Questions about game

machimus · 2016-04-12T19:18:38+00:00

Should I be cold approaching as a teenager (17), for example starting a conversation in a coffee shop or something? If yes, are there any tips to begin?

Yeah, approach when you don't need to. For example, chat up the old lady in line at the coffee shop, they love to be charmed. That way there's absolutely no pressure to get results and you can relax and just talk about whatever.

After getting good at that, try this some time: Talk to attractive girls without trying to get anything out of it, no number, no kiss, no nothing. Talk to their boyfriends too. Talk to their girl friends, talk to their squad. Then, sometime before the conversation dies, just say you have to get back to your friends and go. Continue having a good night.

What this accomplishes is getting you comfortable with outcome independence, the key to abundance mentality. IMO more important than abundance mentality.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2016-04-12T20:49:51+00:00

Invite your friends to go out. Decide where you're all going. Decide what you will do there. I do this, and I can keep half a dozen friends having a good time, just by making most of the decisions for them- "okay, we're done with this bar, let's head over to the next one" or "I'm gonna have so-and-so come out, she's bringing pizza, what do you want on it?"

Title	Questions about game
Author	stejul
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	April 12, 2016 6:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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