I have 3 plates now and one of them is lost her dad some years ago.

I was abroad for a while and called her to my place to have sex when I returned.

The thing is recently I learned that she has a BF and Ignored that till she started not answering messages.

The Question, I don't think that she is stable enough to fuck but might that be some kind of shit-test. If it is How should I aproach.