Finally back on the dating scene after a while. Spinning 3 plates (virgin included)

So I’ve been with her maybe 1-2 weeks or so. Hung out twice. She gives me blowjobs, rimjobs, etc. “Anything but that”. She’s just terrified of sex. I tried putting a finger in and it won’t go in. Let alone my dick. She keeps saying she wants to do it with me she’s just not sure when she’s going to let go of the fear.

I’m not sure what you guys think. I want to fuck her obviously. I also think she’s fairly cool and want to keep chilling with her. I’m just worried she’s just playing a game. She likes to bring up a lot past encounters she had and it sounds like she’s tried a few times. She’s already given me the “Ive never let a guy get this far” schpeal but I don’t believe an ounce of that. I don’t mind chilling. I do mind going 2+ months and she’s still saying wait. I know attraction can’t be negotiated and while I’m sure being a virgin adds some time, if she was down, she’d be down.