I've been using Tinder for about a year now and I pretty much exclusively swipe on Asian women. Out of a total of 200 matches (80% Asian), I have probably met around 20 of them and I've only fucked 4 of them. It doesn't help that I am also half black. My white friends have no issues getting Asians. Anyways, I feel like I keep making the same mistakes when I meet up with women. The good news is I just moved right smack in the middle of college town and there are (were) Asians everywhere. But now they all went home for the summer.

Two examples.

A few days ago I went out with this girl. We met up for ice cream and talked and shared stories. She was smiling and strong eye contact. In hindsight I should have sat next to her inside of in front. I eventually said lets get up and walk around. Unfortunately just as we started walking it got extremely windy and was about to thunderstorm. "Maybe it's a sign" she said. Anyways as we were walking back to our cars I suggested we watch xx at my place which she was initially yeah yeah. But when I said let me text you my address she said oh sorry not tonight. I said okay and went to my car. Next day I tried to set something up for next week and got the busy.

Another time, was I met the girl for Sushi, we then walked around for an hour, initially got her to come agree to watch a movie at my place but then when we got to our cars she said actually never mind and I went stupid and tried too hard to persuade her to come over. Otherwise everything seemed fine but I could have honestly kissed her like 1000 times.

It's weird though, I used to go for the handholds pretty quick and it usually worked, except when I tried it on this one girl and she freaked out and I've been wary of that since.

But for the FEW times I actually get to meet up with them a second time I F close on the second date no problem. I'm great at seducing when they are alone with me but in public I feel like I'm lost.

I feel like I need to be more flirty and touchy. Any games you can play that involve touching each others hands?

If it matters, I currently have two girls I fuck on a weekly bases but one went to visit family for a month.

Any advice?