I don't know where else to discuss this, but I think /r/TheRedPill is as good of a place on the internet as any.

I'm about 4/5ths of the way through this audiobook, so perhaps there are all the answers at the end, but I've noticed a lack of advice or examples in the book about how to cope or process interactions with the feminine.

For example, Deida describes how the masculine can feel lied to, distracted, or confused by some of the things that the feminine does. For example, in the situation of It's not about the nail the masculine is trying to bring the discussion to a conclusion, solve a problem, where the feminine is expressing feelings and not wanting the conversation to come to an end. The masculine is confused by this.

But what is the suggestion for how to react to a situation like this? The masculine is innately attractive/attracted to the feminine, and is innately confused by it. So in this scenario, is the masculine supposed to stop trying to solve the problem and instead sympathize with the woman, or simply continue to be confused? Because if he starts to sympathize with the woman, then he will be becoming more feminine, but if he stays masculine then he will continue to be confused.

Obviously this is just one example, but it seems like the book leaves the feeling that the masculine and feminine will constantly be at odds, and offers no actual advice on how to cope with these odds without sacrificing your masculinity.