So thanks to TRP I've picked up on my BPD gf's shit tests she throws at me. And I've called them out and shut them down.

I've found out something interesting when she was drinking slightly and attacking my personally calling me "too confident" and to get off my high horse. I shrugged them off and stayed true to who I am and told her she can't change my personality. Then she threatens to stop having sex with me because "she isn't into that".

So here's the kicker, ignore her pitiful threat and go to sleep. And like 30 mins later I'm being woken up to a blow job and I'm fucking her minutes later.

The very next day she tries again and I shut it down and I put my foot down that time. And told her if she doesn't stop she will lose me. Blames me for "threatening the relationship" and goes to sleep.

Later that day when I'm taking her to work she admits that she was testing me, and also said that my masculine energy turned her on. That why she was challenging my personality.

My question is: What's the best way to give off the most masculine energy? What increases it?

This discovery is very interesting to me.