Quick advice

tiredturtleman · 2019-03-08T06:04:55+00:00

Red flag, soft next until she deletes them

HumptyDumptyFellHard · 2019-03-08T06:32:14+00:00

Address it and have her tell you why they are there.

jsparkle8 · 2019-03-08T06:57:24+00:00

I showed dissinterest this morning before leaving for work but was gonna wait till tonight to mention it, but she’s just texted me saying “do you not wanna be with me?” What would yous reply?

Africa4days · 2019-03-08T12:37:33+00:00

That situation sucks man, I’ve been there a few years back. I wasted my time and stayed because my worth was low, and wasn’t bettering myself.

Unfortunately, she doesn’t respect you enough to not flirt with other guys, and that sucks. I know it hurts especially after investing a year with her.

But do not “sunk cost fallacy” this bitch and chase her thinking you can fix it because you don’t want to lose that year of your life.

It’s time to move on, because it sounds like she already has. Sorry to hear it brother.

rizzyfromthe9 · 2019-03-08T13:04:03+00:00

Don’t talk to here for a week, come back with 5 girls as your best friends on snap, maybe some tinder hoes + messages

markinsinz7 · 2019-03-08T15:53:34+00:00

So yes its s it's a red flag. But it leads to a bigger picture problem. If you are in the ltr to just enjoy the experience then it's no biggie.

I mean all the girls are pretty much like this now days social media is like porn to them. Ask any porn addict how hard it is to quit.

Moreover many of these girls do not know that they shouldn't disrespect their men by accommodating attention from others.

Yes maybe for some seconds their like "I shouldn't do this" but then that thought is pushed aside. Think of it like when you took "just a peek" at porn. An itch they just need to scratch.

It's extremely easy to say 'dump this one and start something new one again and again and again' most girls have red flags, it can take ages to meet a unicorn.

AstuteBlackMan · 2019-03-08T06:16:21+00:00

Red flag. But dont show weakness

Title	Quick advice
Author	jsparkle8
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	March 8, 2019 6:01 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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