Question about Tinder

Renzotl56 · 2018-03-05T19:44:33+00:00

Setting up the date is all about fucking afterwards. Just helps give them plausible deniability and so they don’t feel like the sluts they so truly want to be.

Some girls just want to fuck but don’t want to look bad so they go on “dates” first.

DadOnDabs · 2018-03-05T20:23:35+00:00

99% of girls will not come if you say, "come over let's fuck" if you haven't fucked her before.

I've made it as simple as "let's bake cookies" or "come smoke".

vandaalen · 2018-03-05T19:47:51+00:00

I'm curious if any of you have any experience with just skipping the date altogether, and just meeting up at either your place or hers for sex.

Happens, but rather rarely. Too many chumps behaving like fat girls and trying to bait women into dates with old pictures and wrong info.

Also view it as an opportunity to not end up having to tell a landwhale to fuck off from your place and also not having the crazy women know, where you are living, when you reject them.

message her enough for her to get to know you

Forget about that. It's not possible to escalate over text and just a waste of time and energy. Let aside most women actually find it refreshing if a guy isn't showering them with texts, like all the chumps do. They usually get super curious, because it's such a rarity.

Meeting for a coffee is low effort and acceptable.

RedPillN00B · 2018-03-05T21:45:38+00:00

half my tinder/bumble lays have been exactly this. Find out what type of movies they're into. Then say "I'm pretty mean in the kitchen, swing through, I'll chef somethin mean and throw on a comedy/horror/porn

youcantdenythat · 2018-03-06T00:48:30+00:00

Meet for a drink first, make sure she's not a psycho / land whale / creepy / whatever and that gives her the opportunity to do the same thing.

After the drink and a little kino, invite her back for more drinks at your place and to watch a movie. Once there, more drinks, more kino, take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom or just start licking her pussy right on the couch.

HannibalBacara · 2018-03-05T22:01:47+00:00

If you're in college and reasonably attractive it's honestly not too hard. I just exchange 2-3 back and forths then mention I'm looking for something casual. I've fucked 8-10 girls this school year off tinder alone and 3 of them have become good FWBs.

But since tinder is basically based purely off attraction you need to first of all increase your physical attractiveness through things like: lifting, getting a bit tan, teeth whitening, etc.

Then you need to have your profile filled with good and interesting pics, taken with a good camera preferably.

The good thing about going to a college with 25k people is that there are so many girls to swipe on compared to a normal town. I had my off campus house to myself for the whole weekend so I paid for 1 month of tinder gold so I could just see who liked me and skip swiping for an hour. In one weekend I matched with over 60 girls all reasonably attractive. And since I have pretty high standards I swiped left on probably 100 girls who liked me. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

dzkkne · 2018-03-05T22:37:24+00:00

been on quite a few tinder dates over last year. The scenario that works most of the time is - date 1 - go for drinks, 2 rounds - lots of chat and kino. Date 2 - movie night at yours (yes, you just tell her directly "come for a movie night, I need to test my new projector". If she says yes - bingo, she might try to push for a proper date (never had that) or just gonna say no - means she is not that in to you.

As simple as that

edit: P.S. I find that like shooting a 3-pointer in the game. You practice and you get better. Going for 3, 4, 5 dates is like planning on shooting 3-pointer and ending up going for a lay-up. A lot of time and energy - ask yourself if you have it..

ronmexico8 · 2018-03-06T03:14:46+00:00

The most trustworthy method is to get drinks or something low effort for date 1 and then proceed from there. Unless she's leaving town the next day, you're not going to get many girls to come straight over.

Anecdotal, but the hottest girl I've pulled from Tinder drove an hour to come over and get fucked. She was on the last night of her family beach vacation so that was a rarity. The invitation was to come "hang out."

Title	Question about Tinder
Author	blerner2
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Date	March 5, 2018 7:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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