Question For the Redpillers Using OkCupid

pleasehelpkpopme · 2016-12-29T13:17:09+00:00

I wrote NO FAT CHICKS on the bottom of my profile. Im getting tons of buzz from it. I threw in a qualifier and somewhat chubby women are trying to prove themselves to me, I also demonstrated higher value

MentORPHEUS · 2016-12-29T16:23:28+00:00

The various dating sites are tools meant to perform different tasks. Just as you'd use a hammer drill over a jeweler's drill for concrete, use sites like OKC over Tinder when you want a longer term relationship over a quick hookup.

Even at the plate level, I like long-term relationships with women I can connect to mentally. Therefore, my M.O. is to front-load the screening process by investing a lot of time crafting a detailed, polarizing profile. This pays off by delivering me a small number of highly qualified candidates who are seldom a complete waste of dating time.

Be honest about what you're looking for, and you'll attract candidates who want the same. Check casual sex box as well as the short term dating and friends boxes IF you're genuinely looking for all three; I think you can do without the "friends" one. What looks desperate (or indecisive) is when most or ALL of the boxes are checked.

vandaalen · 2016-12-29T06:34:13+00:00

Fuck OKC. It's the tumbler of dating apps, filled with ugly special vegan snowflakes with bloated egos, waiting with a checklist of what they believe they are entitled to in their daydreaming. Don't have time to digg through all that shit just for sex.

Tinder is where you want to be.

ingenjor · 2016-12-29T12:15:33+00:00

I don't use OKC actively but I have a profile there and I've gotten a couple of messages from girls wanting to hook up in the past year. (Casual Sex box checked).

'tis true, however, that looks-wise OKC girls are a far cry from Tinder girls.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-12-29T15:20:12+00:00

Five pictures, same rules as Tinder/other dating site/app.
No description except height, sexual orientation, some witty bullshit and has dogs.
Answer whatever the fuck you want to answer and don't fake shit.

My profile pretty much yells non committing sex addict and still I get at least 2 matches per week, I don't see why the hate on OKC it only takes 2 minutes of my day, usually while taking a shit, and once the matches are in either it's worth gaming or it isn't.

AchillesHeel77 · 2016-12-29T05:12:09+00:00

To answer your question, leave it blank. It is all BS anyway, however a lot of women on there are looking for Long-term, keep in mind that they will rarely admit to it.

In general I would avoid OkCupid:

My reasoning is, not a lot of quality on there
You will get 6s and below looking for BB, with the assumption that they are queens.
The app is basically a shopping catalogue for women

Ex: I have a lot of education, and I had women looking like 5-6, maybe the odd 7 thinking they were on my level yet they had only completed a High School education with my favourite "Some College" and were doing odd jobs. Their profiles had the classic "hot girl" poses as well, I was disgusted.

Stick to Tinder, and Bumble is decent.

Terdmuffin · 2016-12-29T06:36:19+00:00

Mine is filled out as minimally as possible and I used pretty. Much the same stupid bio I have on my tinder and humble. The only thing I added was my height and that I drink socially.

Title	Question For the Redpillers Using OkCupid
Author	DadOnDabs
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	December 29, 2016 3:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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