3 seconds thinking

TBBTEL · 2015-04-15T14:16:45+00:00

That's the whole point of that rule, you walk to her before you get the chance to properly think about it.

You notice someone you'd like to approach -> approach her within 3 seconds so you don't talk yourself out of it.(you just have to take action as soon as you catch yourself thinking)

wedoitlive · 2015-04-15T14:58:32+00:00

You can overcome this problem by giving yourself a new default response to a girl you'd like to open. Give yourself a pre approach routine that works to get your mind in the right state. Instead of the over-thinking, nerve wrecked state your current default routine puts you in.

What I do is I take three deep, relatively slow breaths.

Breath 1: Like a mini meditation. I try to let thoughts go and completely empty my mind. I focus on just the breath itself. Thinking is an enemy pre approach.
Breath 2: I check her out. Look at her how I want and let my mind go where it wants. Lust is a thousand times more powerful than anxiety. So look at her ass, whatever you want, and let the lust flow through you.
Breath 3: I fix the way I'm carrying myself. Slow my actions down. Stand tall and confident. Walk very straight, and with a purpose telling people excuse me instead of walking around. Make myself feel extremely confident, and extremely dominant.

As I finish that up, I start to approach. Really what it's doing is taking my mind off social and societal factors.. And focussing on my primal instincts.

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-15T18:23:16+00:00

Did you read all the sidebar help on Approach Anxiety?

ScepticalProphet · 2015-04-16T04:10:48+00:00

The initial approach is both the most terrifying and most exciting experience ever. You'll learn to love it, but it never stops being a little intimidating.

Title	3 seconds thinking
Author	stejul
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	April 15, 2015 2:02 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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