Question on soft-nexting

YesIveReadTheSideBar · 2021-05-07T18:25:56+00:00

No to the verbal warning. Your boundary enforcement needs to be emotion based not so overt. You want them to know they crossed a line because they feel a little bit of anxiety about their standing with you. Do this silently. Change your level of attention given to her. Something to that effect.

If she crossed a line that needs a soft next then don’t say a word just disappear for 2-3 days. Go back to it like nothing happened and see if her behavior repeats itself and if it does that when the hard next comes into play.

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-05-07T18:42:16+00:00

No verbal warnings.

The whole idea is to get her to reflect on her actions. Do some soul searching. Most of the time she's knows exactly what she did wrong.

Alittihad01 · 2021-05-07T18:04:19+00:00

Do you give them a verbal warning and then soft next if they repeat what pissed you off?

never ! because the bitch want to emotionally affect you and if you "say" , it means she did her job well!

when i dm bitches on the gram and they act hard to get or they be like "oh! it's too early for these things." " oh what made you think i accept what you want ?" and these shitty things, i'll never ever reply to them and i go talk to 50 other bitches at the same time!

then i can easily bring some of them out or my place and post some stories! bitches know i talk to other ones if they act like that , but if tell them "okay so i'm gonna talk to somebody else" it's fucked up! means i'm butt hurt

soft next doesn't need to come with any explanation , just do it.

Youngyoda89 · 2021-05-07T19:10:30+00:00

First of all you need to think independently. I’m pretty sure you could figure this out without asking. It doesn’t take a genius. A soft next is just pulling back a little and not giving a fuck ab the consequences.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-05-07T22:54:58+00:00

Just do it like Nike.

Title	Question on soft-nexting
Author	Rashed_69
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	May 7, 2021 5:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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