the introduction, you are telling me how the night began. The only other thing it says is that this post is for you and your self-improvement. That's great but I don't care about you, I care about what I can learn from your experience. So can you tell me what your post contains, so that I can decide if I want to read it?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:29 AM
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Corollary: so will most men. Complacent and feminized by their women, they'll slowly abandon the alpha ways that got them the pootang in the first place and settle into comfortable betahood. Cue the stereotypical "You're no longer the guy I started dating / married", dea bedroom, bitchy woman, the whole nine yards.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:23 AM
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I feel guilty being this much of an asshole Spoiled brat is rude to people and embarasses your group. You firmly but politely tell her she's out of line. You set her up for a very, very mild prank. You return her mild sexual ribbing with your own (notice how you didn't bring sexuality into the conversation until she did). Only in a crazy world could a man feel guilty or an asshole over any of this. You are well past letting those residual feelings stop you, but it's telling how deep the programm…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:19 AM
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I have read countless stories of guys whose women told them about the guy they were cheating with or were going to cheat with on the future. Lots of strategies behind this one: the Reformed Slut: I used to be bad, but now I'm settled down and I'm no longer that kind of girl because I know what it's like (hint: she's still a slut) the Alpha Flatterer: oh I cheat on that guy because he's a loser, unlike you (and you should totally commit to me) (hint: you shouldn't) the Confessing Sinner: I cheat(…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:08 AM
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Would it be considered shitting where you eat if I gamed her? Do your career or social prospects depend on maintaining a good relationship with this girl? no. So the answer is no. Shitting where you eat refers to getting in relationships that, if they go south, would impact other areas of your life. I say go for her, but do NOT I repeat do NOT make her your girlfriend. You sound like you need the experience and college is prime time for that. Plate her if possible, pump and dump otherwise; do NO…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:02 AM
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but you are ready to leave at a moments notice if shit goes south. and because you can walk away whenever you want... youll never be stuck. That's all very nice sounding, but you don't give any operating advice for what to do when faced with the specific situation you are mentioning. 'Walking away' is the nuclear option, if you apply it immediately to every little undesireable behaviour you'll burn through plates faster than a blowtorch. What you do in that situation is you remain in control of …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:51 AM
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Specify. For 95% of guys 95% of the time, making their girlfriends or wives 'angry' means not kowtowing to their increasing demands for special treatment. In those cases of course there's nothing else to do but go on your merry way and let them sort themselves out (or not). For the other cases, where you genuinely have fucked up, do not apologize. Do not ask for forgiveness. Not because it isn't the morally right thing to do, but because it never works. If you apologize, you hand her an unlimite…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:39 AM
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after a few months they figure out they're not the girl who's going to "crack this nut" and they start asking questions about what's wrong with me. Standard LTR frame testing. They want increasing committment from you, and you are not giving it to them on their terms, so they ramp up the shit testing. it might feel good to be on the level with another person. It would, but it's not possible with a woman. She will never truly sympathize. She'll make a show of it, as women are socialized to be nic…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:25 AM
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Is there anyway this is fixable? No. How the fuck am I supposed to deal with this? Break up, go monk mode, lift (harder), re-immerse yourself in TRP. Considering the right thing to do for some reason is to move on, those problems will move on with me You are looking for excuses not to break up when you know it's what needs to be done. Your lack of ability to arouse her is a personal probem, true, but you won't be able to fix it while embroiled in an unrewarding relationship that's making you fee…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:12 AM
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Your plan for bouncing is solid, good luck. As for the rest, if you feel you are lacking in experience, read up on the relevant sidebar links and search TRP, there is plenty of material that I'd only be repeating. For nerves, consider this: lots of people are nervous because they think sex is a much bigger deal than they discover it is after they've done it a bunch. It isn't, it's a simple thing that we're all naturally programmed to do. Get informed, bag it up, then do what feels natural and go…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:36 PM
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Engaging in small talk over texts means that your time and attention aren't valuable and that you aren't communication to further your aims but just because you value the interaction, i.e. you value her attention more than your time. All of this says "low SMV", which turns women off. The TRP rule of thumb to not fuck up texting is always the same: texting = logistics Use texting only to set up in-person meetings. You can't fuck a girl over text, you need to meet her to do that so that's why you …
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:07 PM
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haha her parents have a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom house in Brazil with a nice pool in her back yard. She's in nursing school. She's truly living the dream life. Go on mate, you clearly have this figured out.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:55 PM
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You somehow misundestood my answer, because you start with "Nah." but you go on to state you agree with me.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:39 PM
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What exactly does the red pill have against dating foreign women? Nothing. but you tell people to especially be careful foreign women No, we tell people to be careful of women from poor countries, not foreign women in general. As an American that is currently living in South America, is there something that I'm not really seeing? I've been dating a Brazilian woman and I plan on asking her to marry me. What you are not seeing is that to women from poor countries you are a meal ticket. You are ric…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:34 PM
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It's impossible to give you a meaningful answer because you don't give us enough to work with. What kind of convo preceeded her silence? the answer to that will dramatically alter the advice.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:23 PM
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For a newbie you are not doing too badly, but you need to hone your killer instinct. A few pointers: her texts, excuses and so on are a shit test. This chick will fuck you tomorrow if you take her to your room, 100% guaranteed. Your job is to 'make it happen', so she can rationalize to herself that she didn't slut it up with a random, she was just taken by storm despite herself; Always Be Closing. Ancient advice that still rings true. When you have the chance you need to seal the deal, i.e. fuck…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:21 PM
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But I seem to be unable to stop using Tinder as a total crutch, to the point where I'm not even interacting with people very much. Basically I'm asking how people have successfully said goodbye to Tinder and done BETTER than when they used it frequently. You are using it frequently and it doesn't sound like you are doing any good at all. End your premium subscription, uninstall the app. You are not using Tinder as a crutch, you are using it as a substitute for real relationships. You need to get…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 06:54 PM
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Your dick is not small, chill. It's literally average. The vast majority of guys have a dick just like yours, a few have it shorter and a few have it longer. Unless you have a micropenis, penis size is no obstacle to sexual function. Just chill, read the sidebar and work on the actually important shit.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 11:25 PM
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Your friend has crippling fear of sex because he thinks he would have no fucking idea what to do. He needs a woman who will take the initiative and push through his bullshit. That can be either a prostitute (DO tell her he's a virgin, they get more cases like that than you imagine), or a girl that he's known platonically for a reasonabe amount of time without any sexual tension (i.e. a girl who had a boyfriend) and who he's comfortable with. That gives it a good chance he'll have built enough at…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:05 PM
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Last chance to get help: you came to us with not-a-problem which has no drawbacks for you, and asked for a solution. Two possibilities: this either isn't a problem and you don't need a solution, or this is a problem and you are not explaining it. I've given you the benefit of the doubt so far and assumed it's the second case.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:57 PM
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Massively too little information to give you any meaningful advice. What shit tests?
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:43 PM
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If the situation doesn't create any trouble then there's no reason why you would expend effort to change it or why we would expend effort suggesting how to change it.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:41 PM
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Each time I replied as if I was unaffected. "Ok, going to hit the gym" "Ok, going to go out with mates anyway" These replies telegraph loud and clear that you are trying to appear unattached. Why would you tell her what else you're going to be doing? a simple "k" is all you need to acknowledge you've received the message. What is the function of women in a LTR? And the more important question how can the relationship function if you are expected to be cool calm and composed 100% of the time... S…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:40 PM
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I'm not clear on what problem you are trying to solve. She wants you, you don't want her, got that. What practical trouble does that create for you?
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:25 PM
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No, it is not possible. Post a picture, let's see if you truly burn the eyes of mortals.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 06:44 PM
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The vast majority of us are past are school days where things like social interactions and social life in general are just thrown at us. Actually do we have data on this, like a subreddit survey? reddit's demographic is heavily skewed towards college-aged or slightly older males, it would be surprising if a sub this large had significantly older membership.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:05 PM
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I became Narcissitic, Self-centered, egoist, asshole and I have never been more happier in my life. You describe yourself as someone who speaks plainly and honestly, is welcomed by his friends, admired by girls and his life sorted. You might be a narcissistic, self-centered egotistical asshole compared to the standard 21st century male, i.e. a hopeless beta, but on any objective scale you are just a normal self-respecting man.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:02 PM
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Truth be told,guy in the video looked like he could spare a chromosome or two. Prominent brow, wide jaw with thick muscles, small eyes compared to size of head, eye sockets deeply recessed, thick neck, broad shoulders, thick arms, gratuitous levels of aggression. Basically the prototype of the caveman, cleaned up and dressed in 21st century clothing. That's why he had two chicks and he's likely to have two new ones as we are watching this video. Dude looks and behaves like a walking testosterone…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:21 AM
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when the wife was a narcissist Wait a minute here, what woman isn't a narcissist? Sure some can suppress it long enough to rope in a beta chump into marriage, but it's not like they stop being narcissists. When you are brought up from day one as the gender that is always smarter than dumb boys, always nicer than rude boys, more valuable, more special, more deserving of attention and protection and special treatment, how do you not develop a narcissistic personality?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:16 AM
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I mean, at this stage the debates are literally about: who gets the best one-liner or comeback who can suck the dick of the right special interest group who can make the most outrageous statement and make the highlights reel The general pubilc watches for 1) and 3), and Trump is a master at both. He doesn't need the support of special interests because come the primary they'll have to follow in step or risk a democrat in the white house. And you can be damn sure that while the rest of the pack i…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:10 PM
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The first moment when things clicked for me was back in high school, summer of '04. I had broken up with my 2-year LTR over the spring, gone into what I would now call Monk Mode, dropped the extra weight, started lifting, stopped giving a fuck (it didn't last long but it lasted enough for what followed). A few mates and I were reading PUA material back then, it was the days of Mystery and Neil Strauss, we didn't know what the fuck we were doing with girls either way. We approached in clubs chief…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:07 PM
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The rule of thumb to not fuck up texting as a newbie is: texting = logistics Reply to her with an alternate date that is convenient for you. If she says yes, or says no but proposes an alternate one, you're in. If not, ghost her. She might be simply not interested enough, in which case don't bother, or she might be shit testing to get you to chase her, in which case you win by not chasing her and she'll write to you again down the line. Either way your strategy is the same: text for logistics, d…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:52 PM
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Has anyone came across a scientific explanation of why women have to dress up to go out with their partners? Dress in humans covers two areas: the functional and the social. The functional is self-explanatory: we've given up a thick coat of fur for more flexible thermal regulation, but in most climates and circumstances we need clothing to compensate. The social aspect is by far the most determinant in modern society. Clothing signals a lot of things to a lot of different people: affluence, affi…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:45 PM
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Is this signaling its LTR time? No, it's signalling it's time to move up from 6s. Meh chicks are fun when you are starting out and still realizing just how much pussy is out there for easy taking, but you can get complacent and thus bored. Past a certain point 6s are chicks you'd fuck if you don't have to go out of your way for it, better yet if they show up at your place to cook, fuck and leave. Actually scratch cook because most women nowadays are just bad at it, far too many are convinced tha…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:40 PM
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/r/fitness FAQ. Short answer: make salads. Chicken or turkey breast salad (not the deli slices, the real deal), egg salad, salmon, pulled beef, avocado. Basically the same stuff you eat at night turned into a salad and thrown into well-sealing tupperware for transport. You can crouton your bread if you want a ready source of carbs, which you would if you are going to class.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:35 PM
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absolutely amazing perfect girl she's a 5 or 6 Does not compute. Seriously, rid yourself of this mentality that every girl you have chemistry with is some superlative. It's going to be very very very few women in your entire life that you might describe as 'amazing'. You are unlikely to have met any of them at a young age. Should I risk this 6 who worships the ground I walk on for a chance at a far more attractive woman? Eh, who knows? nobody can tell you what you want but yourself. I can tell y…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:29 PM
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The final stage of TRP is acceptance. You realize, and internalize, that women are not bad, you've simply been brought up with a mistaken view of them. They have their instincts, as you have yours, and it would make little sense and serve no purpose to be angry about this state of affairs. Accepting women and humanity at large for what it is, you can live at peace with that notion and make the best of it for yourself. You, my friend, have not reached this stage. You're still stuck in between the…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:22 PM
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What you are feeling is both normal and common. You are transitioning from the denial phase to the anger phase. The denial phase of TRP is when you try to hold on to your previous worldview of women being various degrees removed from an ideal of virginal, innocent creatures who all ultimately aspire to form meaningful long-term relationships with an exclusive mate. The anger phase is when, having opened your eyes to the reality of women and especially of women in 21st century Western society, th…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:11 PM
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What a fucking retarded post: Feminist heros are fraudulent. Do not take feminism seriously No shit? you drew this conclusion from a feminist comedian stealing jokes? who gives a fuck? Feminism mustn't be taken seriously because it's horseshit, not because one of its proponents is a hypocrite. Feminism teaches you a false and self-contradictory vision of the world, whereby men and women are perfect natural equals and not even genitals create an innate distinction (since you can apparently be a m…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:55 PM
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What you are essentially saying is "TRP doesn't work because of PUA techniques, but because of TRP principles". No shit. The two are explicitly separate, and while there might be some overlap the approaches start from different premises.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:46 PM
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It's mind boggling in the context of the fake version of society that men are taught from the crib, but it makes perfect sense in terms of the real world. Over millions of years of evolution, women have developed a dualistic mating strategy: reproduce with fit, dominant alphas to ensure their offspring has the best genes on the market; win the committment of a capable provider beta to ensure the resources required to care for and guarantee the best possible outcome to said offspring. In short, A…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:36 PM
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The football player in college who is nailing hot girls, he doesn't give a shit about Plato or philosophy. The fraternity brother running through hbb sorority sisters, his hobbies involve getting drunk, wasted, and partying. Let's not get ahead of ourselves here. While the goal of TRP is the discussion of effective sexual strategy for men, and it's good to remember that women don't respond to how smart you are but to your ability to give them the tingles, you shouldn't let the pursuit of pussy t…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:44 PM
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Dread is fundamental. As with everything, the emotional impact of any input diminishes over time. If in the beginning of your relationship you were fit and dominant, and then you stop displaying those traits, the attraction they generated will fall off very rapidly. Don't expect women's emotional state to be based on much more than the present moment and its immediate temporal/mental vicinity. Dread means keeping that attraction up by keeping your SMV up. The response this will generate in her i…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 04:18 PM
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If you were Chad thundercock and she can smell it, why bother shit testing? Because it's not a conscious choice, it's an ingrained behaviour crafted over millions of years of evolution. All women shit test, in most cases not even realizing they are doing it. If she doesn't want you, why bother shit testing? Because you can still be useful as a provider or orbiter, both categories who get shit tested a lot. They shit test when you overstep boundaries. What 'boundaries'? women don't set boundaries…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 04:13 PM
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You call her a plate but your post telegraphs you're thinking of her as LTR material, what gives? you are stuck with the beta thought-pattern of "I like spending time with her, therefore we should hopefully be exclusive". Yes she's going to fuck him, he'd have to be pretty terribly beta (or gay) to blow that chance. Is that a problem for you? if so ghost her, but take the opportunity to assess how you view plates. Plates are to be spun, not clung to, and if one falls off you simply move to anoth…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 04:07 PM
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and there were no shit test I highly doubt that. Women are programmed by millions of years of evolution to shit-test potential mates, it's a fundamental part of female sexual strategy necessary to assess your fitness for various roles: alpha reproductor, beta provider, orbiter, reject. It's more likely that you didn't recognize the shit-tests, failed them and got the IODs you noticed. tell her that i think we didnt had the most amazing connection we both seek, and maybe we should go on a second …
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:47 PM
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Mix of a few things: shit-test: she's trying to get you to qualify to her, framing your relationship as her being the one judging your fitness to be a mate and you having to prove it shit-test: using sexuality as a weapon. By trying to get you to do things for her in exchange for a very, very mild sexual favour, she's trying to frame the relationship as her having power over you via sex curiosity over competition: she actually is curious what kind of girls go for you, because it gives her a metr…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:39 PM
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Lesson here: Don't expect to have anything (even your anatomy), that women won't try to co-op for there own ends. A more important lesson would be to stop caring about inane shit like this. Seriously, ladyballs? who cares? the amount of stupid shit that women say and do to 'try on' the fantasy of having the same power as men is infinite. Would you throw a fit at children playing at being adults? of course not, so don't sweat this sort of thing from women. It's like women 'taking over' masculine …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:09 PM
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A common myth in the Red Pill is that 20% of men sleep with 80% of the women. It's an illustrative turn of phrase based on the typical Peano split, not a principle set in stone. It means that the top few men sleep with the vast majority of available women. Also: the distribution seems to be more like this: the top 20% of men sleep with 40-50% of the women. The top 40% of men sleep with 60-80% of the women. Where's the source of this? it's not in the study you linked. More remarkably, though, is …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:05 PM
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Let's be very clear on a few things: gender disphoria exists, together with a shitload of conditions that make you think your body should be something else the 'solution' of using hormonal and surgical intervention to change the body is insanity born out of liberal politics and nothing else There are people who are fully convinced their limbs aren't "right" and we don't tell them to cut them off. Yet trannies think they shouldn't have a dick and people tell them to go right ahead, chop it off an…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:29 PM
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Two ways a blowjob can suck, pun intended: lack of enthusiasm lack of skill For the first, the only cure is giving her the tingles. Physical fitness, dominance both outside and in bed, social proof, dread etc. etc. For the second, tell her exactly and graphically what you want her to do. Not in a clinical, "Look at this diagram" way; in a dominant, we're-having-sex-and-I'm-bossing-you-around kind of way. If you want her to go faster, tell her. If you want her to suck harder when she's on your he…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:19 PM
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Literal Dual Mating at play here, with the Postmodernist variant: the woman doesn't need to hide the cuckholding from the husband, she'll have him openly accept it. I hope she goes through with it. OP is an infertile and extremely weak specimen; having him out of the gene pool is going to be a boon for the next generation. Bye bye evolutionary dead end.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:13 PM
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You can see the classical dichotomy between the feminine confrontation style vs the masculine one at play here. Women are naturally driven to socialize the confrontation by trying to get the social group to fight their opponent for them, an evolutionarily-ingrained behaviour owing to women's lack of physical strength and aggression-driving hormones.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:04 PM
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As the sub grows, the exponential effect will inevitably draw in more and more newbies who'll be more attracted to AWALT stories and other things that confirm TRP is correct, because they themselves need this confirmation as they haven't yet applied IRL. Personally, I trust the mods to make sure a proper balance of content is kept. They've done an incredible job so far, ensuring that this place grew from a paltry dozen to the largest manosphere community on the internet with only a slight declin…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:00 PM
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If you cherry pick the article Go ahead, show I did that. My conclusions are condensed from their "Discussion" chapter and from the one immediately preceding it which illustrates and details the two sexual strategies. Show what you think I left out that changes their conclusions.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:41 PM
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Making the world a better place, eh? You are either confused or concern trolling. TRP isn't about making the world a better place, it's about male sexual strategy. That's it. That being said: You're screwing with kids lives too Doing them a favour actually. See how hormonal mommy becomes when she can't get strange dick on the regular? she starts shouting, she becomes unstable in the house, kids are hurting. A good dose of dick once in a while helps mommy be happy and nurturing, just what they ne…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:12 PM
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couldn't you just allow us to draw our own conclusions based on the facts? First, I'm not allowing you to draw your own conclusions either way. I'm condensing the article based on my own understanding and reading on it, which means what you are reading are my conclusions from their work. If you want to draw your own, you need to read the article, and that goes for anything that is posted here or elsewhere. Second, the intended audience includes you, who evidently already understands the lingo, a…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:19 PM
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I have to still fix it by either breaking up with her or toughing it out and still making the LTR work. No. I wish I could slap some sense into you, but I'll have to make do with the internet. Open your eyes: the only reason why you are even thinking of "toughing it out" is because she bawled a bit in front of you. You are being emotionally manipulated, giving in to it will do nothing but bring you misery and set you back on your path. This is why I'm telling you need to identify the causes of y…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 02:34 PM
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Allright, you fucked up. Accept the following: fuckups are inevitable on your way from clueless beta to skilled alpha. They are absolutely inevitable, and the people on here who only speak of their successes are simply not mentioning their failures along the road, which everyone has. that's not an excuse to cry over yourself or not improve. In fact, the only way to turn failure into a useful lesson is to learn, adapt and improve from it. tell me this: why did you give in to her demand for commit…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 01:42 PM
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Maybe he was staying with her as a way to stay in their lives. Later in life they will love him for staying and suffering and hate her for cheating. Or they'll come out of it messed up as fuck due to having the following as role models: a cuck father who will not fight for even his basic dignity a whore mother with zero impulse control That's not a good way to grow up. He seems even incapable of shielding them from their mother's bitching. He's not fighting a trench war to defend his kids, he's …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 01:35 PM
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Pump and dump while bagging it up (and better yet with a vasectomy too)? honestly, if she's kept herself well in the looks department and knows how to fuck, I'd go for it. And, exactly like those guys, ghost her the minute she starts getting attached.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 12:36 PM
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Or he lives in a state where cheating doesn't matter ...what the fuck is wrong with America? I come from Europe and specifically a country where cheating is obvious grounds for at fault divorce, not even a question, I didn't even think of the possibility of massive, rampant whoring not being a factor in America. What the fuckety fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 12:24 PM
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6 hours later, of the new 5 posts only one is flaired Theory. If you want to do this, set up automod to autoremove anything that isn't flaired theory within 30 minutes of posting. I can give you the code if you need.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 12:02 PM
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For the benefit of people who might come across this: First of all fuck monk mode. That's just fucking dumb. Being social is a learned skill like any other Monk mode isn't a permanent state, it's a temporary state where you focus on self-improvement through a variety of means either because you need to build a foundation (for example, getting fat to fit) or because you have a project that requires your total dedication (getting ahead in your career). Of course it's not meant to be a time for you…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 12:00 PM
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What a coward. "Staying for the kids"? the kids know, and they are growing up with a massive cuck of a father who's teaching them to face problems by spreading their ass cheeks and biting down on something for the pain, and an unstable bitch whore of a mother who's teaching them that nothing in life is more important that instant gratification, consequences (and everyone else) be damned. The guy's simply taking the path of least resistance and rationalizing his decision post-facto. He's clearly …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 11:54 AM
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Dude, with all due respect: this isn't a debate you can have on the basis of a couple of general principles of epistemology. It's been discussed to death since Bell published his original papers. Ultimately, sure, until the good Lord himself rips open the curtains of creation and tells us what its ultimate mechanism is we can't have rock solid proof that our understanding is correct, but we can be pretty sure of some things nonetheless. In this case, we can definitely exclude hidden variable the…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:07 AM
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In classical QM you can show that the results of specific experiments would measurably differ based on whether QM is inherently probabilistic rather than a hidden variable theory. These are called Bell tests, we've done them and the result is that the world is, in fact, inherently probabilistic.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 04:37 PM
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What do you think abouth having "accountability groups" of 5 - 10 people where you can discuss TRP, motivation etc.? I think it's a piss-poor idea unless it's very well structured. 10 random people starting out from recovering betadom having their own little discussion group is much aking amateur scientists running a lab: they might stay on course for a few weeks and then get fucked when they lack the necessary experience. This could sort of work if someone experienced, with proven success in li…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:17 PM
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The only support group a man needs is himself. And yet human society has functioned for thousands of years based on mutual relationships of alliance, support, rivalry, enmnity and everything else. No man's an island; denying this is denying basic evolutionary reality. Men have always kept tabs on each other: among family members, among social peers, among comrades in the armed forces and colleagues in the professions. I have no doubt primitive hunters did much the same. While I don't believe in …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:11 PM
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And of what value would that be to the sailor? The sailor doesn't navigate by gazing over the horizon with wise eyes and feeling things in his bones anymore. Local tide charts, storm tracking, GPS navigation, weather forecasting - modern shipping is all about products of high tech. That's not unlike TRP by the way. People have had and talked about game for centuries, but in the 21st we can discuss it in scientific terms - hormones, brain structure, evolutionary psychology. This doesn't make us b…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 07:33 PM
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Are we dealing in Pussypasses now? Nah, we are just being realistic. Sure a woman could in theory be exposed to that much validation and will herself into a perfetly fine, respectful individual. The reality you are going to have to deal with, and the reality you had better be prepared for, isn't that though. The reality is that most women in those circumstances will develop those same patterns of behaviour. You can be angry at this if you want, and find it immoral, but you'd be trying to cast mo…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:40 PM
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I'm honestly not even mad at her. The guy has a high-pitched voice, effeminate mannerism, insufferable way of speaking that utters with every sillable "I carry the heavy burden of my first world problems on my shoulders, please sympathize with me". He's an evolutionary dead-end that needs to be cut out of the human gene pool for the betterment of our species. What she did was nothing less than a favour to the rest of humanity, as it will hopefully scare him off relationships and prevent him from…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:32 PM
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I'm gonna have to be autistic for a second here: A scientist might say that each molecule of H2O has a certain behavior that is defined by Newton's Laws That would be a pretty piss-poor scientist. If you tried to model the behaviour of water using Newtonian mechanics on single molecules, you'd come up with a mess of a model and entirely wrong predictions. For highly complex situations we need abstractions that describe broad underlying patterns that can then be used to inform us about practical …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:26 PM
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LTR could be your girlfriend, your wife, your long term relationship that isn't specifically otherwise defined and you only wish to convey that it's long term because that's what matters for the purpose of your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:19 PM
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did either of you bother to read closely? Because, it didn't say he was passed out - just that he blacked out. Do we have an epidemic of illiteracy? "blacked out" is what's written in every relevant spot in my post. but it is quite possible to rape someone when you are blacked out. Yes it is quite possible. It's also quite not what happened here. You can't rape someone by letting them give you a blowjob which they regret halfway through: “It’s pretty obvi [obvious] I wasn’t an innocent bystander…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 08:43 PM
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That sounds like a massive waste of money. That sounds like massive savings. 100k to defend you in a case that might have cost you millions is pocket change.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:43 PM
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So to recap: single mother of two irresponsible driver no insurance so either irresponsible dickwad or broke Surprises all around. Glad you came out ok OP, from the title I feared you had been saddled with the consequences of her shitty behaviour (more than you have, at any rate).
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:35 PM
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Afterwards you immediately begin to remember why the relationship wasn't right When writing the previous comment I hadn't thought about this but it's so very true. The very next thing after cumming was a rush of memories about all the reasons why you shouldn't get back together.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:29 PM
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Did you guys even read the article? So it's not all doom and gloom here I'll return the question to you, did you even read the article? The guy was thrown out of college over a completely ridiculous accusation when he was the obvious victim if there was one. He lost money there, most likely reputation, and now has to pony up for lawyers to try to get compensation from the accuser, who has so far gotten away with everything except losing a few friends. He might see compensation enough to pay his …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:09 PM
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There was one ex of mine that would show up now and then and we would fuck, but there was no orbiting on my part. When a relationship ends you need to cut your losses and invest elsewhere. Yep. When my last LTR ended, my ex and I still slept together occasionally, but she lost all other 'boyfriend' perks. She'd come over, we'd fuck, she'd leave. 0 investment on my part, a simple transaction of sex between two consenting adults.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:02 PM
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TLDR - first really obvious examples for me of AWALT and hamstering since reading TRP. That's not a tl;dr, it's a re-statement of the title. A tl;dr is supposed to give me an idea whether I'm interested in reading a longer exposition of the content. Brings up the SO - this spreads the blame to me and helps her justify her actions. More than that, it gives her plausible deniability. Later, should you make an unwanted advance she can bring up the recently-mentioned boyfriend as an excuse. Should y…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 03:59 PM
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All the male protagonist are bumbling idiots The rest is run by women and beta men. What movie did you watch? in my screeing we had: Poe Dameron, a literal ace pilot with a leather jacket and scruff, who is also a great marksman and spends his time shoving his fist up the First Order's ass as far as it goes Han Solo, who is a) motherfucking Has Solo and b) still capping bitches left and right while being instrumental in almost every major plot development. He gets one emotional scene where he do…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:11 PM
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Big congrats on smelling the rat even while drunk and horny and handling it beautifully; many peope would have had trouble doing it sober. Is there something you can do for your friend? I understand a lot of people have a live and let live approach to life, but from the way you write you seem to care about him. Any chance of taking him on a hunting trip or something and trying to see if his masculinity isn't completely dead?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:14 PM
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I don't see why you wouldn't let her fuck and spoil you till kingdom come to be honest, but if you have for whatever reason decided you don't want her around then go no contact and cut her off of your life. You are in control, not her. If she wants to show up on your doorstep like a puppy that's her problem; I assume you have headphones, put them on blast some tunes and leave her there. Seriously OP you don't have a problem here, you're basically humblebragging.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:02 PM
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it would be unethical for me to lead her on like this If you were leading her on, yes. If you tell her "I get that you want family and kids, but I don't and you won't have them with me" and she's still up for fucking you, there is literally nothing that is unethical. She's a god damn adult, she can make decisions including stupid ones, it's not up to you to shield her from her self-delusions.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:00 PM
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What if any is the hard science behind these tests? things like measured correlation between personality types and job performance, income or whatever, for example. IQ testing makes sense because it's actually highly correlated with a lot of interesting stuff. Does this thing have a similar predictive power? edit: either way, I always take these tests out of curiosity. My result is ENTJ, or: THE COMMANDER ENTJs are strategic leaders, motivated to organize change. They are quick to see inefficien…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:50 PM
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This is really beta It isn't, in the slightest. Let's analyze it in context: look, money, all that shit. It doesn’t matter This doesn't mean that his money doesn't matter. She had just been ranting about how she was broke. He told her that her money didn't matter, because (and here's the important part): like spending time with you, and that’s all that matters because he likes spending time with her. He's telling her that her value to him is that he likes spending time with her. In fact, it's al…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:28 PM
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That means anything gained from your female companionship (regardless of the number of sources) is still the sole purpose for being No, it means that sex is a non-negotiable physiological need for human males. You can be content with your career, your friends, your financial situation, your fitness, your fantasy football results and your marathon time, but your body will still want to fuck on the regular. You'll never be able to replace sexual fulfillment with other kinds if not marginally and f…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:49 PM
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Porn isn't illegal in the UK, certain specific genres are. And it's not illegal to film consenting people performing legal acts. Of course, this doesn't make the entire idea of taping every sexual encounter of yours any less ridiculous; much better to exchange messages afterwards confirming you both had a good time. She'll try to deny or dismiss them, but they'll help your case and you are much more likely to get those than consent to film (without which your evidence is likely to be challenged …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 08:42 PM
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Ah, Stoya...the patron saint of blue haired nerdy tumblr girls who have le sex and are grills btw. Astonishing innit? disgusting landwhale wymyn who are all about empowerement have elected as a patron saint a thin, slutty porn star who is heavily into being submissive and getting double-stuffed by alphas. The cognitive dissonance doesn't get more obvious than that. female empowerment = guaranteed access to alpha dick
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:15 PM
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Because society has removed all environmental pressures that made it a necessity. As it is, a woman can fuck around with hot guys for a couple of decades, then find herself a cushy betabux who will provide for her and 'their' children until she decides to divorce him. This goes even more so for high-status women. Compare to the situation across the vast majority of human history, where societal pressure guaranteed that mate selection was fundamental to a woman's prospects and families were gener…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:10 PM
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At what point will these sjws be satisfied? Never. The entire point of social justice is to always beat the war drum. They have literally no reason to exit if they don't pretend they have huge problems. Meanwhile, women are getting beheaded for witchcraft in Saudi Arabia. Not even the hashtag, the lance of the slacktivist, is used in their defense. GamerGate? quick, make 3000 sites and campaigns. Horrible violence against women in the shit parts of the world? meh, who cares.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:27 PM
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Good man. I see a bright, solid future for those kids. Who knows, maybe if the whore's dad had had as much of a spine, she might not have ended up advertising herself on the subway; she might have even found that much better paying and less bothersome form of prostitution that is marriage.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:25 PM
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If a guy sat there and complained about his financial situation (which of course, might be THAT important in both cases), no one would even gave him a second thought. Unfortunately there are plenty of apologists for weakness and laziness. Not nearly as many for men as for women, but you still will find people who would recommend the same course of action for a guy. We are a society that has taught that everyone has a right to things except for the people who work for them. If you are a productiv…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:21 PM
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To recap: no police report filed no dates, no location accusation entirely based on her testimony ex-GF accusing ex-BF Verdict: who gives a fuck. An unprovable crime that hasn't been reported to the police and has zero supporting evidence. It should literally be a non-story. Prediction: James Deen will be hounded and harassed by feminists simply based on Stoya's word. She will be believed, no matter what, and his only choice will be to stay silent and accept the slander. The few people disbeliev…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:14 PM
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Right, and the heavy implication (if not outright statement) being that Hillary is therefore also unsuitable because ovaries Funnily enough, that wasn't what I had in mind at all. Hillary isn't even on my mindscape, as unlike the Republican camp the Democrats have already crowned their Dear Leader and anointed Her with the Seven Oils of Wall Street. despite decades of exposure to the highest levels of political and state machination Yes, which gives us a track record to judge her on. Which is a …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:34 AM
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This is an oversimplification. The fact the President's power isn't unchecked and can be stopped in quite a few instances by the Congress or the Supreme Court doesn't mean that the office is empty. Just by setting policy for the administration, the President can move tens of billions. For example, the President can decide that all federal contractors must have 50% women in management positions. That would be more momentous than 95% of laws passed by Congress.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:28 AM
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There are two big differences here: Ford was an actual engineer. He started out as a machinist and worked his way up personally designing, testing and building innovative engines. He had a far better appreciation of how far and in what direction the envelope could be pushed. And he knew engineers. It's good to push people, sometimes. Not all the time, on all the things. If you are striving for innovation, pushing people to figure shit out can help them overcome their own self-doubt and their ske…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:25 AM
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If someone made a "beware of theft" poster that shows a picture of a black dude robbing a white girl people would lose their shit. something like this? If anyone can identify the font on the original I can make it look identical.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:09 PM
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nobody with a brain cared about mayweather fighting ronda rousey. Anybody with a brain would be actively opposed to such a matchup. It wouldn't be even remotely fair, and quite possibly dangerous for the woman depending on how the fight plays out. I don't want to see rousey's career ended because of a stupid battle of the sexes fight.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:25 PM
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At what? MMA, sure, as far as I know mayweather isn't trained in it. Boxing? He might easily, easily outright kill her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:23 PM
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Someone here once made the point that Feminists hate women I was about to say "of course they do, women hate women", but then I realize with horror that male feminists exist.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:13 PM
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it's a preference, not a fetish Pretty sure "aryan fetish" was sarcasm on tomdanksthethird's part, precisely about how SJW call any kind of racial preference a fetish.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:12 PM
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But let's just say that my hobbies or passions include quantum physics I had written a post trying to explain why this is ridiculous and can't go anywhere, but let me try to cut to the chase instead: a layman talking about quantum mechanics sounds like a skinnyass non-lifter spewing broscience in the gym because he watches lifting videos on youtube. Except that the gap in applicable experience between a regular guy and a pro lifter is enormously smaller than between a layman and a physics grad: …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:44 PM
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If you explicitly admit to it on texts that she's going to have on her phone you are past the point where encryption is going to save your ass.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:07 AM
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You probably got downvoted for not explaining yourself, but you are 100% right. It's ridicolous to say that legislation proposed by a party member is going to pass because his party has the majority. The first demonstration is that it doesn't happen. Tons of legislation is introduced by majority party members that never sees the light of day. That's because congressmen are elected locally rather than nationally, so they have to balance their own personal support (wherever they are elected) with …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:19 AM
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Helen of Troy. Men fought over her all her adult life. Her abduction caused a war between two of the most powerful nations on Earth at the time. It's much more complicated than that, touching upon themes that are foreign to modern culture and thus usually ignored in favor of a simplistic jealousy narrative. The story is that Helen was the most beautiful mortal woman and that the kings of the various Greek city states all wanted her. They all vowed to respect the victory of the man who ended up g…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:15 AM
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they are a "unabashed, bleeding heart SJW feminist?" Yes. Well, no, but it doesn't matter. They are definitely going to provide the "moderate" institutional support that allows SJW policies to sneak in. Title IX wasn't enacted because Obama himself is a tumblr feminist, it was enacted because the Democratic party is in the bag of feminist pressure groups. Their mild liberalism enabled them to be a platform for such things. And the thing is, even the most traditionalist elements of the GOP are no…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:05 AM
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Stop swallowing the media kool-aid about candidates being oh-so-important. They aren't. The system that created and perpetuates feminism is far stronger than any candidate's campaign. It's the system of corporations that want low wages thanks to both genders working, that panders to women because they make most of the purchase decisions, that cultivates the culture of entitlement behind frivolous but lucrative consumer spending. Sanders isn't going to change that. Neither is Clinton, Bush, Cruz,…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:02 AM
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They only notice the presence of the top 20% (or even narrower) males in any given location And, guys, this is not just a number thrown out there: women rate 80% of guys as worse looking than average, while the curve for men is incredibly symmetric.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:45 PM
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There is a tremendous potential for tenderness among men and I am not sure if that is always realized and it is terribly sad. Yeah, that's surely true: women routinely give up on female friendship because of the cattiness and mind games, but we are the ones with an unrealized potential for tenderness. Not even 18 months undercover as a man are enough to nudge the hamster significantly off course. There's no saving the modern woman: bombarded by a culture that paints her as a special sensitive sn…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:16 PM
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The degree in fashion merchandising isn't even a cliche. It's a marketing degree in a 250 billion dollar industry that's not ever going to be made obsolete by technology or automation. It's a solid gig if you are serious about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:41 PM
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A few of these girls seem to forget their wallet/not bring any money "Tough luck, maybe you can work something out with the waiter ;)"
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:52 PM
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He found out about something I did with one guy that I've declined to do with Barry and he was hurt about it for weeks. It's one of the clearest examples of how women have no empathy for betas that they genuinely can not see why a beta would be hurt that she did double anal with nipple clamps with Chad and wouldn't blow Beta because that's gross. And it's not a pretension, they genuinely don't understand it because they don't take a beta's sexual needs into any consideration.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:09 PM
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but for some reason I don't feel bad. Because you got the sex that you wanted without having to deal with the exclusivity of your current relationship. Maybe its this subreddit, maybe I'm just not into her enough? Either way she's been on her period for the last week and wouldn't do so much as give me a handjob. Stop hamstering; you are hinting at the truth (you wanted sex and weren't getting it) while trying to cover it up with excuses. She's a great girl, smart, determined and only had 1 previ…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:17 PM
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raise her with standards That's the challenging part. You can raise her with standards, but you'd be fighting against the immense mass of bad influence that modern culture consitutes. Media, the internet, her friends, possibly even her relatives will provide her with plenty of negative models, pressures and incentives towards being a slut.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:47 AM
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At least the others accept lobbyism reluctantly The others run around the country for months wrapping their mouths around as many donor dicks as they can possibly find, whoring themselves and their future policies out in exchange for the fuel they need to run a campaign. There's nothing reluctant about it anymore. It may have started that way, decades and decades ago, but now it's a completely accepted and normalized part of the process from municipal elections upwards.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:07 AM
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It's about making reddit more profitable. And I don't blame them one bit. It's a company. It was inevitable that they were going to start working on making it profitable or the investors would pull out and this place would close. This sub is about facing reality. The reality is that reddit is a company. You can't blame a company for trying to make money, or rather you can but it won't do a damn thing. What you can do is adapt your strategy to that fact. It seems to me (but I'm not an insider or …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:36 PM
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Your language implied they pulled a model off the street. No, it didn't. It makes your theory of explicit planning a lot less likely. No, in no sense does it do that. In fact, the theory relies on the fact that they chose one of their own engineers: the shitstorm would have a lot less power if the woman pictured actually wasn't an engineer.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:18 PM
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...and? she could be a farm hand in Kenya for all that mattered to my argument.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:02 PM
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You gotta stop giving a shit about these things. At this point it's not even ideological outrage, it's professionally done and directed PR. A software engineering company puts out a recruitment ad. On it, they put a cute girl in professionally done makeup and hair. The language implies that she's an engineer working there. There is simply no way they didn't anticipate the "she's too cute to be an engineer" comments. So much so that the most likely thing is that they did anticipate and actually c…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:57 PM
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This grip is thought by some to activate different muscles than the standard grip Broscience always manages to surprise me with its capacity for wishful thinking. Yeah bro you're not plateauing because of actual reasons but because you haven't switched your grip to this bullshit form.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:17 PM
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This one's easy but I'm sure someone will still benefit from a translation: I am 21 and on my second marriage. "I am a huge, huge slut and also incredibly good at roping guillible weak men in." My husband of two years is every girl's dream man -- the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy. He loves me for everything, including my flaws. I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me. "My husband is a complete Beta bitch" So tell me, why am I cheating on him? "Please tell me that I'm…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:59 PM
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physique does not matter as you have a flat stomach and hit the gym 3 times a week What you are saying here is that physique doesn't matter if you are already in the top 10% fittest people in the country. It's not exactly new wisdom: appearance matters but after a certain point you get diminishing returns. You need to work on your social status and join a group of alpha and well respected men. It's much harder to join a high status group when your fitness is crap and you feel crap about your bod…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:15 PM
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"Victim" of what? Of an evolutionarily successful strategy that made the females of our species prefer mates that were physically superior and socially capable? The only victimhood is that to victim complexes, and it's largely self-inflicted.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:45 PM
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According to the author of this article I gotta ask though: why are you giving a fuck about this? it's another lazy talentless hack trying to score point with the easily outraged and the campaign-happy slacktivists who will get behind a "raise the temps" pseudomovement. Something like this comes out pretty much every hour. Also, google the author's face. She couldn't get more stereotypical "professional bitchy lesbian turbofeminist" if she died her hair pink. It's another cunt trying to cash in …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:32 PM
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Not that complicated. That'd be a solution if the person in question were interested in one, but here the point is to get published and get some press for presenting something outrageous which will however find its inevitable glut of retarded support. Rationality doesn't enter into it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:28 PM
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Pro-tip: don't take reality tv as a guide to actual reality. There can be some actually real moment in it, but never forget that the overall arch is largely scripted and that the producer will instigate interesting interactions, moments and behaviors that wouldn't otherwise emerge. Case in point, the dude is clearly already a jock, and the chick clearly already has a pronounced party girl persona (that's how they hire these people after all), but you can bet your ass that they coached them into …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:24 PM
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If you have this skin color you have to be a legitimate millionaire athlete or high status singer to get the same type of women a 6/10 white or light skinned guy gets with ease on Tinder. A millionaire high status singer is pulling the same level chicks that 6/10 regular white guy gets "with ease" on tinder? right, right. This is both vastly overestimating the issue of dark skin and vastly underestimating how far other factors like physique, wealth and status can go towards overcoming skin color…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:19 PM
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If there's a hypothetical question highlighting the precise scope of discussion of TRP, it's this. TRP isn't moral philosophy, it doesn't teach you what is good or bad or right or wrong; it teaches you what is a successful sexual strategy. It's a-moral: neither moral nor immoral with no pretention to either (even though of course individual members can and will express their ethical views). Which is why there is no 'true TRP' answer to your question. Your question does seem to involve a matter o…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 10:48 PM
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Go kiss your mother right now, because without someone like her in the industry a guy with your abysmal reasoning skills wouldn't have a job.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 07:19 PM
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tl;dw: chick calls in beta as fuck bf to validate her feelings of oppreshiun after being catcalled in New York (with no meaningful threats or attempts at violence) Meanwhile men are still overwhelmingly targets of violence and literally no one gives a fuck if a man is insulted. Conclusion: cry me a river bitch, try Joe Average's life like that chick did once and see if you don't try to off yourself too.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 07:07 PM
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He likely has some reservations about manhandling a small woman coupled with a nagging fear that if he used more force than absolutely necessary he'd get undue shit for it. Watch a big guy be this belligerent and witness him sharing some quality time with Mr. Taser.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 07:00 PM
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The post is about macroeconomic effects, household labour has few to none. Women did not enter the workforce to afford washing machines and vacuums: those women who could afford them in the first place already belonged to wealthy households. Women entering the workforce was a cultural shift in the perception of the role of women in the workplace, and when it picked up in the large numbers it was mostly working class women participating it, precisely the ones that couldn't dream of affording a di…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:37 PM
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Yep. Hitler did not acquire power by magically willing it into existence via law; by the time of the Reichstag fire he had well and truly beaten his opposition and all that remained was to enshrine that fact into law. The Communists were already pushed into exile or clandestinity, the Soc Dems had capitulated, the Christian Democrats had never played to begin with. Feminism is fundamentally different because it doesn't rely on its own coercive power but rather on that of men (who are, by definit…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:43 AM
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Their is still hope to find a girl that is not femi programmed. First: a lot "I'm anti-feminist" is simply attention whoring: "look at me, I'm not like those other girls!" Second: even if you find a girl that is a genuine traditionalist feminine woman, the value proposition of traditional relationships and especially marriage is still abysmal. Society exherts overwhelming influence on female sexual strategy, and if your nice traditional girl realizes that you are a beta bux and she can divorce-r…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 11:55 PM
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Within two days, my boss was completely cut out of the loop in every way. Meetings that had been scheduled were cancelled. Rumors began to spread about him. The facility manager went out of her way to snub him at every turn. The department as a whole became the whipping-boy of the facility, and my boss was chief among the bloody-backs. A lot of commenters here are reading this as hamsters entering crisis mode and just spinning away randomly. That is not correct. What is happening here is that wo…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 11:47 PM
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I don't know a thing about Cara Delevigne Which is why you are missing an angle. Cara Delevingne is a supermodel, literally one of the most famous models in the world. Every woman who has a minimal interest in fashion knows her and since she does both lingerie (high SMV) and haute couture (high social prestige) she's practically at the highest level of female status that you can possibly attain. This would already be the cause of insufferable envy for any other woman, but now she's also making t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 11:34 PM
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That post needs a beta to real world translation because OP is completely clueless: My dad was an abusive alcoholic and my mom never did much other than clean up his messes (figuratively and literally). They both cheated on each other frequently and would use it as ammunition in arguments. "I had shitty parents and terrible role models" I got out of there and spent the next few years working, saving up for and attending college. I met my wife (we'll call her Abby) at university my senior year, h…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 11:20 PM
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shes a woman so naturally she controls the birth No, no she doesn't. It takes two to dance that tango and she doesn't get to decide when you are supposed to impregnate her. This isn't even a redpill concept, even the average bluepill man should understand that he's not supposed to be a sperm dispenser on demand.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:46 PM
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In science, any example of a case which contradicts a theory refutes that theory. The theory then becomes rubbish and is discarded Yeeaaah no. A counterexample to a theory creates a theoretical issue for that theory, and a lot of discussion starts trying to understand: whether that counterexample is real (it could be a false result, or something that has been ill-interpreted) whether it's true that the theory breaks because of that counterexample (for example, the theory might have to be underst…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:42 PM
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There is maybe one woman in those photos who is as hot as this 2000 GBP escort, and professional escorts have discretion as their first value. Frankly I wouldn't know why you'd go to the trouble of trawling philly for bolted-on tits and fake lips like the girl in the first picture, when for the same price you can have an orgy with incredibly hot and impeccably discreet women. It seems to betray a nouveau riche mentality wherein ghetto bitches are still a great status symbol and showing off with …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:05 PM
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tl;dr: I analyze the "slam dunk" piece of "evidence" that proves Bill Cosby was up to shady shit, and demonstrate why it absolutely isn't what people take it to be. This is what has been construed as Cosby admitting to date rape: In a sworn deposition, Cosby answered questions from Constand's attorney, Dolores Troiani. "When you got the Quaaludes, was it in your mind that you were going to use these Quaaludes for young women that you wanted to have sex with?" Troiani asked. "Yes," Cosby replied.…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 02:42 PM
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