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Quick question o a girl flaking

Mostass

September 30, 2020

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Went out with a girl twice, didn't fuck since she was on her period. I proposed for her to come over to my place on Tuesday while on our second date. She seemed really excited to come over to my place and even went as far as to tell me a lot of her kinks and how she likes to get dominated in bed. She constantly kept repeating how she can't wait to see me on Tuesday. Both of the dates went really well and I kept a nice sexual tone for the duration of them.

Yesterday comes and I send her a text to ask if 6 pm is fine for her. She responds with:

Her -Do you mind if we reschedule for another day?

Me -I don't mind

Her - Sorry, something came up

Me - No worries

I usually next them until they text me, but she actually seemed to be really excited to see me, and really turned on by me. I think I could've fucked her on both dates if she was not on her period. I'm thinking of just sending her a text tomorrow and ask if she's free, mostly because I think "striking while the iron is hot" would be the best plan here.

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Title	Quick question o a girl flaking
Author	Mostass
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	September 30, 2020 1:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/j2lr3m/quick_question_o_a_girl_flaking/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/quick-question-o-a-girl-flaking.282838 https://theredarchive.com/post/282838

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[–]WIA20XX11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Problems on the date itself

Practical Problem During the 2nd date - Thirsty. Asking her out for a 3rd date during the 2nd date makes you look eager/thirsty. Minor infraction all things considered.
All Hype No Bang - She got worked up about fucking, and you didn't seal the deal. She's now gonna blame you for the problem she created. It's very normal for these chicks to do this.
Didn't Bang because of her period - Be a fucking man and lay a towel down if necessary. Period is no excuse for not banging, even if you can smell the iron in the blood on your dick. The biggest mistake is letting her sell you on the idea that she only has one taco for your chorizo.

Problems after the date

ASD - Post Date - If she does remember the date, she's gonna home in on all the sex talk, and she's gonna feel like you think of her as a slut, and that if she sees you again, you'll be trying to fuck her. And out of the moment, she doesn't want to feel like a slut. So avoid, avoid, avoid.
Response to her text - There's nothing you can do here. And the best thing to do is to do nothing - i.e. radio silence. "k" is acceptable. "no worries" would only be okay (to you, not to her) if you had other hoes (as bad as this one) in the pipeline and this is just another number. It doesn't sound like you have other hoes as bad as this one, which is why you're asking us something that's pretty elementary.
Failed to mention to us that she didn't come up with an alternative - Maybe you did notice it, but I sure as hell noticed it. If she's not giving you an alt, she's not really trying to fuck with you, you're not really that important.
Misplaced Expectations - Men say what they will do, and do it even if they don't feel like it. Women promise the world and then don't deliver if they don't feel like it. Which leads to...

Misunderstanding of Female Behavior

In the moment, women agree to anything and everything. So the best course of action is to always take the good momentum when you have it, expecting that you'll never see this chick again even if you bang her and you were her best lay EVER. For the day game guys, if the chick gives you traction at 10:37 am - the easiest way to bang her is to turn the day into a date - coffee, walk around, meal, drinks, dessert at your place. Preying that the number will turn into a date is foolish.
The reality of females is that they are not consistent - which is part of their "charm". I.E. fucking any given broad given how flighty they all are, gives you extra ego points. It feels better because it's relatively difficult.
Remember, out of the moment, the chick has to be in the mood and have no social or logistical problems/competition. Chicks will miss out on family and friends and jobs, because of how they feel. So she'll definitely pass on some random guy who didn't fuck her the first 2 nights.

This is hard for men to understand, because we want SEX and will do anything to get it.

Whereas women don't ever seem to want anything at all, until it gets presented to them while they are in the right mood.

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[–]WIA20XX3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

TRP doesn't understand Black Dragon's Next system.

If you don't fuck her, you can't next. Not fucking is her NEXTING YOU.

So there's no "next situation". Moreover, The Red Pill is not a replacement for solid Pick Up Skills. It's the "second chapter of the book".

As for whether or not he should try and get at her again, if he doesn't contact her - there's ZERO chance that she'll trying to contact him. She has power here, and she will continue to have it, as long as he wants to fuck her. Lotta guys get butt hurt over this, and they just can't see the world for what it is.

The real problem here is that if he tries to get at her again, he'll probably fall prey to one-itis. He'll give this whole thing far too much attention trying to fuck some chick he already failed with, rather than learn from it and apply lessons with the next prospect.

But he should do try to contact her anyway, just so that he doesn't build up any regret for not talking to her, and learn the painful lesson of running after a chick that's not trying to fuck.

Maybe she might come through, maybe not. But he's not gonna learn with out getting burned.

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